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Disco Dave

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Hey Guys. My lady of 15years told me she was going to a movie after work with her co-workers yesterday. Now she gets off at 5pm but the movie didnt suppose to start until 7:30 pm. Now at 11:30 pm I called my lady and ask where the heck was she. She text back she will be home soon. Now finally at 12:30 midnite; she comes in the house while me and my 11year old are watching TV. I guess she thought I would be past-out drunk but I've been sober for 6 days so I was wide awake. Now I notice that she had on different clothes than what she left to work in. These clothes were more provacative and not what you would really wear to the movies. Now I notice she was drunk and could barely look into my eyes or say a word to me or the kids. Now once she went to sleep I check her phone, and the car. Now after doing some digging I seen that she and a female co-worker went to a Chip N Dale show. Plus she had a given photograph of one of the dancers in her purse. He was dressed like a topless fireman. Now it was a professional picwhich was probably given to her at the meet n greet. Now I know it was more of a classy show than a bonified strip club; But still. The tickets were 50bucks plus gas,food,and drinks. So thats 100bucks household/her/our money she used on this shit. Plus obviously she think she wears the pants in the house ( because if I didnt call to check on her; it seems like she wouldnt of called). Whats next; she feels it safe to cheat. Iam glad I was sober and awake to get the info I needed plus not say a word until I cooled off. Now she is smart,classy,and sexy and the best baby mama. But since she makes more than me for the last 3 years; She starting to get on that Womens Lib shit. Now Iam at work and she doesnt know I Know yet. So should I argue or give her a chance to come clean or play dumb. What should I do.
 
I would wait and let her come clean. Or a little poking for answers but acting like you know nothing. I would rather have my wife at a chip n dale show than out partying with random guys. They have those shows here at casinos once in awhile. My wife always jokes that she and her sister should go. I just tell her to go and have a good time. Maybe your wife was too embarrassed to say anything to you about where they were going.
 
Happywithbm;595754 said:
I would wait and let her come clean. Or a little poking for answers but acting like you know nothing. I would rather have my wife at a chip n dale show than out partying with random guys. They have those shows here at casinos once in awhile. My wife always jokes that she and her sister should go. I just tell her to go and have a good time. Maybe your wife was too embarrassed to say anything to you about where they were going.
Thanks. You are right ChipNDales is more of a show than strip joints. If I was drunk I would of probably overreacted at 1am. Good thing I quit drinking. But now I feel that she may start to think about more adventurous escapades. Idk. Plus Iam pissed because if I didnt call her at 11:30 pm. She wouldnt of called me (whom was at home with the kids). This is how it starts. Idk.
 
It sucks when we are lied to and know it, it can really destroy so much. I agree with Happy that going to the show is not a big deal and better than going out and cheating but still the fact remains that she lied. I think the concentration needs to be put on why she lied, what is she missing inside that she needs to lie. How has your relationship been with her, has there been problems? I would concentrate my efforts on the deeper whys of this than the place she went to. Wait until you are both relaxed and private and see what you can figure out on the whys.
 
Maybe she did it; to say I Did It. But yes the lying plus not one "Iam OK Text" the whole night. She probably thinks since I became overweight, drunk, depressed, and insecure that maybe she didnt want to tell me. But what if something bad had happened to her. I wouldnt have known nothing. No text with kids at home means you are having the time of your life. But it motivates me to become Disco Dave. I will now start a more intensed self-inbetterment lifestyle.
 
Disco Dave;595782 said:
Maybe she did it; to say I Did It. But yes the lying plus not one "Iam OK Text" the whole night. She probably thinks since I became overweight, drunk, depressed, and insecure that maybe she didnt want to tell me. But what if something bad had happened to her. I wouldnt have known nothing. No text with kids at home means you are having the time of your life. But it motivates me to become Disco Dave. I will now start a more intensed self-inbetterment lifestyle.

