My man. I can tell you in all truth, this stuff works. Imo you should spring for a lengthmaster if you don't have one. On my life, I used the lengthmaster for about a month and a half, it turned my gf at the time into a squirter. Every word I'm saying is the truth. Take a month off, just work on kegels and your mindset. Order the lengthmaster. Come back with a refreshed mentality.