How Do I Get Rid Of This Complex

[nystrongstroke2]

For the life of me,i can not shake the idea of the next chick thinking i'm small when it comes to my dick.I've had every female that i been with attention when it comes to sex but still end up feelin insecure.Is this something we're born with--all jokes aside.At my max with pe i was 8.5 with a 6.5 girth.For me girth was easier to get and the length followed afterward.I've gone back to my ways and probably pe once a week.I lost a inch if not more in both length and girth.I still have had no problem in bottomin out on a female-and still feel small.I know its not the lack of pe because even at my my heaviest of way ins the feelin was still there.I've had my dick sucked(flaccid) in between anotha' womans legs and still felt small--is there something wrong with me?

 

[EVO]

dude, your the classic 8 x 6 that everyone talks about! millions of guys would love a weapon like that, myself included. which ever way you look at it, its big, possibly bordering huge. so dont get yourself down, your problem is all in your head. just reflect on why you want a larger penis, if its to pleasure a woman then youve got the "ideal" size.

 

[a lil more]

For the life of me,i can not shake the idea of the next chick thinking i'm small when it comes to my dick.I've had every female that i been with attention when it comes to sex but still end up feelin insecure.Is this something we're born with--all jokes aside.At my max with pe i was 8.5 with a 6.5 girth.For me girth was easier to get and the length followed afterward.I've gone back to my ways and probably pe once a week.I lost a inch if not more in both length and girth.I still have had no problem in bottomin out on a female-and still feel small.I know its not the lack of pe because even at my my heaviest of way ins the feelin was still there.I've had my dick sucked(flaccid) in between anotha' womans legs and still felt small--is there something wrong with me?

I know how u feel...certain people may always feel that way. You might have ofund security in your measurements and when you lost a little bit, it may have affected you subconsciously. I feel this way a lot as well. Unitl I reach 6" EG I wont feel adequate.

 

[10inchadvantage]

I found that penis self-hypnosis worked well when I was feeling down about my size. It made me feel like I was packing, which I was, but I didn't feel like it. That and I continued to work hard at gains.

 

[O'RileyColt]

Bro it wont end till u start thinking about the QUALITY OF YOUR WOMAN. Over your dick - as it should be.

 

[My05Cavy]

Guy, you are the exact size that almost every man strives for! That is my ultimate dream to be that size, so I think you need to focus more on technique then size. Once you have that down you will be considered legendary in the bed. (Unless if you already are then I don't know whats up lol)

 

[goinfor11x7]

Bro it wont end till u start thinking about the QUALITY OF YOUR WOMAN. Over your dick - as it should be.

O'Riley is right, you know!!! When you start focusing on LOVING YOUR WOMAN AND GIVING TO HER, and not on your dick, you'll start feeling better about yourself. And, of course, an 8" x 6" penis is NOT just large. IT'S HUGE!!!!!! Unless you think the ONE 8" x 6" out of a hundred dicks should not be called "HUGE!"

 

[spinner2]

Research 'Cognitive Behavioral Therapy'. It might help you out some with this complex, and there are some free online websites which can guide you through it. I'm not sure which ones are best.

 

[penguinsfan]

It's definitely a complex and not real. Your size is far above average and in the upper percentiles.

 

[10inchadvantage]

O'Riley is right, you know!!! When you start focusing on LOVING YOUR WOMAN AND GIVING TO HER, and not on your dick, you'll start feeling better about yourself. And, of course, an 8" x 6" penis is NOT just large. IT'S HUGE!!!!!! Unless you think the ONE 8" x 6" out of a hundred dicks should not be called "HUGE!"

Are you even sure that 8x6 is 1/100? I think it's less than 1/1000 to have at or above an 8 x 6 volume sized penis.

 

[goinfor11x7]

Maybe it IS one in a thousand. Volume wise, I know it's damn rare. You'll find 8" dicks but VERY few combined with the 6" girth.

 

[10inchadvantage]

Didn't that LifeStyles survey find that only 1/10000 men had a 6" midshaft girth?

 

[driver1973uk]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size

Check this out. It went some way to helping me come to terms with my size of 7.5 x 5.75. I won't be happy until I'm 8x6 and I want 9x6.5/7 really.

My insecurity (which is what I know it is but that doesn't help does it?) is down to being tall and being told I was small by a previous partner. Also I think seeing my father naked when I was a small boy and he had a 'lazy lob' coming out of the bathroom one morning made me think he was a monster and I was tiny (who knows, maybe he is huge I just haven't asked!!!!).

I'm not sure if I really will b happy when I see 8x6 on the tape but I don't know what else to try. Anyway, it's not as if this stuff is a major chore is it?

 

[bulc9]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size

Check this out. It went some way to helping me come to terms with my size of 7.5 x 5.75. I won't be happy until I'm 8x6 and I want 9x6.5/7 really.

My insecurity (which is what I know it is but that doesn't help does it?) is down to being tall and being told I was small by a previous partner. Also I think seeing my father naked when I was a small boy and he had a 'lazy lob' coming out of the bathroom one morning made me think he was a monster and I was tiny (who knows, maybe he is huge I just haven't asked!!!!).

I'm not sure if I really will b happy when I see 8x6 on the tape but I don't know what else to try. Anyway, it's not as if this stuff is a major chore is it?

