ERECTION QUALITY & PLEASURE LOSS

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MikeShlort

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I have a problem.

I am unable to stay hard during intercourse. After like 30 seconds, I start to lose my erection, then I start to think about it, then it's just over.

Anyone have any tips or tricks for me? Exercises?

Does anyone who hangs experience this problem?

Missionary position is boring, I've always had this problem in that position, although the best sex I've ever had was in this position and there were many times where I was rock hard and able to go for awhile in this position. I have smoked a lot of crack and broken things since then, though. And have realized that smoking crack and breaking things feels so much better than sex. At least sex with someone I don't have feelings for.

Maybe I'm just fucked? I wake up with morning wood often and would say I can get an erection easily, but the feeling of entering a tight hole is not so great for me and I tend to think to myself "wow, this is stupid" when I am on top going in and out, then just lose my erection and feel worse than a two bit cock slut.

I could use some advice on the matter. I'd rather not die alone/go to jail/walk around lethargic etc.

Thanks.
 
I have a problem.

I am unable to stay hard during intercourse. After like 30 seconds, I start to lose my erection, then I start to think about it, then it's just over.

Anyone have any tips or tricks for me? Exercises?

Does anyone who hangs experience this problem?

Missionary position is boring, I've always had this problem in that position, although the best sex I've ever had was in this position and there were many times where I was rock hard and able to go for awhile in this position. I have smoked a lot of crack and broken things since then, though. And have realized that smoking crack and breaking things feels so much better than sex. At least sex with someone I don't have feelings for.

Maybe I'm just fucked? I wake up with morning wood often and would say I can get an erection easily, but the feeling of entering a tight hole is not so great for me and I tend to think to myself "wow, this is stupid" when I am on top going in and out, then just lose my erection and feel worse than a two bit cock slut.

I could use some advice on the matter. I'd rather not die alone/go to jail/walk around lethargic etc.

Thanks.
 
Viagra, preferably from India as it is crazy strong. Get the most you can for what you can afford because they truly work each and every time, as long as you are turned on. They are in no way physically addictive but they can sometimes become mentally addicting. There is no long term effects that are so bad that in can not be used as a general pill during sex. I took it every time I had sex when I was active and it worked amazing. The best place is XLPharmacy....I refuse to give a link because they do not pay commissions but that does not take away from their products effectiveness. The generic form is just fine in 100mg tabs.
 
MikeShlort;532110 said:
I have a problem.

I am unable to stay hard during intercourse. After like 30 seconds, I start to lose my erection, then I start to think about it, then it's just over.

Anyone have any tips or tricks for me? Exercises?

Does anyone who hangs experience this problem?

Missionary position is boring, I've always had this problem in that position, although the best sex I've ever had was in this position and there were many times where I was rock hard and able to go for awhile in this position. I have smoked a lot of crack and broken things since then, though. And have realized that smoking crack and breaking things feels so much better than sex. At least sex with someone I don't have feelings for.

Maybe I'm just fucked? I wake up with morning wood often and would say I can get an erection easily, but the feeling of entering a tight hole is not so great for me and I tend to think to myself "wow, this is stupid" when I am on top going in and out, then just lose my erection and feel worse than a two bit cock slut.

I could use some advice on the matter. I'd rather not die alone/go to jail/walk around lethargic etc.

Thanks.
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Time for real talk. Mike, from what I can tell you hate women and I think that could be a big part of the problem because while you hate them you still want to have sex with them. I think that's what's keeping you from being turned on and just enjoying sex. I've dealt with sexual anxiety before and it always boiled down to something I was thinking. That and I was basically celibite for 7 fucking years.

Now, having said that, while I work on the mental part I bought some cialis and just knowing it's there has done wonders for my confidence. Consider that the way you view women is messing with your head and also quit smoking crack.
 
Nobody can help you until you're fully, completely, inexorably dedicated to helping yourself.
First step is you gotta quit polluting your mind; mentally, chemically, psychologically.
Until then any help anyone offers is just crack smoke.

Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
 
I haven't smoked crack/smoked anything/used any drug (aside from alcohol) in long time. I guess the sarcasm is lost in translation. I haven't eaten chocolate fudge in years either. Doesn't mean I can't say I prefer eating chocolate fudge to watching women's basketball.

Thanks for the intervention but I am looking for real help, not a lecture. I am actually quite fit and healthy (physically).

