Getting Out of My Head

[TheBurner]

Guys, curious to hear your take on this issue. Since I began Penis Enlargementing, my sex life with my girlfriend improved 10-fold. I'm bigger, thicker, and able to last longer.

However, there have been a few times over the last month where I haven't been able to stay hard. Saturday was one of these times, and it bothers me because I took a Viagra like 10 minutes before we started fooling around.

I think that it was due to me being nervous about whether or not I'd stay hard instead of just letting loose and enjoying it (plus condoms suck!) but is there any advice you have to get out of my head?

With a Viagra and my bigger penis there should be no reason I can't stay hard... my girlfriend's extremely sexy and I'm rock hard all day around her, but for whatever reason, when we went to do it these few times it didn't happen.

 

[8InchMIKE]

Don't worry dude, you are fine...

It is called anxiety, performance anxiety.

Don't take a viagra if you don't have ED. Take a chill pill instead. Something natural, to calm you down, unwind.

Relax, that is pretty common among Humans.

Peace

Mike

 

[AdmiralLongDong]

I don't really understand why guys take viagra if they don't have to. It's not like you always need to have a 4 hour long erection do you?

If it goes soft just kiss her for a while. It'll get hard when it's ready. Take your time. Relax!

 

[TheBurner]

Well that's the thing... once it goes soft, I find that it gets in my head and it's hard to get hard again... as in my libido just goes away because I'm worrying too much.

Other times we have sex and it's fantastic, I'm hard even after cumming. Maybe it has to do with if I cum or not recently. I hadn't cum in a few days when I saw her this weekend and the first time we had sex, Friday, it was great, I was rock hard. Then I came.

The next day, in the morning, it was tough to stay super-hard.

 

[seekngirth]

May I suggest you have a lil wine, or have a beer.

Just one or 2 though, not too many ... then you really won't perform.

You sound like you are over thinking it, and any time I do that, I have the same problem. Just go with the flow, don't worry about it, she's your GF, not a girl who hasn't been with you, so there's really nothing to worry about.

 

[pepepe]

Don't worry dude, you are fine...

It is called anxiety, performance anxiety.

Don't take a viagra if you don't have ED. Take a chill pill instead. Something natural, to calm you down, unwind.

Relax, that is pretty common among Humans.

Peace

Mike

spot on

 

[longhorns87]

sometimes my EQ won't be as good if i hit Penis Enlargement really hard a few days in a row..a day off makes a big difference..

 

[TheBurner]

Yeah, that's a good idea, maybe lay off the Penis Enlargement for a day before seeing her. The issue with her being someone I'm with and not someone I've never been with before is that the reason I started Penis Enlargementing in the first place was because I lacked confidence in bed with my penis. Now, in about 5 months, I've gone from 6.1 x 4.9 BPenis EnlargementL/EG to 6.95/5.3 BPenis EnlargementL/EG, a massive difference. My dick isn't the problem anymore, at all, it's my head.

We actually took a break a few months ago, before I started Penis Enlargement, because of my confidence issues which translated into our sex life, making it subpar. Since Penis Enlargement, our sex life has been much better, but every now and then this happens, making me fall a bit back into the old me.

I think it's a combination maybe of the Penis Enlargementing and cumming. For instance, if we had sex every three days or something, I don't think it would be a problem. After not cumming for 4 days and then having sex with her and cumming though, my libido wasn't as strong.

I just need to get out of my head and make myself KNOW she won't end this because of that. My dick isn't the problem at all.

 

[Asanon]

sometimes my EQ won't be as good if i hit Penis Enlargement really hard a few days in a row..a day off makes a big difference..

++!

There's psychogenic (brain/erotic) and reflexogenic (direct stimulation) components for an erection.

Obviously getting stressed out will mess with one of those. So can the temporary tissue damage done during Penis Enlargement. Put the two together in the same place and time and you could get problems.

There's some smooth muscle layers surrounding the sinusoids that trap blood within the penis. They have to swell and shut off the outflow veins, and keep doing it, or you won't get a full erection.

Penis Enlargement (or rather, the by-products of swelling and healing) can interfere with proper nitric oxide (etc) production that normally produces a full erection.

There's like a sliding scale of how much stimulation or erotic excitement (N.O. and PGE-1 neurotransmitter release, etc) is 'enough' to produce a full erection. Usually (unless healing or stressed out) you should have more than enough.

Also the levels can vary from any moment to the next, so that's why you can start our with a great wood but then lose it.

If you're healing from some Penis Enlargement, the normal mechanisms are being interfered with a little bit so it's important to have your brain (excitement), and if possible your heart (emotions), involved in the matter.

I just need to get out of my head

Bingo. Don't make it about performance vs failure. That's -work-.

Like she is, ... -You- should be be involved and happy and excited too, not stressed out about putting on a show.

*

 

[TheBurner]

Yeah, it's just a lot easier said than done. For instance, the other day, I was rock hard the entire day around her and she loved it. Then we went to have sex, and once I put the condom on and had to go slow at first to ease my dick inside, that, combined with having to support myself on the bed, I guess, tired me out. Maybe some consistent cardio to increase my [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] or an energy drink beforehand can help as something to get me back on track.

 

[samzman]

it happens to every guy sooner or later. sucks but hey. next time you're up and at em just fuck her twice as hard
ha

 

[longhorns87]

Same here buddy.

I have confidence issues myself, and my ex took off for a month because of it..

 

[DLD]

it happens to every guy sooner or later. sucks but hey. next time you're up and at em just fuck her twice as hard
ha

Some guys never get that chance

 

[AxeMaster911]

yah its the worst when that happens on a one night stand but too much booze doesn't help an erection which is fact

 

[longhorns87]

^^^ Kinna a trade off.

It will hurt your physical ability to get an erection, but it may help nervousness and the psychological aspect.

 

[AdmiralLongDong]

Just stopping back in so I don't remember who said it, but a month ago when I was hitting the Penis Enlargement realy hard I also had a night of squashy cock. kind of half limp thing. I soldiered on with my bendy, but I did have my own freak out. I was worried I'd broken it with Penis Enlargement. LOL

It's been fine since.

I am wondering if you use Viagra all the time you may have developed a tolerance to it. Most drugs have that problem.

 

[TheBurner]

No I haven't used it. I ordered some recently to try it and I have only taken it for like a week, and not everyday, just when we were going to have sex/fool around.

 

[seekngirth]

Yeah, it's just a lot easier said than done. For instance, the other day, I was rock hard the entire day around her and she loved it. Then we went to have sex, and once I put the condom on and had to go slow at first to ease my dick inside, that, combined with having to support myself on the bed, I guess, tired me out. Maybe some consistent cardio to increase my [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] or an energy drink beforehand can help as something to get me back on track.

Working out is a BIG deal. I can say that for me, weight lifting and doing cardio has always been a big advantage in the sexual department. I know it improves my blood flow down there, and [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] is a non-issue. Not to mention weight lifting increases testosterone and therefore improves your sex drive (and aggression )