Straight guys first unplanned gay experience.

When i say unplanned i mean it. I met this couple online which was already a bad idea. They said they wanted to have fun with a black guy so i was like of cool. So first off every time i talked to them the man was always responding, and he would always say I cant come over because of his wife actually knows me from being my teacher back in high school lol. Log story short I was finally invited to the place and he opens the door. He starts to worship my cock then he starts giving me a very unplanned bj, and honestly i couldn't get into it for the life of me but then again i am not gay. The fact that he stepped over a big boundry like that I just froze and really coulndt think to do anything but I guess he finallly saw it in my eyes that i was unconfortable and he asked if i wanted him to stop. It was just weird and i feel kinda gay somewhat even though I maybe shouldn't but i will need alot of time to get over this. Any help like maybe I should just stop thinking of it. I really wanted to beat his ass but i guess I am too nice. Please can you guys help. This experience just happened.

That's NOT a gay experience: you were molested.
Guy got you into his house under false pretenses and and then carried out his agenda.
If you were a woman under the same circumstances you could file charges and hit him with a big civil suit.
(I doubt you'd want the infamy of that, though.)

It's gonna take you awhile to get your head straight about this, but take confidence knowing you were nowhere in the wrong.
Guy tricked you with some dishonest bullshit, at least you didn't buy the Brooklyn Bridge!

MAXAMEYES;555195 said:

That's NOT a gay experience: you were molested.
Guy got you into his house under false pretenses and and then carried out his agenda.
If you were a woman under the same circumstances you could file charges and hit him with a big civil suit.
(I doubt you'd want the infamy of that, though.)

It's gonna take you awhile to get your head straight about this, but take confidence knowing you were nowhere in the wrong.
Guy tricked you with some dishonest bullshit, at least you didn't buy the Brooklyn Bridge!

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Thanks MAXAMEYES yeah I dont want that unwanted attention lol. I just thought it was super fucked up. Yeah it is still in my head a little so im still trying to not give it much thought, but again thanks you gave me the answer I desperately needed.

Dude MAXAMEYES is right, that mother fu.... lured you in with bait the flipped the script!
That's so dirty, that guy needs to be investigated , who knows you could be one of the lucky one's!!! TRUTH! it's a good thing your strong like that!
I wouldn't say be happy but, realise things could have gone much worse.
And don't feel bad about not beating his ass right there, as men we have a habit of acting like we are the hardest moffs, but on some real shit, im pretty sure most of us would be in shock to!
just let that bad experience sail away man... forget about it

Holy shit! God, yeah man, that's molestation. I gotta say though that the people looking for interracial threesomes always seem to be gay or bi to me. It's the "black fetish" that set off alarms when I was reading this.

jekyllnhyde360;555345 said:

Dude MAXAMEYES is right, that mother fu.... lured you in with bait the flipped the script!
That's so dirty, that guy needs to be investigated , who knows you could be one of the lucky one's!!! TRUTH! it's a good thing your strong like that!
I wouldn't say be happy but, realise things could have gone much worse.
And don't feel bad about not beating his ass right there, as men we have a habit of acting like we are the hardest moffs, but on some real shit, im pretty sure most of us would be in shock to!
just let that bad experience sail away man... forget about it

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Thanks jekyllnhyde360 Yeah I am kinda putting it out of my mind as much as I can. Oh believe me Karma is gonna get him really bad for this shit. This was bad enough but, if it got worse I would probably be in jail cause shock doesn't last that long.

neognostic;555346 said:

Holy shit! God, yeah man, that's molestation. I gotta say though that the people looking for interracial threesomes always seem to be gay or bi to me. It's the "black fetish" that set off alarms when I was reading this.

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Yeah I agree 100% neognostic it seems that is always the case with stuff like that with people looking for interracial threesomes. Oh and he was gay as hell not like all floating around and rainbows but gay none the less. I have no problem with gay people but that shit was really fucked up. I would never do that shit cause people get killed over that. This is some damn Catfish Tv show bull shit lol.

Ya man for sure just let it slip away!
your goods man!!!
people in jail have experienced far worse but when they get out they just want a normal life again! im sure its really pissin you of right now, but compared to that shit oooohh weeee im sure they rather have been in your shoes. in a couple months, the novelty will be gone and youll just be a strong wiser person, you prob wont even be bothered.
just remember it aint your fault and he's a dirty ol'fuck who will prob get his down the road!

meeting people online to fuck sounds sketchy as hell. sucks you got one of those weirdos, but this just makes me stay away from stuff like this even more

Did you even see his wife after all of that?

