Anxiety and girls

Munto;718532 said:
in order for you, to not get bored :)!!!
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I am never bored, always have work to do. I rarely get a chance to rest :) I can't remember the last time I watched a movie or even taking time off to do something fun. So much to do with the Brotherhood, my Family and my charity work.
 
Interesting thread, I once had problems with women until i learned not to put them on a pedestal. They are just people , nothing more nothing less.
When it comes to picking women up confidence is a big thing! Women pick up on a confident guy instantly and the same goes for a nervous guy. But remember some women also lack confidence so being a confident guy will scare those women away but attract equally confident females.
If you would like so different reading material then check out books by aron sleezy abd the blog called good looking looser.
 
Yep putting them on a pedestal is a quite ridiculous thing they are what they are just people too...

some may conider themselves as Goddeses hahaha
 
orgasmic19 said:
Hey, guys I don't know where to post this but I will lay it on you anyway. I am in my early 20's and I still find it hard to talk to the opposite sex. I am not sure if it is anxiety I mean nervousness or what, but I am mainly a loner if this is the right word to use.

I have read all the pick up literature and some dating advice but never really pushed myself to talk to women who I find attractive. I really get nervous in social situations and don't like to be crowded in big groups, or sit next to people I don't know. If I get to know someone for a good period of a time I am pretty much a chatter box.

I do work at a big grocery store and I am not scared of talking to my co-workers or male friends but with women it's almost alien to me especially if I find them attractive. I do talk to others especially if they ask me a question or talking to me about something they need, but with women in general I turn red in the face and blush if she is attractive and say ok to hopefully end the interaction.

I will admit there are a couple of girls at my work I find extremely attractive and would like to talk to but don't know what to say or how to start without choking up. And, when I do find a girl attractive or not something like anxiety pops in.

Has anyone have any advice been down this boat as well?
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Up till this day, I still have this problem somehow. I feel nervous to approach a girl. All the pickup lines tend to disappear from my head. But one thing I've noticed is that, when I approach a girl and start talking to her, the nervousness or anxiety disappear few seconds after I starting the conversation.
 
huge-girth said:
Up till this day, I still have this problem somehow. I feel nervous to approach a girl. All the pickup lines tend to disappear from my head. But one thing I've noticed is that, when I approach a girl and start talking to her, the nervousness or anxiety disappear few seconds after I starting the conversation.
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Just approach any girl and talk normally. A greeting, a quick compliment, and a question of why she's there alone.
 
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