swallowing wives and girlfriends....the good girls

This whole conversation reminds me of a question my friend had about swallowing. See she's a vegan, and one of the "rules" per say is something to the extent of not eating "animal products". So obviously her question was could she swallow, because the thought apparently turns her on.
 
mogli said:
I don't want to come off as rude or insensitive but for those of you out there with girls who don't give head, you gotta be kidding me? That is an extemely selfish trait for any woman to have. The same goes for men, you have to give her the same treatment. For me it's not only a duty with my present wife or all my ex's, I truly enoy it. But even if I didn't, every woman on the planet loves to receive oral sex. In any relationship a woman deserves to be pleasured, and she in turn should be giving to the man as well. I remember something from a Chris Rock perfomance where he talks about this. He's talking about encountering a woman who won't give him head and he says something to effect, "Damn, they still make you?" Selfish people are a waste of time. Time is a most precious commodity, it is irreplaceable. Especially in relationships.

I second all that.

No swallow=no relationship
 
It doesn't mean they're selfish though, mogli. Some people just don't like it... at first.
But then again you can always shove it down her throat and tell her to take it bitch, you KNOW you like it :p

(i'm so bad har har har)
 
My disadvantage is that I have fairly decent girth (About 5.25/5.5; Hey, it's decent in MY head!) so my girls (Present and past) will go down on me for about five minutes, then it's "Kent, my jaw hurrrts...." with big puppy dog eyes and it's just like... "Dammit. Fine, I'll fuck you, I guess..." But I don't think that most women know that oral can, a lot of the time, feel better than sex. There's nothing like a woman who knows how to use everything that God gave them, teeth, tongue... dammit, I need to have sex. Excuse me.
 
harmonic169 said:
My disadvantage is that I have fairly decent girth (About 5.25/5.5; Hey, it's decent in MY head!) so my girls (Present and past) will go down on me for about five minutes, then it's "Kent, my jaw hurrrts...." with big puppy dog eyes and it's just like... "Dammit. Fine, I'll fuck you, I guess..." But I don't think that most women know that oral can, a lot of the time, feel better than sex. There's nothing like a woman who knows how to use everything that God gave them, teeth, tongue... dammit, I need to have sex. Excuse me.

hahaha, a man after my own heart :D
 
Christafarian said:
This whole conversation reminds me of a question my friend had about swallowing. See she's a vegan, and one of the "rules" per say is something to the extent of not eating "animal products". So obviously her question was could she swallow, because the thought apparently turns her on.
Tell her vegetarians and vegans should be her first choice. LMAO I've been a vegetarian for almost 10 years now (lacto/ovo variety). During that time I've had numerous women comment at length about how sweet I was (I was their first "vege"). You hear this alot form �naked people movies� veterans and many in the sexual counseling/advice arena. No joke. Meat in the diet is known to make your load "bitter".
 
KiTTie8695 said:
It doesn't mean they're selfish though, mogli. Some people just don't like it... at first.
But then again you can always shove it down her throat and tell her to take it bitch, you KNOW you like it :p

(i'm so bad har har har)


I have to disagree Kittie. In my opinion you have to regularly practice self sacrifice to meet the needs of your partner, male or female. By placing a higher value on your personal hang ups and discomforts over the needs of your partner you are in fact commiting selfish behavior. There are limits to everything of course, if your mate asks you to screw them while swinging a dead cat over your head and singing nursery rhymes, chances are you might not want to place the value of what they want over your own common sense and decency. As I mentioned before this is a two way street. There are many men out there who don't go down on their women enough or even at all. That's just plain wrong. As for some women not liking it at first sometimes (swallowing), like you have mentioned yourself once they try it they may like it. Some really get into it from that point forward and that's always a good thing. LMAO
 
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nobody said:
I have to disagree Kittie. In my opinion you have to regularly practice self sacrifice to meet the needs of your partner, male or female. By placing a higher value on your personal hang ups and discomforts over the needs of your partner you are in fact commiting selfish behavior. There are limits to everything of course, if your mate asks you to screw them while swinging a dead cat over your head and singing nursery rhymes, chances are you might not want to place the value of what they want over your own common sense and decency. As I mentioned before this is a two way street. There are many men out there who don't go down on their women enough or even at all. That's just plain wrong. As for some women not liking it at first sometimes (swalllowing), like you have mentioned yourself once they try it they may like it. Some really get into it from that point froward and that's always a good thing. LMAO