Swinger types are like 90% bi. Aggressive ones whom are searching for 'new meat' will lie. They don't believe in the bell curve, they are narcissistic and very selfish, and won't understand where you're coming from even if you made firm statements from the get-go. They are pretty much all users.

Take it as a compliment and move on.

Medicating;558696 said:

Did you even see his wife after all of that?

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Nope Mediating I didn't see his wife, but i do know who she is she was one of my highschool teachers. Also the really fucked up part is I found out i graduated with their son whih made it really awkard when I saw a picture of him in their living room.

Fader;559165 said:

Swinger types are like 90% bi. Aggressive ones whom are searching for 'new meat' will lie. They don't believe in the bell curve, they are narcissistic and very selfish, and won't understand where you're coming from even if you made firm statements from the get-go. They are pretty much all users.

Take it as a compliment and move on.

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Yeah I am over it I mean I enjoy someone telling me im big but I perfer a women to say that lol.

Years from now, when this has faded into a dim, barely-recalled memory, you'll look back and chuckle at just how freaked a five o'clock shadow scrapin' yer nutsack made you. And how well you actually handled it.

Some lessons suck in the learnin', but help you recognize your resilience and true strengths.
For me, it's the worst of things that I've endured and overcome that have taught me the most.
Even if it took me years to reach that "smack my head-Aha!" moment.

Y'got a good attitude, stick with it and life can be filled with years of enjoyment.
Even during those not-quite-so-pleasant experiences we all have to face from time to time.
'Cuz, if you approach life properly; every experience can be a learning experience.

qjordan;559310 said:

Yeah I am over it I mean I enjoy someone telling me im big but I perfer a women to say that lol.

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MAXAMEYES;559361 said:

Years from now, when this has faded into a dim, barely-recalled memory, you'll look back and chuckle at just how freaked a five o'clock shadow scrapin' yer nutsack made you. And how well you actually handled it.

Some lessons suck in the learnin', but help you recognize your resilience and true strengths.
For me, it's the worst of things that I've endured and overcome that have taught me the most.
Even if it took me years to reach that "smack my head-Aha!" moment.

Y'got a good attitude, stick with it and life can be filled with years of enjoyment.
Even during those not-quite-so-pleasant experiences we all have to face from time to time.
'Cuz, if you approach life properly; every experience can be a learning experience.

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Thanks I really appreciate the words of wisdom form a very wise person. I thank you and all the brothers of Mattersofsize.

De nada.

qjordan;559667 said:

Thanks I really appreciate the words of wisdom form a very wise person. I thank you and all the brothers of Mattersofsize.

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When I was a teen my best friend was bi. He was always trying to get me to have sex wit him. He literally was in love with me. I couldn't get off at all. I was open to it and sucked him off a couple times. It's no big deal. It was just experimenting. I can say with 100% accuracy that I am not gay. Tried it, it didn't get me off.

It does tell me something though. Whenever I meet a chick who refuses to suck dick, I know that she is just an asshole, because Im not gay and I was willing to try it for a friend.

It seems like you passed the hetero test with a score of 100. You are not gay or you would've called him back and asked to suck his dick.

That guy you ended up with was an asshole. He lied and he did something you had not planned on doing. Even if you had liked it, it is still just wrong. So maybe next time you are with a women and you want to do something different, you'll ask first. You know how shitty it feels to have someone take advantage of you.

should have face fucked him lol

go fuck some girl and carry on

Mine happened two weeks ago- I am working in a party agency as a PR agent and basically what I do is to go around and talk to random people. I went to a bar once and saw tow boys sitting together and I was like "Oh, look at that- two more tickets sales waiting for me right there" and sat between the two boys. I started promoting and all of a sudden the guy in my left says "I am gay and this is my boyfriend (pointing the guy in my right)" So all of a sudden I find myself between two gays who happen to be a couple. "No problem I don't judge people by their sexual preferences, it's all cool" is what I taught to myself. I continued promoting and all of a sudden the guy on my left started rubbing his knee on mine. I moved a little and continued. After around 20 more seconds he started playing with my ear with his lips. I moved again thinking "It's all gonna be over after a few seconds- just take their money and run away, but first- take the money". And a few more seconds later is what got me to leave them alone- I sensed a firm hand touching and playing with my dick (through the clothes), I stood up, asked them if they wanted tickets (damn those money ) and when they said "no" I went to the toilet in disgust of what happened. I felt molested a few hours after that, but now it's a funny story to tell to everyone. I got only the good behind me and I remember this with a smile on my face .

I read, Morph,