Two years into Pickup/Seduction, sample size.

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Hey all.

So the last 2 years I've been single, I did a great job of motivating myself to get great at pickup and seduction, and have hooked up with roughly 30-40 women.

You can see my stats in my sig.

Anyways, even with my modest size (by [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] standards), out of the 30+ women I've banged they've all had incredibly tight vaginas and commented on my size. I've never been called huge, but I get 'big', 'sizable', and 'thick'.

There were only 2 women out of the sample that had what I'd consider 'loose' or 'large' vaginas. Keep in mind, I've only bottomed out 2 girls in my life, also (because my length isn't stellar, but make up for it with the girth).

Additionally, only 3 girls out of all of them were able to deepthroat me, and not that it's a gag reflex, but actually fit their mouths around the halfway point of my cock. NOTE: those 3 girls were chubby :) :)

Just food for thought for you more insecure guys out there. 6" IS BIG!

If you're on the slightly smaller end of the spectrum, you don't have to get that far to rise above the deviation!
 
Yes!! so true what's average these days anyhow 5? I keep reading online it's all about the girth during sex and 7-8 inch EL and you can bottom out most women.
Ideal girth size is it 6-6.5 inches anymore and it's getting to big?
 
8incyclops;595849 said:
Yes!! so true what's average these days anyhow 5? I keep reading online it's all about the girth during sex and 7-8 inch EL and you can bottom out most women.
Ideal girth size is it 6-6.5 inches anymore and it's getting to big?
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6-6.5 might be a tad too much, mid 5ish I'd say. Fills them up, anal is doable and quickies are somewhat possible but different for everyone
 
A lot of guys are going for the magic 8 EL and 6 EG
Yeah 6 is pretty big I think length 7-8 is best women are saying it's all about the girth
 
Just to confirm what you're saying... I'm about the same length and I've gotten called "big/huge" before. I'm bottoming out the girl I'm fucking now. I think if people want to be able to go balls deep in a girl while still getting good reactions about their size, then 7-7.25" is an easy goal. You won't get the monster cock reactions, but girls will still think you're big and go tell their friends about your dick.
 
Lately I've been talking to lots of girls and it seems like ALL of them prefer girth over length... period. Now there was another thread around started by LIGHTNING, where we started discussing that 5-5.5 is more of a perfect girth (cause 6+ starts to get painful instead of pleasure-able) and length- that 7 is a great size for it. I dont know how true this is, but I have to agree that the magical 8 x 6 is called magical for a reason. But yea, lets make a discussion guys, what is your own experience on size and comments. I want to make more of a girth discussion rather than length- cause even if your length is too big- you can just not stick it in so deep, but girth is what determines whether the girth "feels you", has a good time or starts considering sex painful instead of pleasure-able. I want to see what you think boys :)
 
I was 6.5" x 4.75" before PE and I was with many, many girls and out of all of them only once did a women respond that she had bigger. Women always made guesstimates at my size that were easy above what it was. One girl even spray painted "Mikes Big Dick" all over the town I lived in. Today I can not imagine what they would say, the only sexual experience I had with a new woman was years ago and she went mental over my size, I felt like Mandingo. Men who hold themselves back from sex in fear of being too small need to realize most men share their size and it is not an issue for them. Have confidence in your size and keep hold of the fact that PE will make you bigger and bigger.
 
doublelongdaddy;595981 said:
I was 6.5" x 4.75" before PE and I was with many, many girls and out of all of them only once did a women respond that she had bigger. Women always made guesstimates at my size that were easy above what it was. One girl even spray painted "Mikes Big Dick" all over the town I lived in. Today I can not imagine what they would say, the only sexual experience I had with a new woman was years ago and she went mental over my size, I felt like Mandingo. Men who hold themselves back from sex in fear of being too small need to realize most men share their size and it is not an issue for them. Have confidence in your size and keep hold of the fact that PE will make you bigger and bigger.
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What do you mean she went "mental"? What'd she say? I need to live vicariously through you.
 
PumperNickle;595987 said:
What do you mean she went "mental"? What'd she say? I need to live vicariously through you.
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That there was no way she could fit it and that she never saw anything so big. Sex was crummy because I could not fit in her and I needed to get myself semi-erect to get any penetration at all. She was a stripper too that saw many men. She worked at King of Diamonds and that is mainly a black club so I definitely got an ego boost but no real pleasure in the sex.
 
You have to imagine this guys, would sex be good to us if the pussy put blisters and cuts on our cocks? Have you ever dry jerked so much and got rub-burns on your dick and it got over sensitized where you couldn't touch it for days until it healed? You probably wouldn't want to have sex with that person ever again if that happened to you. As much as we want to rip that pussy apart with a huge girth cock, 99.9% of women on this planet fear for that to happen. As I mentioned in other threads here, when I use to manage/direct Ramon from Monsters of Cock, it was next to impossible to hire new adult entertainment actresses to fuck him for a reasonable price. Women had no problem doing a tug-job scene with him but they would not allow him to fuck them or other Monsters of Cock actors I worked with.