Looking for exercises, supplement/natural herbs, helpful anecdotes, tips, techniques etc.

The advice regarding my mental condition is probably right and is probably helpful.

Thanks.
 
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All we know about you is what you post.
What kind of actual help, besides a lecture, did you honestly expect over your computer screen?
 
MikeShlort;532199 said:
Looking for exercises, supplement/natural herbs, helpful anecdotes, tips, techniques etc.
Thanks.
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I'd also like to know if anyone has experienced this while hanging or doing any other strenuous daily Penis Enlargement exercises.
 
Who are you to delete my thread, anyways? I posted it in the proper section. What if I wanted to keep it separate from my progress thread?
 
Not deleted, just merged.
If you want to keep it separate from your progress thread than a duplicate post in that self-same progress thread
was probably not the best choice you could have made.

Duplicate threads are the reason that the "Merge Thread" exists.

MikeShlort;532203 said:
Who are you to delete my thread, anyways? I posted it in the proper section. What if I wanted to keep it separate from my progress thread?
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MikeShlort;532199 said:
I haven't smoked crack/smoked anything/used any drug (aside from alcohol) in long time. I guess the sarcasm is lost in translation. I haven't eaten chocolate fudge in years either. Doesn't mean I can't say I prefer eating chocolate fudge to watching women's basketball.

Thanks for the intervention but I am looking for real help, not a lecture. I am actually quite fit and healthy (physically).

Looking for exercises, supplement/natural herbs, helpful anecdotes, tips, techniques etc.

The advice regarding my mental condition is probably right and is probably helpful.

Thanks.
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Yeah, I didn't get the sarcasm. It sounded like you were saying you were still smoking thus my response. You could give horny goat weed a try. I've never used it but some people on here seem to believe it works. Additionally L-Arginine is a great blood flow supplement. However, I'll say this, if you're able to get hard and edge, etc then it's not a physical problem. You were talking a while back about quitting masturbating and pornography. I know you slipped up a bit (we all do) but if you haven't had sex in a long time and have just been jerking it to adult entertainment then you may need some mental reset time. If you're thinking that sex is ridiculous while you're having it then A) you're not engaged in the sexual act with the person you're having sex with and/or B) you've been jerking it to adult entertainment so long you can't relate to another person's touch. Both require a reassessment. Obviously, having a girlfriend I really like and having good sex with her leads me to have an outlook that differs from yours regarding "cocksluts". I'm also in my mid-30s and I do want to get married and have some kids at some point and I need a certain kind of person to do that. Regardless, look into your mental outlook on women. If you're just wanting to have sex to use people then I think you're going to run into a lot more sexual dysfunction. All that stuff aside, I bought Cialis from XLPharmacy and I've been using it about once a week just so that I can get in a habit of having sex without anxiety (which I had a lot of). Now, will that cause me problems down the road? The science seems to say no and it's my mental state that needs reinforcement. I'm working on that but to also lose a chance to be with this girl who really is fantastic because my head's not together was unacceptable to me.

I hope that helps in some way.
 
MAXAMEYES;532204 said:
Not deleted, just merged.
If you want to keep it separate from your progress thread than a duplicate post in that self-same progress thread
was probably not the best choice you could have made.

Duplicate threads are the reason that the "Merge Thread" exists.
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You're quite right, that's why that 10 minute time limit to edit your own posts needs to be extended or gotten rid of completely.
 
Good stuff, Neo. It is both A and B. I felt weird with her, as she is a friend, but more importantly, I am used to jacking it to adult entertainment since like age 15. Even though in the past year, I have gradually cut down to almost nothing.

Since Nov, I have only jacked it to adult entertainment thrice and masturbated without adult entertainment maybe 10 times. I usually go 2-3 weeks then wack off a few times in 1-2 days then stop again.

I wonder if just never jacking off again is an answer? My penis seems to be used to the feel of my hand and reliant on it to stay hard.

Even more, I have to see genitals to get and stay aroused. that's why missionary has always been a problem. I enjoy watching mine go in and out of hers. The feel alone is not enough, because it doesn't feel all so great. Sex is supposed to be the best feeling in the world, but I could list loads of things that feel better to me.

Sex seems more like work than anything. A task. I remember it being good in the past, but like I said, my mind has become a lot more dysfunctional since.

