Yo I just ended a really unhealthy relations ship. Me and my girl that I lost my virginity to when I was seventeen had one of the most unhealthy relationships. She was my first relationship and It would have been two years in february. I have always been insecure about my member. I was faithful to her the whole time together. Come to find out. She was fucking a guy that used live next to my dad. He lives in his own house now but come to find out, I picked her up from this guys house not knowing where he lived where he did which happens to be down the street from my moms house. This was in july. I just found out about it. On top of that she tells me that I have one of the smallest dicks she has ever seen even though I am right around eight and a quarter. I know that I am not but still she is just fucking with my head because she knows I will trip out about it. Sorry to bore you guys with that story but isn't fucked up how low girls can go sometimes.
Girls can be real bitches
this is what most men fail to see. for the majority of males, you have the "ideal" length, so why would she make fun of you? simply because you show her its a weakness. if a girl told me mine was small i would laugh at her and tell her to find someone bigger, and i bet you she would still hang around.
you will find that comments about your penis will all depend on how YOU percieve it!! strange? yes! but true. if you think you have the perfect penis, your body language will act accordingly and deliver this message to women, do you think they want to make fun of something that is not an issue to you? no way! simply because they dont want to be knocked by you either. a guy who is obsessed about his size will not question her, but question himself. a more confident guy will only question her (and there lies the power....)
you will find that comments about your penis will all depend on how YOU percieve it!! strange? yes! but true. if you think you have the perfect penis, your body language will act accordingly and deliver this message to women, do you think they want to make fun of something that is not an issue to you? no way! simply because they dont want to be knocked by you either. a guy who is obsessed about his size will not question her, but question himself. a more confident guy will only question her (and there lies the power....)
Before we all start bashing all girls it's almost really the same for both sexes. I know buds who cheat and shit on their girlfriends and that's totally uncalled for. But don't worry too much because what goes around comes around. Just keep your head high and learn from your mistakes.
Regarding her trying to obliterate your confidence - generally people that attack others have issues of their own. But this could be a good thing for you. It's usually through adversity where we all figure out how much of a man(or woman for any female readers) we all are. And something tells me that you'll do just fine.
Regarding her trying to obliterate your confidence - generally people that attack others have issues of their own. But this could be a good thing for you. It's usually through adversity where we all figure out how much of a man(or woman for any female readers) we all are. And something tells me that you'll do just fine.
EVO said:
I have had a girl say I didn't have "enough where it counts", referring to my dick, because I wouldn't go over to her house to fuck her like she wanted. I just laughed at her and said I knew she was full of shit.
This made her want me even more and drove her crazy. Fun stuff, confidence really does shine.
Last night in the shower my girlfriend wrapped her fingers around my cock 3/4 down the length after I had gotten done ejaculating and my girth was still not flaccid. She wrapped her fingers around it, then her wrist, and said "Holy shit , you're as thick as my wrist!" Yeah, that's a good feeling right there.
Hmmm....I'd just look at her and say well my penis is small, but you STILL had a good time. I must not be TOO small. Then I'd walk out and never speak to her again. If a girl is going to stoop to that level to hurt you she's really not worth having around.
Go for women, not bitches.
Also, with women you MUST be a man, not another woman.
Also, with women you MUST be a man, not another woman.
10inchadvantage said:
Ah, such words of wisdom. One hard lesson for me to learn, but I did learn it so that's what counts.
hotbox456
She stated that you have one of the smallest dicks she has ever seen, even though you are around 8 1/4 inches. What is this girl a Size-Queen and only been playing with Monster-Cocks?
I had a ex-GF say the same thing to me and I simply told her, "I don't have a small penis, it just you have a Big Hole. I sat on toilet seats with smaller holes."
She was changing the focus from her infidelity to your member.
Don't let her break you down...
She stated that you have one of the smallest dicks she has ever seen, even though you are around 8 1/4 inches. What is this girl a Size-Queen and only been playing with Monster-Cocks?
I had a ex-GF say the same thing to me and I simply told her, "I don't have a small penis, it just you have a Big Hole. I sat on toilet seats with smaller holes."
She was changing the focus from her infidelity to your member.
Don't let her break you down...
I think it's painfully obvious to everyone that she was trying to hurt your ego/feelings/man-hood, and she should be dropped like a bad habit. To resort to basically what equates to name calling is petty and immature. I wouldn't worry about it at all.
MillionMan is correct, she had nothing more to say and resorted to name-calling. Instead of her acting as an Adult and apologize to you for it not working out she had to cover her own insecurities. The best revenge is to live a good life.
Take it as a lesson ... people will come in and out of you life through-out for a reason. Some don't stay as long as you would like and some you wish would leave never do. Look for the positive in all of it and carry it on to the next relationship.
Take it as a lesson ... people will come in and out of you life through-out for a reason. Some don't stay as long as you would like and some you wish would leave never do. Look for the positive in all of it and carry it on to the next relationship.
hotbox456 said:
The penis is such a massive thing, big or small, it commands an attention that is like no other. Women, from the beginning of time, have had an envy of a part of themselves they are lacking, the penis. This creates an inherent, inadequacy that becomes projected on many parts of their lives. A man, in todays fucked up society, is defined by his power and unfortunately the penis is synonymous with power. I guess this is why penis enlargement is so huge.
When there are emotions involved between a man and woman there are particular, natural sequences of defensiveness that incur (male or female). For me, when I am feeling emotional towards a woman, negative or positive, my penis becomes a security blanket or a place of self ridicule. Just like myself, many men rely heavily on their sexuality during intense experiences with the opposite sex. This, as much as we would love to think we can hide from them, is VERY VISIBLE. When you consider how delicate the subject is in our own minds even the smallest insinuation from a female will aggravate this insecurity to no end.
This is easily seen in a positive scenario where a man and woman make satisfying, love and the female compliments the man's size. Regardless of the way he was feeling about himself previous to this comment will be completely replaced or enforced by the compliment. The other side of the same coin involves equally powerful sexual tactics. The same penis that we rely so much on for power by the opposite sex can be stripped in moments by the same woman who at one time made us feel so huge. It is very easy, even if you were Mandingo, the smallest, creatively manipulative comment can reduce a man's confidence to the level most woman feel in penis envy.
I can say, "hey your 8" and your huge and she is full of shit" but these words have very little credence when a female voice of respect deliver the opposite.
You need to see her, women in general on a primitive level and understand that words sent to destroy are usually because the sender feels the need to make themselves feel better.