You're right about the not enough or not at all thing for the guys going down on their women... they need to more often if some of the women would let them, this whole thing does indeed go both ways but I think I was joking about what you quoted anyway, sorry, I seem to catch a lot of people off guard lately :cool:
 
nobody said:
I have to disagree Kittie. In my opinion you have to regularly practice self sacrifice to meet the needs of your partner, male or female. By placing a higher value on your personal hang ups and discomforts over the needs of your partner you are in fact commiting selfish behavior. There are limits to everything of course, if your mate asks you to screw them while swinging a dead cat over your head and singing nursery rhymes, chances are you might not want to place the value of what they want over your own common sense and decency. As I mentioned before this is a two way street. There are many men out there who don't go down on their women enough or even at all. That's just plain wrong. As for some women not liking it at first sometimes (swallowing), like you have mentioned yourself once they try it they may like it. Some really get into it from that point forward and that's always a good thing. LMAO

Fuckin' right on! If a chick won't work with me on shit like this, she'll have a hell of a time convincing me she actually love me. It IS all about your partner's pleasure, over your own hangups.
 
TonyYayo said:
swallowing is kinda sick


I'll remember what a sick bastard I am next time my wife gives me another one of her patented blowjobs and finishes me off with slurp and a smile. :cool: You are soooo missing out my man. :p
 
I have had a couple of girlfriends that would swallow on RARE occasions like getting head while driving. That is really the only time my current girlfriend will do it. Otherwise I am lucky if she touches my dick with her lips. She thinks its nasty to suck. I don't get it.
 
The first time I ever got head, I blew a big, sudden load into the back of my then-gf's throat. She kinda just reacted by swallowing it, and didn't seem to mind too much, although she said it was her first time. I think she didnt mind because I blew it past her taste buds into the back of her throat.

Nowadays, when I get head, I dont give a girl the courtesy warning of "Im gonna cum!". I just hold it as long as I can, and let it rip when I cant hold on any longer. Its not my fault if she is too stupid to read my obvious body language. If she swallows, I make sure to give her positive reinforcement for the desired behavior.
 
This is an oldie but I didnt respond to it back than. I dont feel its something a girl or women needs to do - Swallow - and its her choice and doesn't bother me if they dont want to swallow and prefer to snowball or just spit it out, even avoid it in the mouth.

I dont see it as them being selfish like some seem to think as many guys dont like licking pussy properly and how many would indeed lick out their women's juices and swallow? count them on one hand I bet!

Try tasting your own cum too, just see how it tastes ... like all good chefs, check out the food before you serve it out.
 
I personally don't care if she swallows or not. I figure if she made the stuff come outta me she can do with it as she pleases. I always get a chuckle outta insecure guys who think their girl doesn't love them if they don't swallow. All the girls I've gone down on had no reservations about tongue kissing me afterward- even the two squirters I've been with who nearly drowned me. That being said, does your girl kiss you after her fluids have been in your mouth? And do you kiss her after you've blown in her mouth? If you said 'no' to the second Q, by your own logic you don't love your girl.
 
Thanx. I find double standards sili and pathetic and usually borne of lame insecurities. Guys and their egos. Glad some people agree.
 
Having my girlfriend blow me till I orgasm in her mouth was one of the best things someone has ever done to me. And, personally, I believe it is one of the most intimate things a girl can do to you. She is, literally, accepting and taking you as a whole.
I have tasted my own semen, so I know what she's taking in. I wouldn't say it's unpleasent, but it doesn't taste like ice-cream either. So I can appreciate even more her swallowing it all.

But we mustn't forget one thing, guys. In accord with what someone here as said, don't expect your girl to go down on you and swallow your load if you're not willing to give her proper head and swallow all of her juices too. Also, if you do kiss after you've orgasmed in her mouth, she'll feel much better and think "ok, this guy really loves me and doesn't think any less of me for doing this" — trust me, girls can have that kind of insecurity.

Anyway, since both me and my girlfriend are two very oral persons, we enjoy the pleasures of oral sex quite often and get one hell of a kick out of it :p
 
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