what does this mean?

So my girlfriend broke up with me beacuse she wants to be independent. We have been going out for close to two years and this last year we have been doing long distance. She is 17 and still in high school, im 19 and in college. She doesnt want any relationships, i was her first for prettty much anything. Any ideas what she probably means. I have a pretty good hunch what she means by her "independence", but opinions would be nice. Girls seriously at this age dont have a clue what they want. Anybody else experience this? Did the girl ever come back?

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Dude, forget her NOW. You don't need a girl that acts like this anyway. There are plenty of them all around the globe so don't sweat it mate.

She obviously wantsto "experiment" the wild side of things, it's just natural and is nothing against you. She is just curious about what's out there.

Anyway let her go and forget her for ever cause even if she does come back, she has already dumped you for all the other dudes to beguin with and that is a big NO NO to do to us dudes. It's just downright ugly to dump someone because you "need" your "independence",i.e., she wants to see other people.

Now get a new one ASAP, get into her pants fast and that will make you forget this one. Don't give her the time of day and act like you are VERY VERY well without her, be cool about it and she will regret this for a very long time.

Peace

Mike

Dude, Listen to what I am about to tell you. Move on and completely forget her. Don't take her phone calls or IMs or anything and completely ignore her. She is almost through using you and is ready to move on to other interests and she has no intention of including you in anything more than to use you a little more during her transition away from you. She is likely counting on you to support her and relieve her guilt while she is sticking this knife in your back. Move on and learn to be the alpha male that women pursue. Fuck being a used bitch. Stand up and be a fucking proud man. Dig?

I dig and thats what i thought i needed to do. what do i do if we both work together? should i just not talk to her at all, but keep it professional?

If you work together then stay very professional to avoid an issue with your job but only speak of job related things and then only if you absolutely must. Avoid all casual conversation. Bitches like this will think up something to ask you like wanting your opinion on something. These are passive-aggressive moves that the woman will do to stroke your ego and trick you into speaking outside the work conversation. If she can get your opinion or even just get you to casually speak to her then she will feel much better about how she has treated you and she will satisfy her feelings of guilt because now you two are "friends" again. Ignore and avoid that bitch as much as your job will allow. If she tries to chat with you say this, "Hey, I only want to speak to you on a professional level. I have determined that you are not the type of person that I choose to be associated with so please don't act like we are friends because we are not." Turn and walk away as soon as you say this no matter what she says back to you. Do not get into a conversation. She will even try to get you to argue about what she has done just to get you to talk to her so she can seek to relieve her guilt. Be an alpha male and blow that bitch off. Believe me, this is the only way to be with women. In my many years I have proven this over and over. Women want the alpha male and they only want to be friends with the other guys. Act alpha and they will treat you like an alpha.

theoblivious said:

I dig and thats what i thought i needed to do. what do i do if we both work together? should i just not talk to her at all, but keep it professional?

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theoblivious said:

So my girlfriend broke up with me beacuse she wants to be independent. We have been going out for close to two years and this last year we have been doing long distance. She is 17 and still in high school, im 19 and in college. She doesnt want any relationships, i was her first for prettty much anything. Any ideas what she probably means. I have a pretty good hunch what she means by her "independence", but opinions would be nice. Girls seriously at this age dont have a clue what they want. Anybody else experience this? Did the girl ever come back?

thanks

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Nobody at that age knows what they want. That's why everyone needs to be with different people. Everyone goes through different stages at different times and it's hard for us to respect their decisions if we feel that they are going through some stage in which they don't need to.

Don't worry about it. There are tons of women out there. Speaking of which, I need to find some of these "wanting to experience some wild things" girls. Damn! I wish I was up at UT during the summer with all those young 18 year old fresh college girls who want to experience the wild side of college. Oh, must wait until next year!

At both your ages... neither of you should be in any long term relationship. You should be out exploring other people. You're both still teenie-boppers... enjoy your youth.

sikdogg said:

At both your ages... neither of you should be in any long term relationship. You should be out exploring other people. You're both still teenie-boppers... enjoy your youth.

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It seems pretty difficult to explore other people though. I'm not one for one night stands and all that jazz. Plus girls don't seem to give it up that easily.

I don't understand what's so difficult... you go out and meet people, party, and hookup. It's a numbers game where the more you go out to clubs/parties the more chances you have to hookup. If you're having problems hooking up then either you aren't going out enough or you're not aggressive enough introducing yourself to chicks. When i was in college (a big school in Southern Cali) ... it was like taking candy from babies.

What's wrong with one night stands?? That's where all the fun is... it lets you meet people of the same mindset. That's where you find friends with benefits.

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I don't understand what's so difficult... you go out and meet people, party, and hookup. It's a numbers game where the more you go out to clubs/parties the more chances you have to hookup. If you're having problems hooking up then either you aren't going out enough or you're not aggressive enough introducing yourself to chicks. When i was in college (a big school in Southern Cali) ... it was like taking candy from babies.

What's wrong with one night stands?? That's where all the fun is... it lets you meet people of the same mindset. That's where you find friends with benefits.

