girl at gym.

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sorry for starting another one of these topics but i had to.
so... i go to the gym regularly and have started seeing this one girl that has been coming in at times that i am there. i always wear my headphones because the gym i go to plays the WORST music ever. this girl also uses her headphones. well from what i hear people who use headphones dont like to be disturbed. but i always notice her stare towards me (eye contact). so what do u think, this was the 3rd times ive seen her in the past 2 weeks and its the same all the time. how would i approach and start a convo with her? shes small petite cute, just how i like em.
 
well she could be looking at you because you're looking at her! she's could be one of two things, thinking "why the fuck does that guy keep looking at me? god i need to go to a curves so there wouldn't be asshole guys gawking at me while i'm trying to run" or she could be thinking "Hydromax..kindda cute."

so hopefully it's the second one..where..i find...going up to the girl and saying "hey" is a good way to start up a convo. and then saying something like "i notice you here often and i was just wondering if i could know your name."

"notice" means you're interested. she'd pick up on that unless she's a ditz or a retard.

nature will take it's course from there
 
well i actually notice more her staring at me. i would do a set look up and shes staring right at me. (usually i see through the mirror that her eyes are right at me.) the next time i see her ill start off with the "hey" and see what happens hopefully i dont make myself look like a fool.
 
nah you wont. you'd only be a fool if you didn't try. what's there to lose? she says yes..then you gain a greatly, if she says no, then she'll just have her head set on and run while you're around.

give it a chance, you'll survive
 
damn no luck today, she was not their. maybe tomorrow. ill keep u updated.

samzman u are right i do got nothing to loose ill keep u posted
 
Hello my freind, I get this often [Sorry I'm not being big headed either or arrogant but with my exotic looks the British woman tend to look allot] and I think she's keen on you. How does her face and eyes look? maybe you are far away and cant see but if she smiles than her eyes will tell you allot because the eyes smile aswell if someone has a genuine smile. You will know this, instinct we have.

Okay well she is looking at you and you look back, this is cool. I dont think she would assume your a little shit or something wanting a quick fix on her because she would get uncomfortable and maybe move around more away from you or give you dirty look, stop looking at you suddenly etc.

Ok than .. you must do your workout and than once you are done on the machine [Finish before she does] make your way over to her but not obvious and do it with confidence, infact always carry yourself with pride and confidence but not like a cocky swine .. you know what I mean bud.

Go over to her and smile, saying 'hi' 9 times out of 10 she will stop and remove her headphones and smile back saying 'hi'. Mention that you see her regularly and that you both take your training seriously and its good to see in here as lots of folk dont really care and sloth about [This is to get things started and not to make obvious you are into her]. Once she responds and I would assume like in agreement, ask her about what routine she does. Once you get chatting you can than mention your going to the gym canteen for a coffee and would she like one or that you could do with a serious running partner [start running] and that you bet you could beat her in a race .. use some humour ... see how she reacts. You have nothing to loose and everything to gain even if she does knock you back because its EXPenis EnlargementRIENCE and that is priceless!!!
 
good advise thanks, been going almost everyday but have not seen her yet. i think i got her... if i ever see her
 
I agree, start with 'Hi' each day. After a while you will be a familiar and friendly face and she will be more open to hearing more about what you have to say.

I remember as a early teenager that I used to walk up to complete strangers and try to strike up conversation. Most of these girls were not the easy type, and yeah, it hardly ever went well.
REDZULU2003;333898 said:
Hello my freind, I get this often [Sorry I'm not being big headed either or arrogant but with my exotic looks the British woman tend to look allot] and I think she's keen on you. How does her face and eyes look? maybe you are far away and cant see but if she smiles than her eyes will tell you allot because the eyes smile aswell if someone has a genuine smile. You will know this, instinct we have.

Okay well she is looking at you and you look back, this is cool. I dont think she would assume your a little shit or something wanting a quick fix on her because she would get uncomfortable and maybe move around more away from you or give you dirty look, stop looking at you suddenly etc.

Ok than .. you must do your workout and than once you are done on the machine [Finish before she does] make your way over to her but not obvious and do it with confidence, infact always carry yourself with pride and confidence but not like a cocky swine .. you know what I mean bud.

Go over to her and smile, saying 'hi' 9 times out of 10 she will stop and remove her headphones and smile back saying 'hi'. Mention that you see her regularly and that you both take your training seriously and its good to see in here as lots of folk dont really care and sloth about [This is to get things started and not to make obvious you are into her]. Once she responds and I would assume like in agreement, ask her about what routine she does. Once you get chatting you can than mention your going to the gym canteen for a coffee and would she like one or that you could do with a serious running partner [start running] and that you bet you could beat her in a race .. use some humour ... see how she reacts. You have nothing to loose and everything to gain even if she does knock you back because its EXPenis EnlargementRIENCE and that is priceless!!!
 
man ever since i opened this thread i have not seen her since. like i also said before i only have seen her twice at this gym. damn always no luck for me.
 
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