I think the way you described your use of cialis is a good idea. I just would be afraid to become reliant on it. But I can see how using it like training wheels can work.

I think it probably is a mental thing. I wake up with erections all night and can get erect on my own. It just seems like I start thinking about the act during the act, how ridiculous it is, then I feel my penis bend, and it is all over from there. Not really sure how people do it, but then again, I'm not sure how anybody does anything.

It's frustrating that I was better at it when I was a filthy addict, even though I was terrible in comparison to anyone else. Maybe I just need to find a smoking hot cockslut to try it out on and see if I have the same response. Which will be difficult.

It's a shame all the adult entertainment I've watched. Definitely have been desensitized. I wonder if that ever wears off? I remember when I was young, I'd get erect for a year just from the thought of cleavage or tight pants. Now I need to see smoking hot girls squirting from huge cocks just to ejaculate. And I can't afford that.
 
Can an admin please put my thread back in the proper section where it used to be, with all the other progress threads?... There are 29 pages of Penis Enlargement routines, articles and daily logs with tons of useful information. There is no use having it in the sexuality section just because my latest post was a question in regards to sexuality. If I could have edited, I would have deleted that post from this thread right after making a separate thread on the topic in the appropriate section.

Thanks.
 
MikeShlort;532258 said:
Good stuff, Neo. It is both A and B. I felt weird with her, as she is a friend, but more importantly, I am used to jacking it to adult entertainment since like age 15. Even though in the past year, I have gradually cut down to almost nothing.

Since Nov, I have only jacked it to adult entertainment thrice and masturbated without adult entertainment maybe 10 times. I usually go 2-3 weeks then wack off a few times in 1-2 days then stop again.

I wonder if just never jacking off again is an answer? My penis seems to be used to the feel of my hand and reliant on it to stay hard.

Even more, I have to see genitals to get and stay aroused. that's why missionary has always been a problem. I enjoy watching mine go in and out of hers. The feel alone is not enough, because it doesn't feel all so great. Sex is supposed to be the best feeling in the world, but I could list loads of things that feel better to me.

Sex seems more like work than anything. A task. I remember it being good in the past, but like I said, my mind has become a lot more dysfunctional since.

I think the way you described your use of cialis is a good idea. I just would be afraid to become reliant on it. But I can see how using it like training wheels can work.

I think it probably is a mental thing. I wake up with erections all night and can get erect on my own. It just seems like I start thinking about the act during the act, how ridiculous it is, then I feel my penis bend, and it is all over from there. Not really sure how people do it, but then again, I'm not sure how anybody does anything.

It's frustrating that I was better at it when I was a filthy addict, even though I was terrible in comparison to anyone else. Maybe I just need to find a smoking hot cockslut to try it out on and see if I have the same response. Which will be difficult.

It's a shame all the adult entertainment I've watched. Definitely have been desensitized. I wonder if that ever wears off? I remember when I was young, I'd get erect for a year just from the thought of cleavage or tight pants. Now I need to see smoking hot girls squirting from huge cocks just to ejaculate. And I can't afford that.
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For me, a lot of it (maybe ALL of it) was just about re-engaging with real life. I spent a lot of years single and working my ass off for the USG and fighting depression in a place I hated with people I mostly didn't like. I'm not saying that to say poor me but to say that I got out of that situation and started actively replacing negative thoughts with happy and positive ones. It's still a struggle some days. Today was rough actually but I got through it. Like DLD says, your thoughts determine your reality (or something to that effect).
 
What section is the thread supposed to be in?
 
doublelongdaddy;533501 said:
What section is the thread supposed to be in?
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Oh an admin (EDIT: MAXAMEYES inserting the name MAXAMEYES here)had merged this thread into my progress thread for some reason, that post was from when it was in the progress thread, but he moved it back to here so it's all good. Thanks though
 
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Yeah, I am feeling like I might have become desensitized as of late. I won't know til I get busy with a girl again. Time to detox and lay off the adult entertainment.
 
pjp2002;533528 said:
Yeah, I am feeling like I might have become desensitized as of late. I won't know til I get busy with a girl again. Time to detox and lay off the adult entertainment.
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Abstinence is a good thing during lent! I gave up all lusting and masturbation for lent. I messed up a couple times but it is teaching me discipline on a new level. I do not like to be mastered by anything but God, therefore I practice abstinence to enhance the appreciation and respect.
 
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