So here's the story. I'm still a virgin but I now have girlfriend. (Wooooo!!!!) We have done sexual stuff but we are yet to have sex. We're both fresHydromaxen to all this but I can tell that our sex life is gonna be hectic and awesome. The main problem is that my girlfriends vagina is really really small. And I'm talking she can't use tampons because they hurt her. My fingers are quite thin and just an inch from index finger going in gently caused her pain. My dick is fucking huge compared to my index finger so what the fuck are we gonna do!?!?!?! She has always been soaking wet when I have tried it with my finger and that is just too painful for her. Am I just going to have to loosen her up with my finger over the next few weeks before we even try sex because I don't see that being possible any time soon?
Girlfriends pussy is waaay too tight.
- Thread starter kitfisto
- Start date
The pain could also be partly due to her state of mind. Try to find a way to make sure she is relaxed and comfortable. If you two just started dating, she may still feel anxious about sex (even if she says otherwise, people in general can be quite neurotic).
More extensive foreplay (not focused around the pussy) can help calm and relax her. If you just focus on the pussy, you are ignoring 95+% of the rest of her.
More extensive foreplay (not focused around the pussy) can help calm and relax her. If you just focus on the pussy, you are ignoring 95+% of the rest of her.
Xelabou, yeah she still has her hymen. I think I'm the first to ever touch her pussy. And yeah, I'm not going to do any more Penis Enlargement training until my dick can fit comfortably inside her. She thinks my dick is fucking huge!
Girthtacular, that's a good point. I do spend a lot of time kissing other parts of her body but I will try to focus even more on making her relaxed with gentle foreplay. And yeah she may be quite neurotic about sex. She has suffered from depression and anxiety since she was a child so that may be a factor.
Girthtacular, that's a good point. I do spend a lot of time kissing other parts of her body but I will try to focus even more on making her relaxed with gentle foreplay. And yeah she may be quite neurotic about sex. She has suffered from depression and anxiety since she was a child so that may be a factor.
kitfisto;529454 said:
If she still has her hymen then the first time is going to hurt...a lot probably.
Here's 3 words that "opened" up my sex life beyond value, both before and after Penis Enlargement: Lick the Pussy.
Few men are true artists when it comes to pleasing a woman with your mouth, most guys view it as a means to an end.
But if you can become truly legendary at the art of eating pussy... nothing else truly matters.
And she will be so-o-o-o-o relaxed (almost comatose at points) yet so-o-o-o-o aroused that the heights you will both reach together will both astound and frighten you...(just a little)...and that's good too.
Few men are true artists when it comes to pleasing a woman with your mouth, most guys view it as a means to an end.
But if you can become truly legendary at the art of eating pussy... nothing else truly matters.
And she will be so-o-o-o-o relaxed (almost comatose at points) yet so-o-o-o-o aroused that the heights you will both reach together will both astound and frighten you...(just a little)...and that's good too.
And whatever you do, STOP if she asks you to. Nothing will make it worse for her than her not feeling she can trust you. Losing one's virginity is hardly a magical moment, but if you're gentle and mindful of her feelings, her mood, her requests, and most of all her pace, you're much more likely to make it a positive experience for the longer term.
On the other hand, if after popping her cherry she's still too tight, you can always go for the ass
On the other hand, if after popping her cherry she's still too tight, you can always go for the ass
On the night your ready to try make it very romantic.
Have her take a bath, then give her a full body massage. Start at the feet then move up. Work the legs very well, then move to the upper back; come down to the lower back, then the buttocks.
Send your loving energy into her with your hands. This will get her so relaxed and primed.
Then you start everything else, light fingering, pussy eating, soft penetration, etc.
Good luck.
Cheers
Have her take a bath, then give her a full body massage. Start at the feet then move up. Work the legs very well, then move to the upper back; come down to the lower back, then the buttocks.
Send your loving energy into her with your hands. This will get her so relaxed and primed.
Then you start everything else, light fingering, pussy eating, soft penetration, etc.
Good luck.
Cheers
Sex for women really happens in their head, between the ears more than between the legs.
On the night your ready to try make it very romantic.
Have her take a bath, then give her a full body massage. Start at the feet then move up. Work the legs very well, then move to the upper back; come down to the lower back, then the buttocks.
Send your loving energy into her with your hands. This will get her so relaxed and primed.
Then you start everything else, light fingering, pussy eating, soft penetration, etc.
Good luck.
Cheers
On the night your ready to try make it very romantic.
Have her take a bath, then give her a full body massage. Start at the feet then move up. Work the legs very well, then move to the upper back; come down to the lower back, then the buttocks.
Send your loving energy into her with your hands. This will get her so relaxed and primed.
Then you start everything else, light fingering, pussy eating, soft penetration, etc.
Good luck.
Cheers
Try not to double post, Powersnake. You could have edited your post to include the part you missed on the first time of posting, rather than making a second post.
Kitfisto, Not sure if you have done the deed or not, but if you haven't...
The first time is terrible. For both parties. Nobody that I have ever met has said they had good sex the first time around. She's gonna get sore and you'll find it hard to enter her as it's so tight and in the end neither of you will have come from the intercourse and then you'll fall asleep saying about how you just have to try again.
The second time it'll be better until you nail it and it'll be good from then on.
Please do not put all your effort and thought into this first time, because it'll make it uncomfortable. Just let it happen, and it'll be fine. You have nothing to worry about. She is just as inexperienced as you and it's a learning curve for the both of you.
Let us know how you get/got on.
Kitfisto, Not sure if you have done the deed or not, but if you haven't...
The first time is terrible. For both parties. Nobody that I have ever met has said they had good sex the first time around. She's gonna get sore and you'll find it hard to enter her as it's so tight and in the end neither of you will have come from the intercourse and then you'll fall asleep saying about how you just have to try again.
The second time it'll be better until you nail it and it'll be good from then on.
Please do not put all your effort and thought into this first time, because it'll make it uncomfortable. Just let it happen, and it'll be fine. You have nothing to worry about. She is just as inexperienced as you and it's a learning curve for the both of you.
Let us know how you get/got on.
Medicating;537055 said:
Sorry Med. I did edit it. Must have done something incorrectly. Delete it if possible.
Powersnake12;537169 said:
It's fine, just try and remember next time!
Look into this term:
vaginismus.
Rule this before assuming it's too tight or you are doing something wrong.
If this is her condition then only a gynecologist will know how it should be dealt with. Do not force it, vaginismus is something that can be overcome but sometimes involves some kind of therapy.
Look into it and discuss it with her.
Peace,
Mike
vaginismus.
Rule this before assuming it's too tight or you are doing something wrong.
If this is her condition then only a gynecologist will know how it should be dealt with. Do not force it, vaginismus is something that can be overcome but sometimes involves some kind of therapy.
Look into it and discuss it with her.
Peace,
Mike