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I've never had the nerve to do a one night stand. It has never felt right and I'm glad I didn't one time because otherwise I'd be sitting in jail.

As far as the whole "college girls are easy" thing, I, nor any of my friends, have found this to be true. Maybe it's just the girls at UT. My roommate, a good-looking frat guy from southern California, said that girls at UT are a whole lot more prudish and idealistic than girls in Cali. He said, "In Cali you know in 15 minutes if you're getting laid or not, in Texas, you could be in-like-Flinn for hours, but you are never sure you're going to get laid until you get down to the act." He told me some of the shit he had to put up with during the year, and it was horrible! Some hot ass tease girl, in stockings, was dry humping him naked with a towel over his crotch, then when the time came, she "didn't feel like having sex!" He was blueballed so hard. He never got laid ONCE all year, whereas he can get ass pretty easily in California, from hot ass girls too!

The thing is for me, it seems like I'm left out of some special club. It seems that so many "normal" girls go out and have "fun" casual sex with guys quite often in college, but I've never seen anything of the sort. Maybe I've just REALLY been sheltered by fate, or it is just a small number of promiscuous people just recycling themselves.

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I always put on my protective gear before banging some unknown pussy... without exception.

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The problem is no condom can fully cover my cock. Therefore, I can't sleep with just any old girl, as I could still easily get an STD. This is another big factor of why I wouldn't sleep around.

i came back for the summer. even though i have talked to her now, i should just shut up and not talk to her at all right?

as far as the exploring thing, im not into that. dont get me wrong, i am a handsome guy and i could get girls if need be. And i still have the touch even after being out of dating for close to 2 years (asked a girl out on a date after finding out my ex decided to make out with a guy 3 days after we broke up, the girl said yes.) Anyways...big deal. i agree that i should be out exploring and meeting new people, but those people will either be friends or the girl that has potential. Man sex really messes up relationships, it doesnt bother you that a girl has slept with multiple guys? For some reason, i cant find explanation to that being alright.

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Man sex really messes up relationships, it doesnt bother you that a girl has slept with multiple guys? For some reason, i cant find explanation to that being alright.

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It's not alright, and I hate it as well!!But we live in a screwed up time, where values just don't exist anymore!It used to really anoy me that this was the case, but now I just don't give a shit!!I will put the flesh sword to any girl that fits my standard.......but a relationship....never.....I don't want used goods......but I will shag used goods!!The world is nothing but one big orgy!!

10inchadvantage said:

The problem is no condom can fully cover my cock. Therefore, I can't sleep with just any old girl, as I could still easily get an STD. This is another big factor of why I wouldn't sleep around.

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Looking at your pics we're about the same size, but i haven't measured in months. Last time i checked i was a little over 8" long BP and close to 6.25 in girth. I have no problems getting a magnum to fit. Have you gained an inch since those pics were taken?? And for the record, i've been a swinger for several years and banged ALOT of chicks with only a condom as protection and i've never gotten an STD... I got tested every month when i was very active.

theoblivious said:

... Man sex really messes up relationships, it doesnt bother you that a girl has slept with multiple guys? For some reason, i cant find explanation to that being alright.

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That only matters for guy at your age... guys your age have a over-inflated egos about women and sex. I remember when i felt as you do now... i wanted a virgin and wanted to be the only guy that ever touched her. Now i wouldn't touch a virgin unless you paid me... i want a woman with experience. I don't want to have to train her on how to please me, i want her to already know. Makes the sex so much better.

with a proper approach in Penis Enlargement in one year you should be over 9" non bone pressed with 6" girth for sure and of course in three -five years no matter how hard gainer you are and with an intense girth routine you would be 9.5"-7" for sure

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Looking at your pics we're about the same size, but i haven't measured in months. Last time i checked i was a little over 8" long BP and close to 6.25 in girth. I have no problems getting a magnum to fit. Have you gained an inch since those pics were taken?? And for the record, i've been a swinger for several years and banged ALOT of chicks with only a condom as protection and i've never gotten an STD... I got tested every month when i was very active.

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My penis tapers toward the head. Therefore, it will "slide up" a little. It's more due to the shape than the size. I'm sure if my penis tapered towards the base I wouldn't have a problem.

sikdogg, i suppose that does make sense. And i think what bothers me is that she might find a more pleasurable experience with some other guy, which then goes back to the ego part. Therefore the answer for me to get over her is to believe and to know that I am the shit and nobody is better than me and state all actions in my name and not that girls, will help me move on. I have been reading some leadership books and they really shed new light on the world. Its amazing.

Women johnny's.

theoblivious said:

sikdogg, i suppose that does make sense. And i think what bothers me is that she might find a more pleasurable experience with some other guy, which then goes back to the ego part. Therefore the answer for me to get over her is to believe and to know that I am the shit and nobody is better than me and state all actions in my name and not that girls, will help me move on. I have been reading some leadership books and they really shed new light on the world. Its amazing.

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Good for you... time to move on.