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Iwantlenght · Apr 9, 2021

My question is, how do i keep hard on. I always been the guy to never get hard on alcohol. But with my new girl i can fuck for atleast 15 min to make her orgasm. But how do i keep my hard on?

DLD · Apr 9, 2021

Iwantlenght said:
My question is, how do i keep hard on. I always been the guy to never get hard on alcohol. But with my new girl i can fuck for atleast 15 min to make her orgasm. But how do i keep my hard on?

Stop drinking LOL you already know that’s the problem so just stop drinking. Or perhaps you’re thinking too much which can also be the issue. How much are you drinking?

Iwantlenght · Apr 11, 2021

DLD said:
Stop drinking LOL you already know that’s the problem so just stop drinking. Or perhaps you’re thinking too much which can also be the issue. How much are you drinking?

Sometimes not even much at all, yea but would be nice to be able to have sex after a party.

Iwantlenght · Apr 11, 2021

DLD said:
Stop drinking LOL you already know that’s the problem so just stop drinking. Or perhaps you’re thinking too much which can also be the issue. How much are you drinking?

And also, kinda been having that problem overall even when im sober. Sometimes it works really well but a little bit too much the boner just goes away. Not on any medication either

DLD · Apr 11, 2021

Iwantlenght said:
And also, kinda been having that problem overall even when im sober. Sometimes it works really well but a little bit too much the boner just goes away. Not on any medication either

I can relate because I do drink and I do have the problem sometimes and other times I don’t so for me it is not because of alcohol.

For me I have not been practicing my pelvic floor muscle routine which hinders my EQ. So I started doing that again and I’m already noticing harder erections.

So if the issue is not alcohol then the issue must be a mental issue or a physical issue. A mental issue would mean you’re having obsessive thoughts about not being able to get hard. If this is the case we need to work on changing that pattern of thought.

If it is a physical issue it may be because of fatigue so getting the pelvic floor muscles are strong as possible would be the fix.

Let me know your thoughts my brother

Iwantlenght · Apr 12, 2021

DLD said:
I can relate because I do drink and I do have the problem sometimes and other times I don’t so for me it is not because of alcohol.

For me I have not been practicing my pelvic floor muscle routine which hinders my EQ. So I started doing that again and I’m already noticing harder erections.

So if the issue is not alcohol then the issue must be a mental issue or a physical issue. A mental issue would mean you’re having obsessive thoughts about not being able to get hard. If this is the case we need to work on changing that pattern of thought.

If it is a physical issue it may be because of fatigue so getting the pelvic floor muscles are strong as possible would be the fix.

Let me know your thoughts my brother

I dont think its because of my pelvic muscles because i train it all the time. So maybe its in my head? But not really sure how to get it fixed then.

REDZULU2003 · Apr 12, 2021

Buy some beetroot powder

Iwantlenght · Apr 12, 2021

REDZULU2003 said:
Buy some beetroot powder

What does it do?

DLD · Apr 12, 2021

Iwantlenght said:
I dont think its because of my pelvic muscles because i train it all the time. So maybe its in my head? But not really sure how to get it fixed then.

if it’s in your head you need to just reject those thoughts and replace those thoughts with positive thoughts. It does take practice but you’ll get it down. I went through the same thing and I had to follow the same protocol

Bramv · Apr 14, 2021

I recognize that and I know it's in my head as well. For some reason, it happened to me once that I could not get a full hard one with a girl when we wanted to have sex for a 2nd time. That was 3 years ago. (were normally I could easily go on for 3/4 times) Since then, this thought keeps coming back and makes me insecure. And I know that doesn't help the situation.
Some time ago I started searching on the internet and found a blog post where a guy explained that you should mentally frame that you're strong, with a strong erection, and that you will be nailing it

Hope this, and the fact I stopped watching �� will help.

DLD · Apr 14, 2021

I’m so glad you have such a good self-awareness, it’s so valuable in the sport. I also admire your desire to avoid ��, we all need to do this to stop the subjugation of women and the terrible addiction it has on men. We will never be perfect, and it doesn’t make it any better that is so easily accessible, but we need to try. And wherever we go we need to make disciples of this practice and eventually it will do some good. Sex is a beautiful thing that satan has destroyed. Let’s take it back boys!

