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When I first started P.E. 8 months ago, I was motivated. Starting-out at about 7.75nbpl and 8 bpel. I got up to almost 8.5 bpel, but somethings in my life got in the way. My girth was around 5.7 at first I think, but got around to 6+. Is 7.75 nbpl really big? I lost some weight too, but gained it all back. Now most of it is layered under fat-pad, plus my height is around 6'6''. I'm a virgin and black as well ( Hate the stereotypes, because it isn't true and it discourages me. Some of the women think lighter guys aren't packing anything either too. ) My short-term goal is to get around 8.75 nbpl and 9.2 bpel, along with 6.5 to 7+ girth. My all around long-term maybe 10+, but it's good to get the short out of the way. Right now, I'll be going to school for my Computer Tech degree. My attitude is very shy. Talking a lot isn't my thing and I know I'll need to improve this in order to talk to women. What's the use of having a huge-pecker if you can't get it in a chick? Haha. Well, just wanted to know what you guys think.
 
You said "but things got in you way" did you keep those gains during that time?

:s You say you hate the streotype but you got a huge dick!!

Lose the shyness, woman are twice as shy/insucure as guys. They have just become used to guys doing the hard work to get them but there still very shy. Man I'm only 20 and black as well. My shyness & that sterotype made me miss out on a lot of meow in my younger days.

But I realized life is too fucking short to walk around letting a false sterotype rule my life. Trust me only more time will pass and you will be kicking yourself for not manning up and getting those chicks.

If your shy in general, Start talking to random people. When you go to the mall,etc. don't be awkward just turn small talk into longer discussions.This was my way of losing my shy side. I used to think everything had to perfect so I thought I would say some dumb shit but I got the hang of it after awhlie and now I talk to any chick.

TIP: Talk to girls you think are cute but aren't your type.This will open a lot of doors(no pun intended) for you.

You will lose the fear of talking to girls that you find attractive and become cool with the girls pratice chatting with cause they will have some hot friends that you will meet at some point if your cool with them.
 
Girth Hammer;384339 said:
You said "but things got in you way" did you keep those gains during that time?

:s You say you hate the streotype but you got a huge dick!!

Lose the shyness, woman are twice as shy/insucure as guys. They have just become used to guys doing the hard work to get them but there still very shy. Man I'm only 20 and black as well. My shyness & that sterotype made me miss out on a lot of meow in my younger days.

But I realized life is too fucking short to walk around letting a false sterotype rule my life. Trust me only more time will pass and you will be kicking yourself for not manning up and getting those chicks.

If your shy in general, Start talking to random people. When you go to the mall,etc. don't be awkward just turn small talk into longer discussions.This was my way of losing my shy side. I used to think everything had to perfect so I thought I would say some dumb shit but I got the hang of it after awhlie and now I talk to any chick.

TIP: Talk to girls you think are cute but aren't your type.This will open a lot of doors(no pun intended) for you.

You will lose the fear of talking to girls that you find attractive and become cool with the girls pratice chatting with cause they will have some hot friends that you will meet at some point if your cool with them.

Thanks, really appreciate that. As you know, I'm not fishing for compliments. It's just my height sometimes that makes it look small, but when I stare in the mirror, It looks pretty big. I'm not into culture thing that much. I love listening to rock music and metal too. Just my height and weight that makes me look intimidating. This'll make me motivate myself again and probably hit the gym too.
 
Everyone's got potential. You'll only have regrets if you don't live up to yours. And that will become a habit. Maybe it already is a habit.

So get back on that wagon bro. Loose the weight. Keep growing. Keep improving. You'll feel good about yourself by your own measure ... how much of your potential you've realized .. not some other measure. And people around you will see you as successful and fulfilled. Best of luck!!
 
pest;384366 said:
Everyone's got potential. You'll only have regrets if you don't live up to yours. And that will become a habit. Maybe it already is a habit.

So get back on that wagon bro. Loose the weight. Keep growing. Keep improving. You'll feel good about yourself by your own measure ... how much of your potential you've realized .. not some other measure. And people around you will see you as successful and fulfilled. Best of luck!!


Excellent advise!
 
you honestly have a great start on size. wish i had that. take all the advice read above, it is soooo true.

Also i love rock and metal. i play lots of metal on guitar :) Rock on!

Oh and you say you are trying to go to around 9-10". IMHO that is overboard. that is just huge, me being 5'10" that would look really funny. i would aim for 8.5 x 6.5. for your height and all that seems perfect. I bet girls will have tons of trouble tho...
 
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Thanks for the reply Arrowhead. My goal really is around 9.5 bpel and 9'' nbpel. I didn't continue, because of some issues in my life. Now that it's resolved, I can get back on track to my goal and completing it. Thanks for the support, bro.
 
ArrowHead;384463 said:
Also i love rock and metal. i play lots of metal on guitar :) Rock on!

In a band?
 
im glad to hear. just keep things up. ive been on and off for the past 2 years and have not really gained much only .5 in length. but hey its half an inch larger than i use to be...

me in a band, i wish. i actually dont just play metal, playing metal is honestly the best stress releaver EVER. come home from hards day of school / work. crank the amp and go at it. i love playing classical or just plain acoustic also. one day hopefully start my own trend kind of thing. yes i dream :)

were all here for the same reason. support is the best i can do.
 
You'll never be able use your wang until you start talking to girls. Talk to every girl you see. Say Hi as you walk by, just casual stuff, as it helps you develop confidence. Got a gym membership? join an aerobics, yoga, pilates, spinning class! They're full of women, and they'll talk to you, since their guard is down. Those classes are dominated by women, and you'll have fun, and talking to them like saying "c'mon, you can do it" opens up big conversation
 
AfroMan10;384720 said:
You'll never be able use your wang until you start talking to girls. Talk to every girl you see. Say Hi as you walk by, just casual stuff, as it helps you develop confidence. Got a gym membership? join an aerobics, yoga, pilates, spinning class! They're full of women, and they'll talk to you, since their guard is down. Those classes are dominated by women, and you'll have fun, and talking to them like saying "c'mon, you can do it" opens up big conversation


If that doesn't work a nice pair of shoes and a fat wallet always works:)
 
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