New and improved dick, new and improved sex life?

I've been readin here for quite some time but never posted anything before.

Thing is, I've been on the PE game for some years now and the results has been quite amazing, which is great right? I'm a happily married man and I really don't have anything to complain about when it comes to sex w wife, but since the progress hasn't exactly been made overnight my partner don't really seem to notice the difference (well maybe she does, but I can't tell.) So I've been thinking about trying my new and improved cock with someone else. Just for a bit of ego boost and to see how women would react when I whip it out. I know some of you probably would consider this "wrong" or "bad" or whatever, but the thought still exists. I've been hanging out at this online dating site for a bit, just for fun, and now I'm thinking of gettin down with a girl or two. Since my wife is out of town a lot she would never know. So, what do you think? Should I do it? I can't be the first guy thinking this way, can I? have any of you old timers done something similar? And by the way, guilt isn't really my thing, so that would't be an issue

tman1985;588375 said:

I've been readin here for quite some time but never posted anything before.

Thing is, I've been on the PE game for some years now and the results has been quite amazing, which is great right? I'm a happily married man and I really don't have anything to complain about when it comes to sex w wife, but since the progress hasn't exactly been made overnight my partner don't really seem to notice the difference (well maybe she does, but I can't tell.) So I've been thinking about trying my new and improved cock with someone else. Just for a bit of ego boost and to see how women would react when I whip it out. I know some of you probably would consider this "wrong" or "bad" or whatever, but the thought still exists. I've been hanging out at this online dating site for a bit, just for fun, and now I'm thinking of gettin down with a girl or two. Since my wife is out of town a lot she would never know. So, what do you think? Should I do it? I can't be the first guy thinking this way, can I? have any of you old timers done something similar? And by the way, guilt isn't really my thing, so that would't be an issue

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Is your wife out of town a lot because she's seeing other guys? Before you do anything you might want to look into ending the marriage instead of pretending that things are working out. She's going to find out eventually and maybe it'd be in your best interests to let her go. This doesn't really seem to have to do anything with PE and more about missing something from this relationship.

Why did you marry her if you still want to have sex with other chicks? And btw, you're not "happily married" if your looking at having sex with other girls. Unless you have kids, you should just divorce her, or let her know what you're thinking before going out and doing it. Tell her you want to see the reaction of other girls to your size. Maybe she'll say go ahead, and maybe she'll start giving more compliments on your size.

Anyway, those would be your best options, but if your to pussy to do that than sneak around like a wimp who's afraid of his wife finding out. If you fuck other chicks you'll probably break up eventually anyway, so you might as well just get it over with and skip the sneaking around shit.

though I strongly disagree with the claim that someone can't be happily married despite his or her desire for extramarital sex I'm totally in line with Sam's and Hunter's advise to be sincere about it. It's distrust, dishonesty and deception which destroy a healthy relationship and certainly not the polygamous disposition we all carry around with us in a more or less distinct way. A sexually open relationship is always an option between mentally mature individuals. And if it doesn't sit well with one of the parties then one should weigh the advantages and disadvantages against each other to come to a conclusion. Normally one wouldn't have to ponder very long if a sound marriage with a good sex life is worth more or less than a polygamous lifestyle without emotional intimacy (unless you're very young and haven't made a lot of experiences yet, then you might've married just too early)
btw: If you're really just curious about the potential reactions from other women and not keen on fucking other women in general it'd would be a very dumb reason to risk the loss of your wife.

Edit: I just wanted to add that I know your feeling of dissatisfaction with respect to the steady adaption of your wife's vaginal tract to your increasing size. It's somewhat disappointing when you gain noticeably without earning any explicit compliments from your sex partner. And yes, of course I've thought about how it would be to fuck other girls/women but did I ever consider betrayal as a feasible option? Hell no! Instead we've been talking about different polygamous relationship types for some time now (but for different reasons, namely the polygamous desire I mentioned above). Eventually we will put that to the test, but then there would be a consensus about and no bad feelings upfront (maybe after but then we still could revise the whole agreement). communication is key, always. that said, you might just ask her about possibly altered sensations during intercourse. Maybe she does feel your new size but hasn't talked about it yet. Women do not tend to be very eloquent about this subject At least this is my experience.

Edit2: considering the purely PE-related, technical aspect of this matter I can assure you that there will also be a point where she won't be able to not notice your increasing size. For instance I started with the decent size of 7,2" NBpel and grew to 8". Contrary to past experiences missionary position with her legs up isn't possible anymore for more than a few seconds before she asks me to let her put her legs down to minimize penetration deepness. Back then - in Pre-PE-times - I was able to go as long as desired in that position (until orgasm). I also think that at some point girth will be noticed (BJs getting more difficult) and vaginal adaption to increased girth also has it's limits though I haven't reached that point yet with my 6,1". A woman can accommodate to girth easier than length.

Be careful about what you give up for something you have, it is the biggest mistakes of my life. Marriage is all about getting through the issues honestly and with dignity so the relationship can grow to be fruitful. In the end we want to be next to someone we love for the right reasons. Honesty is always best but do not be honest with your wife until you can do this with yourself. Really think on this Brother and make the right choice, we will be here for you.

First question I would ask is. Does she know about your PE? If you mentioned it, she might say something conservative like "you know I thought something has been different". It wasn't until after I told my wife about Bathmate that she said what I wrote above. Like you the thought always ran through my head. That I could easily cheat if I wanted to. I could never bring myself to do it.

HappywithBathmate;588405 said:

First question I would ask is. Does she know about your PE? If you mentioned it, she might say something conservative like "you know I thought something has been different". It wasn't until after I told my wife about Bathmate that she said what I wrote above. Like you the thought always ran through my head. That I could easily cheat if I wanted to. I could never bring myself to do it.

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Cheating is a full time job and it pays shitty!

doublelongdaddy;588409 said:

Cheating is a full time job and it pays shitty!

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No shit. I hear about it everyday. My wife works for a divorce attorney.

HappywithBathmate;590344 said:

No shit. I hear about it everyday. My wife works for a divorce attorney.

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Yup. When I was in the most fruitful relationship I gave it up to cheating and today I am alone because of it. A bird in the hand is better than two in the bush.

tman1985 said:

I've been readin here for quite some time but never posted anything before.

Thing is, I've been on the PE game for some years now and the results has been quite amazing, which is great right? I'm a happily married man and I really don't have anything to complain about when it comes to sex w wife, but since the progress hasn't exactly been made overnight my partner don't really seem to notice the difference (well maybe she does, but I can't tell.) So I've been thinking about trying my new and improved cock with someone else. Just for a bit of ego boost and to see how women would react when I whip it out. I know some of you probably would consider this "wrong" or "bad" or whatever, but the thought still exists. I've been hanging out at this online dating site for a bit, just for fun, and now I'm thinking of gettin down with a girl or two. Since my wife is out of town a lot she would never know. So, what do you think? Should I do it? I can't be the first guy thinking this way, can I? have any of you old timers done something similar? And by the way, guilt isn't really my thing, so that would't be an issue

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You should be happily divorced now aren't you?