Women want to be sexually satisfied and enjoy the sex even if they orgasm or not. Most women just fuck their man to have someone to get close to and cuddle with. I have spoken to a fair amount of women that were traumatized at a younger ages by sexual experiences from certain races that they will never give a person from that race a chance again. Women are very sensual creatures unlike us men. We just want to see what's the biggest thing we can fit in a girls hole lol.
 
Idk, it's been a very long time since I fucked anyone else than my gf. I was 7,2 NBPEL and 5,5" in girth when I began PE. So that was already a decent size and she always orgasmed. Now I'm at 8 NBPEL and 6,1 in girth and lengthwise there's a certain position which we can't practice anymore: missionary with her legs up which kind of sucks because earlier she grabbed my balls during intercourse in that position which was very hot and made me cum very fast.

Other than that I'm afraid anal has already become a problem: the last time we had anal I was about 5,8 or so. then there was a long break and after that we tried two months ago and it was too hurtful for her even though I wasn't at 100% erection level and her asshole was really wide due to good prep. So that's a bit of a letdown

Apart from that she still takes it like a champ. No probs with vaginal intercourse in other positions. Also she like when I hit her cervix and I seem to do that regularly. But to be honest, I found that out by accident when talking to her and after I had already gained some so I don't know for sure if I had bottomed out even before PE or had done as often as I do now. I don't feel any difference and couldn't tell if I do or don't. Idk. maybe I've always bottomed her out and simply can't tell the diff. because of this.

Also, she's a bit cagey about the whole subject. You know how many women are in this respect; she just won't admit any different feeling and tells me sometimes that I shouldn't be too obsessed about the PE thing. The most I can get out of her is a smile when I insist on conceding the obvious but well...
 
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doublelongdaddy;596016 said:
That there was no way she could fit it and that she never saw anything so big. Sex was crummy because I could not fit in her and I needed to get myself semi-erect to get any penetration at all. She was a stripper too that saw many men. She worked at King of Diamonds and that is mainly a black club so I definitely got an ego boost but no real pleasure in the sex.
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I remember those fun nights lol, I had fun with those chicks, but those days are long gone now. That was a fun/tough phase of my life but I got through it.
 
LIGHTNING;596144 said:
I remember those fun nights lol, I had fun with those chicks, but those days are long gone now. That was a fun/tough phase of my life but I got through it.
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Tough indeed!
 
LIGHTNING;596946 said:
You helped me through it.
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Its all in the past now, on top bigger and better things soon! I got you Brother.
 
If you want to get bigger faster, you need to accept there are bigger out there and put as much work in as possible and not keep thinking you don't have too work so hard because some girls like a normal size. For me I want to get bigger and better mostly for myself for the experience. It also depends on your life goals, you may want to put more time into something else. But of course 6" is also fine because it is standard and that correlates with most women. Another important factor is experimentation with the woman and both being open to trying new sex, like BDSM or roleplay for instance. Also keep in mind yes a woman is stimulated by penis, but she can also get orgasms from other lips and hands. It's best at least to keep your penis in shape regardless of size and to also have other skills, for instance like dirty talk or massage. The more well-rounded the better.
 
k18;596990 said:
It's best at least to keep your penis in shape regardless of size and to also have other skills, for instance like dirty talk or massage. The more well-rounded the better.
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One of my careers was massage therapy...makes it sooooo easy to get girls lol
 
youknowme123321;596999 said:
One of my careers was massage therapy...makes it sooooo easy to get girls lol
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Oh so they be the ones asking for the happy endings now?? lol
 
youknowme123321;596999 said:
One of my careers was massage therapy...makes it sooooo easy to get girls lol
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The massage is very powerful because it stimulates the entire body. It's a great precursor for sex, but not always necessary. Another great aspect is eating light foods before sex or even PE, such as nuts, chocolate, fruit or salad. Can you elaborate on any encounters you had when things got "out of hand"? And was it personal or office massage, what took place, etc. I imagine using my light saber all around for the massage.
 
What you are saying is true , but nowadays the adult entertainment is a major fact in measurement and people thinking . A wise man said : Bigger is not always better , but it helps . Keep up with your routine , seems like you gained a good amount .
 
LIGHTNING;596030 said:
You have to imagine this guys, would sex be good to us if the pussy put blisters and cuts on our cocks? Have you ever dry jerked so much and got rub-burns on your dick and it got over sensitized where you couldn't touch it for days until it healed? You probably wouldn't want to have sex with that person ever again if that happened to you. As much as we want to rip that pussy apart with a huge girth cock, 99.9% of women on this planet fear for that to happen. As I mentioned in other threads here, when I use to manage/direct Ramon from Monsters of Cock, it was next to impossible to hire new adult entertainment actresses to fuck him for a reasonable price. Women had no problem doing a tug-job scene with him but they would not allow him to fuck them or other Monsters of Cock actors I worked with.