Good link that mate,
I had this problem (still kind of got it tho) and i put my relationship under stress because of this! Big mistake! now i realised that my girlfriend is the most important thing to me, Penis Enlargement helps, but your huge neway. You have the size i and most people on here want! I wont stop till i get it tho, but always but girlfriend 1st!

I posted something similar and had alot of important advice from the members here and they all helped me realise this! thank you!

 

[10inchadvantage]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size

Check this out. It went some way to helping me come to terms with my size of 7.5 x 5.75. I won't be happy until I'm 8x6 and I want 9x6.5/7 really.

My insecurity (which is what I know it is but that doesn't help does it?) is down to being tall and being told I was small by a previous partner. Also I think seeing my father naked when I was a small boy and he had a 'lazy lob' coming out of the bathroom one morning made me think he was a monster and I was tiny (who knows, maybe he is huge I just haven't asked!!!!).

I'm not sure if I really will b happy when I see 8x6 on the tape but I don't know what else to try. Anyway, it's not as if this stuff is a major chore is it?

How tall are you? Are you muscular? This girl thought I was average at 8 x 6, probably from my tall, wide body and very big thighs.

However, take away my body size, and my penis looks pretty damned big.

 

[O'RileyColt]

THIS IS HOW YOU GET RID OF IT - WELL AT LEAST START TO.

As a men we need something to define us. Something that gives us pleasure becasue we are the master of it. You need to find other ways than just pe, and a big dick, to define yourself - to yourself and women. Dont put ALL your eggs in the Penis Enlargement basket. Go to gym, start skateboarding, I donno go do something active.

 

[DLD]

For the life of me,i can not shake the idea of the next chick thinking i'm small when it comes to my dick.I've had every female that i been with attention when it comes to sex but still end up feelin insecure.Is this something we're born with--all jokes aside.At my max with pe i was 8.5 with a 6.5 girth.For me girth was easier to get and the length followed afterward.I've gone back to my ways and probably pe once a week.I lost a inch if not more in both length and girth.I still have had no problem in bottomin out on a female-and still feel small.I know its not the lack of pe because even at my my heaviest of way ins the feelin was still there.I've had my dick sucked(flaccid) in between anotha' womans legs and still felt small--is there something wrong with me?

Hey NYS, I hope the advice you have gotten has helped you battle these mental complexes. The penis to all men plays a unique role in their lives, if there were physical laws that governed the human body the penis would have a completely different set. It has a mind of it's own.

Keeping the strength of thought at the forefront of your problem I think the next step is to examine "the word". The word is the most powerful tool we have as intelligent, emotional beings. We use the word to communicate with one another for good and bad. The word, being such a simple thing, effects us in monumental ways. Consider this analogy, a father comes home from work after a terrible day at work, he is frustrated, upset, short of temper. His son was running about the house singing songs (the child aspired to be a singer and he was very talented.) His father, out of anger with himself says, shut up, your voice is ugly. The child hears this and never sings again, he suffers with confidence and the rest of his life he is plagued by insecurities, all because of the word. The word holds infinite power. Another man who used the strength of his word to destroy millions of people was Hitler. So you can see how powerful this is.

Now consider the word used on yourself. This happens everyday in many ways. It might be morning and your think to yourself, "I am happy, today will be great" and this comes to pass. The same thing can happen against ourselves in many ways but we will explore sexual issues. In your case the word(s) is "For the life of me,i can not shake the idea of the next chick thinking i'm small when it comes to my dick" In turn this mental poison festers, it grows and becomes more and more believable as the thought is repeated. So much so that you have already decided that every new girl that comes along is going to think what you think. You believe your word and because of this you have unwarranted fear. It makes no difference what the woman is really thinking because you are making yourself suffer because of a thought process that you have created somewhere in your past. Does she think you are small? Of course not, you are huge. And if you really think about this, you know you are huge but the conflict lays in a debate of reality and fantasy in your mind.

This debate will go on until you use the same word that got you thinking in such a negative way to take you out of it. I know I preach allot about mental penis enlargement and these lessons I give are not just for the men who Penis Enlargement they are for all men. As human beings we are addicted to suffering, we are the only species that punishes ourselves over and over for the same mistake. Animals in the wild make a mistake, learn from it and never suffer anymore for it. But we, through our addiction to suffering, punish ourselves over and over. We are literally in Hell on earth and to make it worse we are surrounded by people who do the same thing.

You need to change the thought, the word, the very thing that put you in this position. Realizing we are suffering for something that is not true is the first step. In your case it is the thoughts that every woman is going to think as you do. As I write this I am sure you see how silly the thought really is. It has no basis in reality, it is only a self-degrading fantasy...admit this to yourself. Next you need to replace the poisoned word with a new thought "I am a good man, I am confident, my mind is healthy, my body is beautiful. My penis is huge, I love my penis" This statement excludes the need to push our thinking on others, it erases the irrational texture of the infected word. It may feel strange at first and it will take time to de-root the old and plant the new but it will happen. Live my these two rules and you will be living in Heaven on earth:

1.) The word is the most powerful tool available to the human race

2.) Never make assumptions.

These two simple rules will eliminate everything you have ever made yourself suffer for.

Mike