help with girl

Ninja77;280119 said:

You're ALWAYS supposed to wait at least 3 days before you call a girl once she gives you her number, it's a rule of thumb. If she made out with you and gave you her number, she likes you, plain and simple. Watch out though, you sound like you pretty damn insecure, and women can see through that like a glass window. Women like guys who have confidence, so you definitely need to work on fixing that aspect of yourself, after that, you'll be good to go. So go out there and work on your confidence. Flirt with girls, etc... until you feel comfortable around women enough to not worry so damn much about whether or not you're going to freak this girl out.

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I thought it was 2 days. Next day looks desparate, but I thought even it was permissible when a chick is clearly into you, such as making out with you.

It can be permissable depending on the girl. To be on the safe side, I would wait 2-3 days anyway. Sometimes, in my experience, when you do things like calling a girl after the first day or going into it strong, they can become VERY attached, which is never a good thing. With women, you need to keep them on their toes and be sure that you don't build to fire too high, too soon (just from my experience) otherwise one or the other will become bored with the relationship after a short period of time. Make sure also, that the girl doesn't become too dependent on you, otherwise she will NEVER want to leave your side and that is breeding grounds for some pretty major fights.

hey guys, update, me and this girl are still kicken it together and its pretty cool, sorta casual with some commitment, its cool

over the last month ive just become so much more confident, or a better word is probably relaxed around girls, its great.

Incredible and nice to hear

Lucky... I'm always at a loss for words near women, and it's my biggest relational weakness.