Women want to be sexually satisfied and enjoy the sex even if they orgasm or not. Most women just fuck their man to have someone to get close to and cuddle with. I have spoken to a fair amount of women that were traumatized at a younger ages by sexual experiences from certain races that they will never give a person from that race a chance again. Women are very sensual creatures unlike us men. We just want to see what's the biggest thing we can fit in a girls hole lol.
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You always have en-"LIGHTNING" words on these type of woman topics. One experience, I was too large for the woman but she was soaking wet from the thought of my size and I could get it in her with some extra effort. Once I did, after a few strokes I could tell she wasn't liking it and her pussy started to dry up and it was like trying fuck a hole with crazy glue on the walls, so I had to stop. Throughout my experience growing up in the ranks from 6x5 to 9x6. I found that women like the sexually, "he fills me up", feeling from a man. Just like the words sung by the late Whitney Houston in "All the Man That I Need." This means, it is a nice and comfortable fit, not a crammed/slammed in trying to fit a large square cock in a small round pussy-hole type fit. Majority of women will take girth over length, and when the girth gets close to 6-inches it stats to become uncomfortable to most and they feel sore for days afterwards. With length, I found most women like big, 7ish, over large, 8ish, or huge, 9+. There is always such a thing as "Too much" of something.
 
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Threak-X;597090 said:
You always have en-"LIGHTNING" words on these type of woman topics.
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He has been with a bunch of women so he does have extensive knowledge in the field. He also has great techniques to picking up women that may seem like they would never go for you.
 
doublelongdaddy;597108 said:
He has been with a bunch of women so he does have extensive knowledge in the field. He also has great techniques to picking up women that may seem like they would never go for you.
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For some unexplainable reason I took time out to study women to try to understand what they want. It was a great project I did for a couple years and it landed me a really good woman. Not to mention I managed many women in adult entertainment and ended up learning they all want the same thing at the end of the day.
 
LIGHTNING;597134 said:
For some unexplainable reason I took time out to study women to try to understand what they want. It was a great project I did for a couple years and it landed me a really good woman. Not to mention I managed many women in adult entertainment and ended up learning they all want the same thing at the end of the day.
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You should start a thread and disclose all your methods. I saw them work in front of my own eyes, you were pulling whatever girl you wanted and it had to do with your technique. I think you would help many men if you gave the advice.
 
doublelongdaddy;597143 said:
You should start a thread and disclose all your methods. I saw them work in front of my own eyes, you were pulling whatever girl you wanted and it had to do with your technique. I think you would help many men if you gave the advice.
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Yes please start a thread lightning!
 
doublelongdaddy;597143 said:
You should start a thread and disclose all your methods. I saw them work in front of my own eyes, you were pulling whatever girl you wanted and it had to do with your technique. I think you would help many men if you gave the advice.
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I'm more of a one on one man. I still have my issues too.
 
LIGHTNING;597216 said:
I'm more of a one on one man. I still have my issues too.
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I have more issues than a newsstand, just saying:)
 
Like I always say, I'm doing PE for myself and not for any woman. I must get to 9 x 7. Once I get to that size, I will start rewiring these women sexually by turning them to size queens.
 
huge-girth said:
Like I always say, I'm doing PE for myself and not for any woman. I must get to 9 x 7. Once I get to that size, I will start rewiring these women sexually by turning them to size queens.
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Now that's a goal😊
 
cacavolante said:
Hey all.

So the last 2 years I've been single, I did a great job of motivating myself to get great at pickup and seduction, and have hooked up with roughly 30-40 women.

You can see my stats in my sig.

Anyways, even with my modest size (by [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] standards), out of the 30+ women I've banged they've all had incredibly tight vaginas and commented on my size. I've never been called huge, but I get 'big', 'sizable', and 'thick'.

There were only 2 women out of the sample that had what I'd consider 'loose' or 'large' vaginas. Keep in mind, I've only bottomed out 2 girls in my life, also (because my length isn't stellar, but make up for it with the girth).

Additionally, only 3 girls out of all of them were able to deepthroat me, and not that it's a gag reflex, but actually fit their mouths around the halfway point of my cock. NOTE: those 3 girls were chubby :) :)

Just food for thought for you more insecure guys out there. 6" IS BIG!

If you're on the slightly smaller end of the spectrum, you don't have to get that far to rise above the deviation!
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Interesting reading I must say.
He was, 6.9"BPEL x 5.6" EG back then, and the women though he was big.

If you watch the FAQ video with doublelongdaddy about this;
🔗 16. What Is a Large Penis and a Monster Penis?
you will understand that this penis size is big for a woman. If you look at the avarage size, and leave your ego outside of this you will realize this.
 
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