A good way to deal with obsessive thinking is to use DBT. Are used to be so obsessed over everything and it really was a waste of my time and I was getting nowhere. I realized that the thinking that was causing the issues was the past and the future. When I was able to practice DBT and remain in the moment all of a sudden things started to change. It’s a very fun thing and will help you correct the negativity with pragmatic positivity! Here is the link:

Knowledge Center - Behavioral Tech Institute

Throughout this space, you will find expertly curated DBT-related information and resources.

behavioraltech.org

Slampocalypse · Apr 15, 2021

If it’s in your head then it’s in your head, and you’ll just have to sort yourself out. I’ve noticed much better quality from taking D3+K2 as a note of something worth trying

Iwantlenght · Apr 18, 2021

Slampocalypse said:
If it’s in your head then it’s in your head, and you’ll just have to sort yourself out. I’ve noticed much better quality from taking D3+K2 as a note of something worth trying

Whats that?

Iwantlenght · Apr 18, 2021

DLD said:
I’m so glad you have such a good self-awareness, it’s so valuable in the sport. I also admire your desire to avoid ��, we all need to do this to stop the subjugation of women and the terrible addiction it has on men. We will never be perfect, and it doesn’t make it any better that is so easily accessible, but we need to try. And wherever we go we need to make disciples of this practice and eventually it will do some good. Sex is a beautiful thing that satan has destroyed. Let’s take it back boys!

A good way to deal with obsessive thinking is to use DBT. Are used to be so obsessed over everything and it really was a waste of my time and I was getting nowhere. I realized that the thinking that was causing the issues was the past and the future. When I was able to practice DBT and remain in the moment all of a sudden things started to change. It’s a very fun thing and will help you correct the negativity with pragmatic positivity! Here is the link:

Knowledge Center - Behavioral Tech Institute

Throughout this space, you will find expertly curated DBT-related information and resources.

behavioraltech.org

You say stop watching �� but i still can watch videos of me and my gf right?

DLD · Apr 18, 2021

Iwantlenght said:
You say stop watching �� but i still can watch videos of me and my gf right?

All day long every day! That my brother that is called beautiful! I hope all brothers take this advice and use their wives as their inspiration. There is no reason for a man to go behind his woman’s back to watch that filth. I know everybody’s messes up once in a while, especially me, and that’s called being human. God does not expect us to be perfect, he knows we’re gonna mess up once in a while. But every time we do mess up we should look at it as an opportunity to better ourselves. And we should all pray that sex becomes a beautiful thing again to those who has made it disgusting.

Iwantlenght · Apr 20, 2021

DLD said:
All day long every day! That my brother that is called beautiful! I hope all brothers take this advice and use their wives as their inspiration. There is no reason for a man to go behind his woman’s back to watch that filth. I know everybody’s messes up once in a while, especially me, and that’s called being human. God does not expect us to be perfect, he knows we’re gonna mess up once in a while. But every time we do mess up we should look at it as an opportunity to better ourselves. And we should all pray that sex becomes a beautiful thing again to those who has made it disgusting.

Yea i have been watching �� sooo much more then i should im gonna stop completly and masturbate less and if i do just use me and my gf! Thank you. I really feel like �� has destroyed sex for me and i hope it will ger better soon.

DLD · Apr 21, 2021

Iwantlenght said:
Yea i have been watching �� sooo much more then i should im gonna stop completly and masturbate less and if i do just use me and my gf! Thank you. I really feel like �� has destroyed sex for me and i hope it will ger better soon.

God will bless you for this my brother big time! I admire your choice!

Slampocalypse · Apr 21, 2021

Iwantlenght said:
Whats that?

Just vitamins, good for blood flow and muscle tone, reduces inflammation

Slampocalypse · Apr 21, 2021

Iwantlenght said:
Yea i have been watching �� sooo much more then i should im gonna stop completly and masturbate less and if i do just use me and my gf! Thank you. I really feel like �� has destroyed sex for me and i hope it will ger better soon.

It might take a while but it’s worth it.

Iwantlenght · Apr 25, 2021

So guys i stoped �� now for over 1,5 week and havent even masturbated for 1 week. Ive been away from my gf for 2 weeks and just met her now after a 10 hour drive and it was literally impossible to get hard. Its so hard to feel good about my self or even feel like a man when that happens, im only 21 also...

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