Girl in my class....help

Hey guys.

I've got a problem with girls. I feel confident when I'm not around them but when I'm around them its like all that confidence decides to fuck off and leave me stranded. You know the feel.

Anyway, there is a girl in one of my University classes. I want to get to know her more then maybe ask her out but...well its hard. It always sounds easy but fuck its so damn hard!

I know that courage is the key. And to be yourself and all that crap, but I just don't know what to do.

I might ask her to join me for coffee then get to know her and eventually ask her out. Thats the plan anyway.

I know many of you guys are good at this sort of stuff. So any words of encouragement or advice or anything really, would be greatly appreciated.

kitfisto;448529 said:

Hey guys.

I've got a problem with girls. I feel confident when I'm not around them but when I'm around them its like all that confidence decides to fuck off and leave me stranded. You know the feel.

Anyway, there is a girl in one of my University classes. I want to get to know her more then maybe ask her out but...well its hard. It always sounds easy but fuck its so damn hard!

I know that courage is the key. And to be yourself and all that crap, but I just don't know what to do.

I might ask her to join me for coffee then get to know her and eventually ask her out. Thats the plan anyway.

I know many of you guys are good at this sort of stuff. So any words of encouragement or advice or anything really, would be greatly appreciated.

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courage is not the key but persistence!

Make her see you are a little afraid but you still engage daily!

Day-to-day situations can often help us a lot.

I first started hanging out with my current girlfriend simply because, one day, I asked her if she could give me a ride home, since we lived near each other. That one-off situation then became a habit and, as we spent more and more time together, we talked a lot and eventually foudn out we had a lot in common. One thing let to another and now we've been together for 3 and a half years.

Now, I have to say that, when I first asked her for that ride, we were just class mates and there were no second intentions to my asking her for a ride.
I know that when you're interested in a girl it gets much harder to ask for this kind of favours.

But just take it slowly, and take it naturally. Ask for her class notes, or something.
Relationships are supposed to happen naturally. The more natural they are from the beggining, the more likely they are to last.
A partner, in my opinion, should be no more than a friend, a great friend with whom we agreed that we would like to share some more intimacy with. Therefore, start out with a friendship first. How do friends get to be friends? From normal daily activities.

I'm no doctor Ruth, but this is what my experience tells me.
So don't take it too seriously and just let things take their course. If it happens, great. If it doesn't happen, then you won't be any worse than you are today.

And, especially, don't try to impress her by being someone you're not.

Just be yourself, as you said, and whatever comes, comes.


"courage is not the key but persistence!

Make her see you are a little afraid but you still engage daily!" - This not only tells her you're a commited guy, but it also tells YOU that you're able to stand the pressure, which in turns improves your overall confidence.

Good luck

Thanks guys. That helps.

Problem is, the class we share is only once a week, but hey, we'll see how it goes.

I say be direct.
Try tellin' her, "You are so damn sexy, you'd give a corpse a hard-on. You need to ride my moustache until you collapse from orgasmic exhaustion."

The only pre-requisite being...you have a moustache.

ok... this should help. first thing is find something in common... you're in luck becoz you have the same class once a week. Second thing I always did was approach her with her friends around, she will be more receptive if she feels secure... with her girl friends around she will feel safe. When you approach the group have a question that needs answered that the whole group can give advice on... for instance... as I approach the group... hi ladies... I need some help with a women psychology report i'm doing... wanna help me? I am sick of reading women mags all night and need some concrete proof. Women as a group will respond well with this approach! all eager to give solid advice and they will perceive you as a Alpha male for having the stones to approach the group. A question as simple as... Is it acceptable in the new female physique for a Man to fight for his woman if another man openly disrespects her? Let them babble and all will have an opinion... your target is your girl... the rest of these birds are helping you get her. once they are done then approach your target... she is comfy with you now. Say hey... we are in such and such class aren't we? Note: NEVER give your name till she asks or someone else asks!!!! and never lean forward to hear what they are saying! These NEVER do's promotes weakness... you will be sending an ALPHA male signal by avoiding these nevers. They or she will ask eventually... if she already knows your name thats fine... let her share that info with her friends. Now that you changed the subject on the same class bit... start asking questions... Whats your major? where you from? whats your goals? and LISTEN with clear focus and slowly move close to her as you start asking questions but dont cross thru the circle! thats rude! after she is done answering always show interest in her answers whether you like them or not! and if she asks questions back answer her... if she doesn't ask you questions its ok! just say... WOW you're a very interesting person! I never would have never guessed this about you... I usually end this type of approach within 5 mins and end it with... lets make a deal... I will give you my number and text hi to me... i would like to chat more because we have common interests but i am short on time... then address the group and say thanx and leave... I think you can handle it from here!

Now with this approach... you may have one or two of her friends want to get with you! This is good because now she competes for you and if she doesnt... BANG HER FRIENDS with that big cock your building and she will be at ur door soon! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

traveling bull;453602 said:

Now with this approach... you may have one or two of her friends want to get with you! This is good because now she competes for you and if she doesnt... BANG HER FRIENDS with that big cock your building and she will be at ur door soon! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

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It's a win-win situation

I have a lot of advice, I plan on posting it in my new routine thread, keep an eye out.

Thanks Travelling bull. Sounds damn good.

kitfisto;453865 said:

Thanks Travelling bull. Sounds damn good.

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BrO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THIS SHIT WORKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! TRUST ME! just be natural and ur gold! ALL her friends will be envious that u chose her! ITS NOT LOOKS BRO! ITS BREEDING! they want to breed with ALPHA NOT A SQUIRMY geek who has no balls! Good luck!

pulled much pussy with ALPHA mode! every man should learn it!

ok, just for shits and giggles.... definition of an ALPHA male: one who leads~! and men follow! One who is comfy around women... and listens to their needs... one who is compassionate yet firm and will kick ass if you mess with my bitch! one who is secure... in his life and who he is and where he is going in life..... all alpha signals! WOMEN LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and will ride ur meat hoping u get addicted and save her from the search to procreate! test it! its golden!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

traveling bull;453871 said:

ok, just for shits and giggles.... definition of an ALPHA male: one who leads~! and men follow! One who is comfy around women... and listens to their needs... one who is compassionate yet firm and will kick ass if you mess with my bitch! one who is secure... in his life and who he is and where he is going in life..... all alpha signals! WOMEN LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and will ride ur meat hoping u get addicted and save her from the search to procreate! test it! its golden!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Indeed!

Thanks again travelling bull. Its time to go into Alpha mode!

doublelongdaddy;453700 said:

I have a lot of advice, I plan on posting it in my new routine thread, keep an eye out.

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Which thread is this sorry, could you post a link to it please?

Step your game up.

kitfisto;453955 said:

Thanks again travelling bull. Its time to go into Alpha mode!




Which thread is this sorry, could you post a link to it please?

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Cool thanks!

If you don't mind me asking, why are you gonna post girl advice in your new routine thread?