well i think is a way to protect themselves from their lack of size i guess,they think they are ok whit their size n they brag about it whit those words
This ^^ , to protect themselves / their egos.
They like to pretend that guys with larger dicks somehow..
magically ..don't know what to do with it, when, fact is, the guys with the larger dicks tend to have higher confidence, ..which translates into higher likelihood for success with chicks, .. which translates into superior opportunities for practice/using it and getting feedback.
Not only do larger penises (within reason)
automatically cause more pleasure from higher feelings of spreading, and friction, and longer strokes of friction, and from being more filled up/stretched .. but their owners are going to also have a higher chance of knowing how to be good using them too.
Can some smaller guy -be- better at sex than some larger guy? Sure. But you're comparing (and more rare at that) apples to oranges..
Compare smaller apples ..to larger apples ..and the smaller apples lose every time.
So ....
A 1000 times in my life I heard that ' it's not about the size of the tool, it's all about how you use it'. But those mothe****rs who tell this, never explain any special techniques or, something like this
They've got no secret up their pants. Certainly nothing that anyone couldn't simply look up on the internet these days.
-Get the girl's mind into it beforehand with anticipation. With enough of that they can orgasm instantaneously upon insertion, or even while just giving a blowjob.
-Teasing (not rushing) also builds anticipation. You don't have to get them out of their clothes when, after a bit of teasing, they're tearing off their clothes and yours too.
-Get the girl's oxytocin hormone into it, this is the orgasm (and emotional-bonding) chemical. Build it up. Make sure her breasts and nipples are well-involved in the foreplay, not like "Tune in, Tokyo" .. but ya know, be smooth about it.
-Take the time to use your dick to feel what her insides feel like, you should be able to tell what sections inside her have the highest friction for you and tell what angles you'd need to use to hit/focus on those areas on purpose during your strokes.
-Do the gspot fingering thing if you know what you're doing. It's not always amazing for everyone, so go by their reactions rather than your expectations, and only use it as a foreplay, transition, or finisher .. never the main part of the show.
-If the positions allow it, engage in as much eye contact, and sly/cocky approval-smiling as possible, so it's more assuring and emotionally moving too.
There ... now they've got nothing but a smaller dick.