You just answered the question why she is straying! I do not want to hurt you, I love you as my fellow Brother, but being overweight, drunk, depressed, and insecure are the exact opposite of what she wants. I am so proud of you Dave for being sober 6 days but I want to see you make it 6 months and in this time I want you to loose that weight and start to feel better about yourself. Let her know that you are on a quest to better yourself and let that quest start today. I would approach the conversation from that point of view. Saying something like, "I know I have let myself go but today I am starting a new and I want you to be part of it". I promise you that it will not only change the weight, dependence, depression, and insecurity, it will save the relationship and make it better than ever. Who were you when you met her? What did you have to offer? Lets get you on the road to recovery and rejuvenation. Much love Dave, no offense meant only support.
 
I think DLD hit it right on!
The only thing i would have done differently, is told her i know she went out, and i don't appreciate being lied to, but i undestand that my behavior is part of the reason why maybe and im making changes, starting immediatly... so on and so fort, like DLD said.
 
jekyllnhyde360;595795 said:
I think DLD hit it right on!
The only thing i would have done differently, is told her i know she went out, and i don't appreciate being lied to, but i undestand that my behavior is part of the reason why maybe and im making changes, starting immediatly... so on and so fort, like DLD said.

Indeed!

The thing is with women you need to keep them tempted for a better future. Complacency is the fastest way to loss. When women see us as working towards a better self they can't help themselves from becoming involved for the better you. I know this from my own experiences with my x Jennifer. She saw me go from a hungry, evolving, positive man to a fat, lazy, stagnant man and this is why she looked for something better. I did not make the changes I needed to keep her and it was all my fault.
 
I agree. Continue to stay sober, lose weight and add size to your penis, which losing weight will help with. Set goals in and out of PE and get excited about achieving them. Do more things with your lady and show her that you love her but also have your own goals and things to do on your own. And stop worrying about her cheating on you because if you do it will happen.
 
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tef1;595805 said:
I agree. Continue to stay sober, lose weight and add size to your penis, which losing weight will help with. Set goals in and out of PE and get excited about achieving them. Do more things with your lady and show her that you love her but also have your own goals and things to do on your own. And stop worrying about her cheating on you because if you do it will happen.


A part I left out and you mentioned. Spending quality time with your mate and family will be a healthy part of your total change. It does sound like a lot Dave but a lot is what you need right now. Set your goals and do whatever the fuck it takes to make them happen...we will support you the whole way!
 
Thanks guys. Iam glad I started weightloss/sobrierty 5 days before this occurred. I will use it as motivation. Plus I am glad I asked you guys first before overreacting. Thanks for the counseling guys.
 
How did you find out how much the price/admission/tickets were? Were there receipts somewhere?

It might had been the first time or it may have not. I agree that chippendales seems less harmless than @ a bar since they're probably not gaming chicks on the job. After is another story though.

Don't see how you can bring it up to her w/o looking like that over protective dude that's going through her shit. It's different if the stuffs in her car or posted via her friends/herself on facebook. Then you can twist things to not look like a dick and make a mention of where she was.

Just seems like a bit of girl fun or chippendales might be a gateway drug to other things. Whats the status on her friend(s)? Are they single?
 
Smerc: It does seem like it was just a quick get a way. Btw: I strolled through her phone/net history while she was sleep and seen she got a receipt confirmation for the show. The thing is if she would of told me upfront I probably would have said takes some pics for the fun of it. I have no problem too much with her being out but since women get kidnapped or raped; I do need to know where you are at and some type of update on what are you are doing next. Plus I dont want my lady thinking its cool to stroll in at 1am without calling. But I still havent talked to her about it yet and I probably wont directly ask her. I will just give her enough room to see how she wants to play it out and then I will go from there.
 
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It would be better to bring it up in regards to a safety issue, rather then a where she went issue. Not sure how defensive she gets w/ confrontation, but that would be the best road to head towards if you was going to bring it up. Shitty being lied to though. Maybe she did see the movie and do the chippendales thing, seems there was enough time for both.
 
