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doublelongdaddy;761034 said:
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doublelongdaddy;761155 said:
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Forgot to add....
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huge-girth;761251 said:
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cladre60;761345 said:I'm kind of jealous
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doublelongdaddy;761495 said:
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cladre60;761555 said:
Yes I get your point. Using something that looks like a vaginal when you are in a relationship should be tagged as a form of cheating. I'd be angry if I am the lady.
huge-girth;761588 said:
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At least that's how women SHOULD think. Man's need for ejaculation is a physical and primal need. Women don't understand that.
cladre60;761660 said:
Well, after a second thought I realize you have a point. If the lady is in support of it, then it's a welcome development
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Chaoskampf;761666 said:
Even with a monstrous penis most ladies still have trouble from coming from sex?
huge-girth;761681 said:
This question can only be answered by yourself.
I don't have much experience with girls but I got open ears for all these topics. Since many girls only come from stimulation of the clitoris it is a little bit tricky regardless of how large the penis is. I have heard that many women are not in touch with their sexuality since they didn't invest enough attention in order to learn about their own body. For some reason sexuality is in their talking or channeled through other means. Listen to them when they are alone - they talk sex all the time but don't act it out for some reason.
Ladies need a good lover. A tough guy, someone with status, a good talker or a charismatic man or you name it. If the man represents something it should be helpful for her to come hard.
Obviously not every girl is like that. I never really licked a pussy. I wouldn't know how to do it right. It is very important if one would want to pleasure girls. See how girls stroke a cock? They stand on the opposite side and her hand grabs the penis with the little finger pointing to the tip of the penis. Nobody would masturbate like this. As a result everything is not the same. They also have little idea on how to stroke. I guess that would have to be learned. I would describe masturbation as kneading the shaft, they think about it like stroking up and down.
Huge and Chaos I'll give you my experiences with women.
Some women can orgasm from penetration and some cannot or it is very difficult for them. It all depends on her and they're all different. The clitoris isn't a little thing, the nerves run along the top wall of the vagina and a little ways back it splits, the whole thing is a Y shape. Depending on the tilt of her pelvis and the shape of your penis your head could be rubbing along that with every stroke. Being able to get your penis all the way in can also help as when you're grinding on each other your pubic area is rubbing her clitoris. Again you're penetrating but her clitoris may be the thing gives her an orgasm. So the clitoris can be simulated during penetration.
Personally I've been lucky in that the only women who haven't had orgasms with me also told me they never had an orgasm. Didn't matter what I did to them it just wasn't happening. That was all in their heads and I can't fix that.
Penis size can help during sex. Thicker creates more pressure and simulates more nerves, some of which are the clitoral nerves running along the upper wall. Length can help as well for hitting the anterior and/or posterior fornix. Paying attention and giving her what she wants when she wants it is the most important. Do what feels good to your penis to get things rolling. Our parts are meant to be together so what feels good to one feels good to the other. Follow her reactions to get her screaming.
Eating pussy is beyond fun if she tastes and smells good. You can and should focus on the clitoris. That doesn't mean just use the tip of your tongue and hope for the best. Start licking everywhere to make sure she's getting wet and aroused. Then attack the clitoris. Use the tip of your tongue. Then give it broad, flat licks and add more pressure. Suck on it. Pull your tongue back in and use your lips. Don't ignore the rest of her though. You can do all these things on the rest of her pussy too. The right amount of direct clitoral simulation combined with some anticipation and working the rest of her, if you're doing it right, will have her going nuts.
They're all different though. I've had some women just lay there and their breathing and moaning guided me. Others will grab your head and hold it where they want it. Some will lock their legs around your head so you have to lick their clit. Others will use their hands to spread open and fully expose their clitoris. I prefer working them up slowly and keeping them on the edge. Keep her there long enough and the inner animal will unleash. Then you'll see how wild she can be in bed.
Some women can orgasm from penetration and some cannot or it is very difficult for them. It all depends on her and they're all different. The clitoris isn't a little thing, the nerves run along the top wall of the vagina and a little ways back it splits, the whole thing is a Y shape. Depending on the tilt of her pelvis and the shape of your penis your head could be rubbing along that with every stroke. Being able to get your penis all the way in can also help as when you're grinding on each other your pubic area is rubbing her clitoris. Again you're penetrating but her clitoris may be the thing gives her an orgasm. So the clitoris can be simulated during penetration.
Personally I've been lucky in that the only women who haven't had orgasms with me also told me they never had an orgasm. Didn't matter what I did to them it just wasn't happening. That was all in their heads and I can't fix that.
Penis size can help during sex. Thicker creates more pressure and simulates more nerves, some of which are the clitoral nerves running along the upper wall. Length can help as well for hitting the anterior and/or posterior fornix. Paying attention and giving her what she wants when she wants it is the most important. Do what feels good to your penis to get things rolling. Our parts are meant to be together so what feels good to one feels good to the other. Follow her reactions to get her screaming.
Eating pussy is beyond fun if she tastes and smells good. You can and should focus on the clitoris. That doesn't mean just use the tip of your tongue and hope for the best. Start licking everywhere to make sure she's getting wet and aroused. Then attack the clitoris. Use the tip of your tongue. Then give it broad, flat licks and add more pressure. Suck on it. Pull your tongue back in and use your lips. Don't ignore the rest of her though. You can do all these things on the rest of her pussy too. The right amount of direct clitoral simulation combined with some anticipation and working the rest of her, if you're doing it right, will have her going nuts.
