Sexual performance anxiety?

thatguy97 said:

Hey guys so since this forum is about us having better sexual experiences as a whole I have a story that I want to share with you.
so basically I have never had issues regarding erections, I have been with a girl and everything worked well.
but one time I went to see a prostitute LOL
and ever since then I have been having sexual performance anxiety.
the first time I went to her I was legit scared and sweating and obviously I didn't get a full erection, so nothing happened, so I went to her second time to see if I'm broken, the first experience with her had me worried if it'd work this time, and as a result, I wasn't enjoying anything with her and I failed to get a full erection.
this made me so anxious about myself for the past few months, wondering why it happened and being worried if it would happen again to the point that i lost my sexual desire.
even tho i know I'm okay and i had a girlfriend after that incident and everything was good but i still have this anxiety in my head.
so do you guys have any tips to have to overcome this?
I'm sure this happens with many men, please i need your help

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thatguy97 said:

Hey guys so since this forum is about us having better sexual experiences as a whole I have a story that I want to share with you.
so basically I have never had issues regarding erections, I have been with a girl and everything worked well.
but one time I went to see a prostitute LOL
and ever since then I have been having sexual performance anxiety.
the first time I went to her I was legit scared and sweating and obviously I didn't get a full erection, so nothing happened, so I went to her second time to see if I'm broken, the first experience with her had me worried if it'd work this time, and as a result, I wasn't enjoying anything with her and I failed to get a full erection.
this made me so anxious about myself for the past few months, wondering why it happened and being worried if it would happen again to the point that i lost my sexual desire.
even tho i know I'm okay and i had a girlfriend after that incident and everything was good but i still have this anxiety in my head.
so do you guys have any tips to have to overcome this?
I'm sure this happens with many men, please i need your help

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huge-girth said:

I have had a similar experience and mine was also with a prostitute. I think she wasn't attractive enough for me that's why I couldn't get an erection. It only happened once.

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