Hey Smerc: I just confronted her. This is what happened. I said " Hey babe, how was Magic Mike last night "( and then I started laughing). And then she started laughing and blushing. Now Magic Mike is a stripper movie we both watch together; So she knew what I meant. LOL. Then she said "How did you know" (while smiling). LoL. And I said "I didnt but next time keep it real because things happen to women and I feel better atleast knowing where you are at". And she said "I know but I didnt know how you would take it". And then she smiled and gave me a big hug n kiss. She looked relieved to not have to keep up the lie. So I told her. " Its forgotten but next time keep it real for safety sake". Thanks. Because besides you and others on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]; Disco Dave doesnt have any male confidants. Now she seemed so relieved that I may get laid tonight. LoL. Thanks guys.
 
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Disco Dave;595825 said:
Hey Smerc: I just confronted her. This is what happened. I said " Hey babe, how was Magic Mike last night ". And she started laughing and blushing. Now Magic Mike is a stripper movie we both watch together; So she knew what I meant. LOL. Then she said "How did you know" (while smiling). LoL. And I said "I didnt but next time keep it real because things happen to women and I feel better atleast knowing where you are at". And she said "I know but I didnt know how you would take it". And then she smiled and gave me a big hug n kiss. She looked relieved to not have to keep up the lie. So I told her. " Its forgotten but next time keep it real for safety sake". Thanks. Because besides you and others on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]; Disco Dave doesnt have any male confidants. Now she seemed so relieved that I may get laid tonight. LoL. Thanks guys.

Confidence is King!
 
doublelongdaddy;595827 said:
Confidence is King!
DLD: This Brotherhood works numerous wonders for the regular guys like me who are confused in various subjects. Maybe [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] should Nationally start a anti-domestic violence campaign. At first I was confused (domestically) But the Brothers helped me. Lets go on DR Phil and help others stop the Domestic Violence Jealousy Madness. Its a win win situation. Iam sure others will agree. Thank you guys for helping me calm down. Semper Fi.
 
smerc;595822 said:
It would be better to bring it up in regards to a safety issue, rather then a where she went issue. Not sure how defensive she gets w/ confrontation, but that would be the best road to head towards if you was going to bring it up. Shitty being lied to though. Maybe she did see the movie and do the chippendales thing, seems there was enough time for both.

Smerc ftw:)
 
Of course we are all with you Dave, brother! We are here for each other and this is what makes me feel like [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] is my home. I am happy to hear that everything is now better, I agree with all the advices given by the brothers above (especially DLD's comment on what he thinks based on his own experience). There is maybe one more thing I can add to this whole story- Variety! As I was reading "Sex God Method" (A GREAT book for everyone to read and a book that inspired my "Kiss the being a bad lover GOODBYE!!!!!" thread), I saw that one of the keys of a healthy relationship (whether it be in bed or out of bed) is Variety. Try to give her something you have not given to her and keep her interested in you. Do not become one of the men that never experiment and do something new and special for their halves. I am not one of the people with experience here, especially considering my young age, but I am sure on this one, because I would want the same in a relationship with a woman. How would you feel if you married a beautiful funny girl and after years she gets fat, hairy, alcohol addicted woman not keeping you interested in your relationship. I mean NO offense, just as everyone else here- but I think it is time for change and there is no better motivation than what happened to you yesterday! I am with you and I support you! Keep us in touch with your progress (btw, why dont you make a weight loss/no-drinking/PE progress thread to keep us all in touch on how you go, so we can help you overcome your problems and further motivate you to reach your goals)! I am looking forward to opening my homepage and see on friends list- Disco Dave has started a thread- Dave's jorney to a better man! All the best I wish you my brother!!! Your brother, Zam :)
 
Disco Dave;595832 said:
DLD: This Brotherhood works numerous wonders for the regular guys like me who are confused in various subjects. Maybe [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] should Nationally start a anti-domestic violence campaign. At first I was confused (domestically) But the Brothers helped me. Lets go on DR Phil and help others stop the Domestic Violence Jealousy Madness. Its a win win situation. Iam sure others will agree. Thank you guys for helping me calm down. Semper Fi.