They're all different though. I've had some women just lay there and their breathing and moaning guided me. Others will grab your head and hold it where they want it. Some will lock their legs around your head so you have to lick their clit. Others will use their hands to spread open and fully expose their clitoris. I prefer working them up slowly and keeping them on the edge. Keep her there long enough and the inner animal will unleash. Then you'll see how wild she can be in bed.
Chaoskampf;761691 said:
Most of the ladies I have had sex with after a girth work out do cum during sex even if they don't say it but I am able to tell from their body movement and sounds. When you say a man should have a status, do you mean something like a known person? A public figure or something like that?
cladre60;761703 said:
Eating pussy and having a big dick is a wonderful combination. I really want to have sex with my temporary expansion and see how it goes.
cladre60;761787 said:
Can't still believe I have not had sex this year. I'm looking forward to it knowing fully well that my temporary expansion is now bigger than it has ever been
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doublelongdaddy;761786 said:
One man's food is another man's poison.
huge-girth;761884 said:
Go out and get some. You're going to find that your current length is pretty big. Don't ask what she thinks of your size or act like you're big either. If she comments on it just blow it off and act like you thought your penis was average. If you get cocky about your size she'll rent a room in your head and paint it with a nice color of "I've had plenty that were bigger."
cladre60;761906 said:
I need to beat the 6 months mark first (more like first half in football) before I can have sex. I was actually holding it till September because I believe using the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]length master[/words] consistently for 1 hour daily will give 1 inch length in 8 months. So maybe I'm going to wait until 14th of September before having sex. I want to have sex when I get to 8 inches length because I believe it will help me decide whether I really need that 9 inches or not.
I want a woman to squirt for me, I've never experienced it before. Most people who did it said they were around the 8.5 inches mark in length. So you see why I'm going to 9 inches length?
doublelongdaddy;762040 said:More rules? lol
You are the one who came up with all the rules by asking me to measure my flaccid and erect length. If I ignore all this measurement talk, I won't bother myself about the rules. As long as I'm seeing gains that's all that matters. Left to me, I don't want to ever measure, I prefer the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words] sticker as my guide.
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cladre60;762089 said:
I'm not doing it right, I don't romance that much. I need to pay special attention to meaningful foreplay henceforth when I have a girlfriend.
Oh yeah, you have to be in their head as much as their vagina in a relationship. If a woman is even slightly irritated with you sex isn't won't cure it. They've gotta want you for more than being your personal cum receptor to keep a relationship going.
Foreplay isn't always necessary depending on her. Sometimes they're ready for sex before you are, other times the foreplay can go on forever. If you think you're going to be quick extended foreplay can make up for it as the whole thing then becomes about that experience, not just penetration.
Foreplay isn't always necessary depending on her. Sometimes they're ready for sex before you are, other times the foreplay can go on forever. If you think you're going to be quick extended foreplay can make up for it as the whole thing then becomes about that experience, not just penetration.
cladre60;762159 said:
I've not been in a relationship for some months now. Actually, I don't want any thing to do with a relationship for the rest of this year. If I go into relationship, hiding PE would be difficult and that's a big issue for me.
huge-girth;762185 said:
If I ever had to start over in another relationship I think I'd put a ban on sex for 30 days after meeting the "right girl" to actually get to know her. I sometimes let my emotions for someone get intermixed with great sex. I think it would be interesting to actually establish that by a 2nd or 3rd date. "I really like you and absolutely want to get to know all about you. Because of that I don't want to jump in bed too soon. Let's give it a month, enjoy the anticipation while really figuring each other out." Or words to that effect.
That would let you know if she's interested in you or just wants something from you for most women. If she balks at the idea you know she's either going to try to use the power of her vagina to get into your life or you're just a fling to her. Some women are patient enough to wait it out though if you've got something she wants. It wouldn't totally separate the liars from the sincere ones but it would help.
It wouldn't stop me from as much casual sex as possible prior to meeting a girl I thought was right for me. It would simply stop vagina from trying to control me. It would also make for some unbelievable sex after 30 days if she really was the right girl, both physically and emotionally.
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cladre60;762210 said:
Unicorn hunting
Big Schwanz Acht;762242 said:Unicorn hunting
They're out there. A good woman realizes that the right man is just like a dog. Keep him fed and give him the right attention and the dog will stick by your side until he dies. He may wander off and sniff around but he knows where home is and will always return.
If I had to start over I'd be looking for a woman who understands those simple concepts.
cladre60;762210 said:
What you have written made some sense but the sad thing about my country is that, if you ask a girl out on a date and make your intention known, she will mostly ask you for some financial favor before sex comes in. It's very difficult to dodge the bullet (them asking for financial assistance before sex). It's more like prostitution to me. Even if you delay having sex, they are still going to ask you for money. The women in my country sees a relationship as a poverty alleviation program. Our men are known to be wasteful when asking a woman out because we all have adapted to the backward idea of spending on a woman before sex.
As a matter of fact, if you can't take care of a lady financially in Nigeria, forget about relationships. You won't be able to date a pretty lady. We have some very good ones but a vast majority of the pretty ladies in my country have this problem so I don't want any woman in my life at all as far as Nigeria is concerned. I doubt if I will even marry my country woman
On one hand I wish we in the US we still able to live where only 1 income was needed to survive because it sounds like women there don't work. But wanting something from you just to be dating and having sex is horrible. Might as well just get a prostitute every time you want to have sex.
cladre60;762356 said:
They work but they have this entitlement mentality like 'my boyfriend is my ATM'
I'm the relationship kind of guy. If I have my way, I will prefer to be with only one woman because I don't like sleeping around. But I also have a high taste when it comes to women so that's where the problem is.
It is rare now to see people talk about the fleshlight on the forum. It seems people have abandoned it.
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