There is a whole section in the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] Book on dealing with issues in a more peaceful way, here is a excerpt from the book on getting what we want in life. The book refers to the readers as Snakes:

The Human Magnet
How do you bring things to yourself that are of your desire? Movement really confuses this simple, magical art. If I want a hamburger I will gravitate to that hamburger or the hamburger will gravitate to me. Now there are conditions we set up that block this simple act of magnetic movement. Some may put money in the way or distance or some other block that keeps them from receiving but they could have the hamburger with the most quickness by simple desiring it. Desire is a word we need to expand on as the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] definition is; Desire is a mental stimulation that allows us to receive what we want when we want. There are no limitations in this definition nor does it relate to time or size, it simply puts out a magnetic thought that brings the desire into our grasps. Getting the blocks out of the way is what needs to be mastered.

We are taught as [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] Vipers to have what we truly want. We ignore time, money and size, we simply ask and await the arrival. Making room for what you have desired is necessary to belief process. Making room includes imagination and seeing things as you wish them to be and shaking off the past thoughts. Size really gets into the way of many men, they believe that the size of what they want is just not possible but to an [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] Snake we don’t ask for the impossible, we ask for the possible and it comes with ease and quickness. Some men may jump right into the penis enlargement portion of [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] and desire a 12” penis and they are starting with a 4”, is this possible? Yes but probable? No. It would make more sense to ask for a realistic size and make it happen. The same man in [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] would set his goal to 6” and make it happen with quickness. From here a new goal can be set but if the goal is unrealistic the outcome will be likewise and it will only add to stress and disappointment. We are all taking a staircase here and each step deserves a thorough appreciation. Going through the whole process too fast will only make you lose out on the joys of each level.

Time can sometimes get in the way of our hopes and this is funny because time is simply a measurement. The measurement is what causes the desire to become stifled but when we can separate ourselves from the clock and truly allow our imagination to take over the second we believe it the desire arrives. So we can say that the desire is activated into matter by the ability to convince yourself you already have it. Simple yes but simply practiced, no. We don’t notice time until a certain age and from that point forward our lives fall into more and more precise devisions of time. With the recognitions of time we lose a bit of our imagination and the more time that is filled with noticing time stifles this sense even more. I personally do not subscribe to a clock to measure my wants, I spend the time pretending I have them already and this is how the game is played to guarantee accuracy and quickness.

Money become a block too and this is why we are gifted with creativity, again an art stifled by becoming an adult. Creativity is money! This is a truth [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] demands you put into immediate action. Money or the potential to purchase something is all about creativity. For some the money is already converted and they can purchase their desire now but this is only because they were creative enough to make the money. Creativity has little to do with being smart and more to do with thinking in simpler terms. A baby never has an issue getting what they need, they simply cry and it is given but as we grow older money takes the place of asking. Asking for an expensive desire and having the creativity to get it needs to be approached with the same kind of imagination we use in other blocks. If we have the wherewith to desire something we also have the creativity to get it. Making creativity become money happens when we do something we love with passion in the creation for others. If you love something, do it with passion and make it available to the public for purchase and you will be amazed at how many fish there are in the see of money giving donors for our desires. I still, to this day, answer questions on the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]Matters of Size[/words] Forums in the same love and spirit I did in the beginning. The longest break in the 11 years I have ran the forum has been to write this book, 6 months. Although the book has been in the making for years the actual ink was put on the paper in 6 months. Now, this book is a simple example of my creativity to have what I desire. I know that I wrote this with love and passion and I know the result of that creativity will become money or the ability to purchase something of great value. Non of what I am doing takes money, it is simply writing my thoughts on paper but that simplicity will bring green paper into my lap. The process in writing this book is exactly an example of the system in action. I creatively expressed my words with enough love and passion that I am certain, before it happens, I will be successful and I know this because I have pretended it into reality in my mind already now I only need to make room for what is coming my way.

We are a beacon of magnetic energy that when the skill is shined up and brought back into the foreground we can bring to us with ease the situations and people of our real preference. The process is kind of like ordering from a catalog. You find what you want by the search and once it is found you order it and wait for it to arrive. You do not doubt it’s arrival, you know it is on its way. You would not order a couch and then go and order it again, you simply order it and make room for it’s arrival. This is the creative imagination at work using pure mental power to bring what you want into your lap. So the approach you make to your desires from this point forward should be practiced in this way and you will have earned the stripes of manifestation. It is not a power for a few, it is one for all but only some know how to use. [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] cuts the bull and just lets you know. Never worry about others, there is more than enough for everyone to partake, how much we take completely rests on how much we can pretend to exist. You could say the things that truly matter will become real matter in your world.
 
jekyllnhyde360;596087 said:
Great job Disco!
Also, great perspective to SMERC and DLD!
you both nailed it!

And Dave nailed it too! Good work Dave.
 
That was a great way to go about it, Dave. Just don't forget about it. I would use it as motivation to continue to better yourself in the ways that you previously described. With PE, proper diet (including little-no alcohol), and aerobic/anaerobic exercise, you can be looking better than the guys she went to see. Seeing positive results towards your ultimate goals will also help to end your depression. Best of luck to you on your journey.
 
doublelongdaddy;595988 said:
There is a whole section in the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] Book on dealing with issues in a more peaceful way, here is a excerpt from the book on getting what we want in life. The book refers to the readers as Snakes:

The Human Magnet
How do you bring things to yourself that are of your desire? Movement really confuses this simple, magical art. If I want a hamburger I will gravitate to that hamburger or the hamburger will gravitate to me. Now there are conditions we set up that block this simple act of magnetic movement. Some may put money in the way or distance or some other block that keeps them from receiving but they could have the hamburger with the most quickness by simple desiring it. Desire is a word we need to expand on as the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] definition is; Desire is a mental stimulation that allows us to receive what we want when we want. There are no limitations in this definition nor does it relate to time or size, it simply puts out a magnetic thought that brings the desire into our grasps. Getting the blocks out of the way is what needs to be mastered.

We are taught as [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] Vipers to have what we truly want. We ignore time, money and size, we simply ask and await the arrival. Making room for what you have desired is necessary to belief process. Making room includes imagination and seeing things as you wish them to be and shaking off the past thoughts. Size really gets into the way of many men, they believe that the size of what they want is just not possible but to an [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] Snake we don’t ask for the impossible, we ask for the possible and it comes with ease and quickness. Some men may jump right into the penis enlargement portion of [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] and desire a 12” penis and they are starting with a 4”, is this possible? Yes but probable? No. It would make more sense to ask for a realistic size and make it happen. The same man in [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] would set his goal to 6” and make it happen with quickness. From here a new goal can be set but if the goal is unrealistic the outcome will be likewise and it will only add to stress and disappointment. We are all taking a staircase here and each step deserves a thorough appreciation. Going through the whole process too fast will only make you lose out on the joys of each level.

Time can sometimes get in the way of our hopes and this is funny because time is simply a measurement. The measurement is what causes the desire to become stifled but when we can separate ourselves from the clock and truly allow our imagination to take over the second we believe it the desire arrives. So we can say that the desire is activated into matter by the ability to convince yourself you already have it. Simple yes but simply practiced, no. We don’t notice time until a certain age and from that point forward our lives fall into more and more precise devisions of time. With the recognitions of time we lose a bit of our imagination and the more time that is filled with noticing time stifles this sense even more. I personally do not subscribe to a clock to measure my wants, I spend the time pretending I have them already and this is how the game is played to guarantee accuracy and quickness.

Money become a block too and this is why we are gifted with creativity, again an art stifled by becoming an adult. Creativity is money! This is a truth [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] demands you put into immediate action. Money or the potential to purchase something is all about creativity. For some the money is already converted and they can purchase their desire now but this is only because they were creative enough to make the money. Creativity has little to do with being smart and more to do with thinking in simpler terms. A baby never has an issue getting what they need, they simply cry and it is given but as we grow older money takes the place of asking. Asking for an expensive desire and having the creativity to get it needs to be approached with the same kind of imagination we use in other blocks. If we have the wherewith to desire something we also have the creativity to get it. Making creativity become money happens when we do something we love with passion in the creation for others. If you love something, do it with passion and make it available to the public for purchase and you will be amazed at how many fish there are in the see of money giving donors for our desires. I still, to this day, answer questions on the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]Matters of Size[/words] Forums in the same love and spirit I did in the beginning. The longest break in the 11 years I have ran the forum has been to write this book, 6 months. Although the book has been in the making for years the actual ink was put on the paper in 6 months. Now, this book is a simple example of my creativity to have what I desire. I know that I wrote this with love and passion and I know the result of that creativity will become money or the ability to purchase something of great value. Non of what I am doing takes money, it is simply writing my thoughts on paper but that simplicity will bring green paper into my lap. The process in writing this book is exactly an example of the system in action. I creatively expressed my words with enough love and passion that I am certain, before it happens, I will be successful and I know this because I have pretended it into reality in my mind already now I only need to make room for what is coming my way.

We are a beacon of magnetic energy that when the skill is shined up and brought back into the foreground we can bring to us with ease the situations and people of our real preference. The process is kind of like ordering from a catalog. You find what you want by the search and once it is found you order it and wait for it to arrive. You do not doubt it’s arrival, you know it is on its way. You would not order a couch and then go and order it again, you simply order it and make room for it’s arrival. This is the creative imagination at work using pure mental power to bring what you want into your lap. So the approach you make to your desires from this point forward should be practiced in this way and you will have earned the stripes of manifestation. It is not a power for a few, it is one for all but only some know how to use. [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] cuts the bull and just lets you know. Never worry about others, there is more than enough for everyone to partake, how much we take completely rests on how much we can pretend to exist. You could say the things that truly matter will become real matter in your world.
This is a very interesting perspective on the human magnet, and how it ties into [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] as a way of life. I can pretend that I have your book already............. hot off the press.:)
 
ADF;596178 said:
This is a very interesting perspective on the human magnet, and how it ties into [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] as a way of life. I can pretend that I have your book already............. hot off the press.:)

The book is filled with these metaphysical practices and a big reason the editing takes so long, much of this has not been approached yet. [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] was a wonderful launching pad for this further exploration of the mind/body connection. Out of the 18 chapters only one is dedicated to PE but it becomes easy to see how the influence is universal with all parts of the body and mind.
 
Indeed!

The thing is with women you need to keep them tempted for a better future. Complacency is the fastest way to loss. When women see us as working towards a better self they can't help themselves from becoming involved for the better you. I know this from my own experiences with my x Jennifer. She saw me go from a hungry, evolving, positive man to a fat, lazy, stagnant man and this is why she looked for something better. I did not make the changes I needed to keep her and it was all my fault.

Lesson learnt here. I will never let go of myself. I will be at the best form in terms of body weight. Exercise like my life depends on it.
 
There is a whole section in the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] Book on dealing with issues in a more peaceful way, here is a excerpt from the book on getting what we want in life. The book refers to the readers as Snakes:

The Human Magnet
How do you bring things to yourself that are of your desire? Movement really confuses this simple, magical art. If I want a hamburger I will gravitate to that hamburger or the hamburger will gravitate to me. Now there are conditions we set up that block this simple act of magnetic movement. Some may put money in the way or distance or some other block that keeps them from receiving but they could have the hamburger with the most quickness by simple desiring it. Desire is a word we need to expand on as the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] definition is; Desire is a mental stimulation that allows us to receive what we want when we want. There are no limitations in this definition nor does it relate to time or size, it simply puts out a magnetic thought that brings the desire into our grasps. Getting the blocks out of the way is what needs to be mastered.

We are taught as [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] Vipers to have what we truly want. We ignore time, money and size, we simply ask and await the arrival. Making room for what you have desired is necessary to belief process. Making room includes imagination and seeing things as you wish them to be and shaking off the past thoughts. Size really gets into the way of many men, they believe that the size of what they want is just not possible but to an [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] Snake we don’t ask for the impossible, we ask for the possible and it comes with ease and quickness. Some men may jump right into the penis enlargement portion of [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] and desire a 12” penis and they are starting with a 4”, is this possible? Yes but probable? No. It would make more sense to ask for a realistic size and make it happen. The same man in [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] would set his goal to 6” and make it happen with quickness. From here a new goal can be set but if the goal is unrealistic the outcome will be likewise and it will only add to stress and disappointment. We are all taking a staircase here and each step deserves a thorough appreciation. Going through the whole process too fast will only make you lose out on the joys of each level.

Time can sometimes get in the way of our hopes and this is funny because time is simply a measurement. The measurement is what causes the desire to become stifled but when we can separate ourselves from the clock and truly allow our imagination to take over the second we believe it the desire arrives. So we can say that the desire is activated into matter by the ability to convince yourself you already have it. Simple yes but simply practiced, no. We don’t notice time until a certain age and from that point forward our lives fall into more and more precise devisions of time. With the recognitions of time we lose a bit of our imagination and the more time that is filled with noticing time stifles this sense even more. I personally do not subscribe to a clock to measure my wants, I spend the time pretending I have them already and this is how the game is played to guarantee accuracy and quickness.

Money become a block too and this is why we are gifted with creativity, again an art stifled by becoming an adult. Creativity is money! This is a truth [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] demands you put into immediate action. Money or the potential to purchase something is all about creativity. For some the money is already converted and they can purchase their desire now but this is only because they were creative enough to make the money. Creativity has little to do with being smart and more to do with thinking in simpler terms. A baby never has an issue getting what they need, they simply cry and it is given but as we grow older money takes the place of asking. Asking for an expensive desire and having the creativity to get it needs to be approached with the same kind of imagination we use in other blocks. If we have the wherewith to desire something we also have the creativity to get it. Making creativity become money happens when we do something we love with passion in the creation for others. If you love something, do it with passion and make it available to the public for purchase and you will be amazed at how many fish there are in the see of money giving donors for our desires. I still, to this day, answer questions on the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]Matters of Size[/words] Forums in the same love and spirit I did in the beginning. The longest break in the 11 years I have ran the forum has been to write this book, 6 months. Although the book has been in the making for years the actual ink was put on the paper in 6 months. Now, this book is a simple example of my creativity to have what I desire. I know that I wrote this with love and passion and I know the result of that creativity will become money or the ability to purchase something of great value. Non of what I am doing takes money, it is simply writing my thoughts on paper but that simplicity will bring green paper into my lap. The process in writing this book is exactly an example of the system in action. I creatively expressed my words with enough love and passion that I am certain, before it happens, I will be successful and I know this because I have pretended it into reality in my mind already now I only need to make room for what is coming my way.

We are a beacon of magnetic energy that when the skill is shined up and brought back into the foreground we can bring to us with ease the situations and people of our real preference. The process is kind of like ordering from a catalog. You find what you want by the search and once it is found you order it and wait for it to arrive. You do not doubt it’s arrival, you know it is on its way. You would not order a couch and then go and order it again, you simply order it and make room for it’s arrival. This is the creative imagination at work using pure mental power to bring what you want into your lap. So the approach you make to your desires from this point forward should be practiced in this way and you will have earned the stripes of manifestation. It is not a power for a few, it is one for all but only some know how to use. [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] cuts the bull and just lets you know. Never worry about others, there is more than enough for everyone to partake, how much we take completely rests on how much we can pretend to exist. You could say the things that truly matter will become real matter in your world.


The book is filled with these metaphysical practices and a big reason the editing takes so long, much of this has not been approached yet. [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] was a wonderful launching pad for this further exploration of the mind/body connection. Out of the 18 chapters only one is dedicated to PE but it becomes easy to see how the influence is universal with all parts of the body and mind.
@DLD , I'm very interested and curious about this SRT book. Is this book finished? Is there any way in order to read this book?
 
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I just read the first bit, but I feel like this guy should put up boundaries and not hesitate to stick to them. I know it’s hard when you’re in a relationship and you want to see the best out of that person.

Sometimes you gotta do what is best for you, even though you may not realize it at the time.
 
I just read the first bit, but I feel like this guy should put up boundaries and not hesitate to stick to them. I know it’s hard when you’re in a relationship and you want to see the best out of that person.

Sometimes you gotta do what is best for you, even though you may not realize it at the time.
Women feel attracted to a man with strong values and boundaries if it's done correctly.
 
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