My Penis Failed Me Today!!!

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AnthonyMachine

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Hey all. So I posted a while back saying I was getting addicted to adult entertainment. But my oenis has been fine since. In fact today at work I was pretty hard all day looking at adult entertainment. One of my clients has a crush on me. So today I thought I would take it to the next level. Now I had sex about a week ago and all was fine. I smoked some pot. Took some shots and I was hard as ever and lasted as long as I wanted. I work at a storage place. Today the client came in. And we snuck to a hidden part of the facility. As soon as I started trying stuff she was acting very nervous that someone would see or hear us. So I got very nervous as well. She sucked me and I got about 75 percent hard. She said she wanted me to jack off but I told her no I wanted to fuck her. She handed me a condom and got nervous pacing around asking if someone would hear us and to do a quickie. I want limp at this point so in order to rush I started jerking pretty hard and got about halfway hard and came!!!! I was pissed. Later on I tried to go somewhere else watch adult entertainment and get hard to fuck her. It was a slow process but moot as she didn't want to cuz "she hadn't showered and felt dirty"
I went into back office alone put some adult entertainment on got like 85 percent hard then bored and came.
so I have a few theorys.

1.ive become too dependent/burn out on adult entertainment and now sex won't work.(again I think this is Unlikely as I had sex a week ago fine.

2. I need alcohol and or weed to relax or else I'm too nervous.(possible. Over the last year I've been doing more weed and drinking.but never needed them before.although I cannot remember the last time I had sober sex.)

3.her rushing me and freaking out that we would get caught made me freak out and being at work worried about getting caught and getting fired made my mind not in the right place. (This is what I think AND HOPE is the issue. I've never been that great at quickies as I HATE being rushed for sex and like to be relaxed and take my time. )

Anyway I'm freaking out a bit. Please any help?
 
If she is still interested in you ask her to come over so you can take your time and not be rushed. you are risking a lot anyways by having sex with coworker at work, its kind of silly.
 
acromegaly;639941 said:
If she is still interested in you ask her to come over so you can take your time and not be rushed. you are risking a lot anyways by having sex with coworker at work, its kind of silly.
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Your right. I'm taking her to my place. I came a few times today but I'm 26 so I should be good to go like an hour later right? Haha. Wish me luck. Fed smoking tho
 
AnthonyMachine;639932 said:
Hey all. So I posted a while back saying I was getting addicted to adult entertainment. But my oenis has been fine since. In fact today at work I was pretty hard all day looking at adult entertainment. One of my clients has a crush on me. So today I thought I would take it to the next level. Now I had sex about a week ago and all was fine. I smoked some pot. Took some shots and I was hard as ever and lasted as long as I wanted. I work at a storage place. Today the client came in. And we snuck to a hidden part of the facility. As soon as I started trying stuff she was acting very nervous that someone would see or hear us. So I got very nervous as well. She sucked me and I got about 75 percent hard. She said she wanted me to jack off but I told her no I wanted to fuck her. She handed me a condom and got nervous pacing around asking if someone would hear us and to do a quickie. I want limp at this point so in order to rush I started jerking pretty hard and got about halfway hard and came!!!! I was pissed. Later on I tried to go somewhere else watch adult entertainment and get hard to fuck her. It was a slow process but moot as she didn't want to cuz "she hadn't showered and felt dirty"
I went into back office alone put some adult entertainment on got like 85 percent hard then bored and came.
so I have a few theorys.

1.ive become too dependent/burn out on adult entertainment and now sex won't work.(again I think this is Unlikely as I had sex a week ago fine.

2. I need alcohol and or weed to relax or else I'm too nervous.(possible. Over the last year I've been doing more weed and drinking.but never needed them before.although I cannot remember the last time I had sober sex.)

3.her rushing me and freaking out that we would get caught made me freak out and being at work worried about getting caught and getting fired made my mind not in the right place. (This is what I think AND HOPE is the issue. I've never been that great at quickies as I HATE being rushed for sex and like to be relaxed and take my time. )

Anyway I'm freaking out a bit. Please any help?
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hey dude it is most likely number 3 , freaking out an rushing etc will reek havoc on EQ buddy , no sweat it an like acro suggested would be best idea
 
AnthonyMachine;639992 said:
Thanks guys. All went fine last night. I drank and smoked lol. But I'm pretty sure it was about being relaxed and comfortable.
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yeah when your body is in a anxious state " fight or flight " its not at all interested in making babies :P more interested in running or fighting
 
AnthonyMachine;639992 said:
Thanks guys. All went fine last night. I drank and smoked lol. But I'm pretty sure it was about being relaxed and comfortable.
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Yup, it is all about that! Almost every girl I have been with, that I truly cared for, I could not perform to my max the first time. The second time came and it was all good. A good girl will totally understand.
 
This totally sounds like performance anxiety to me, especially if you were just performing fine a week before.

adult entertainment can have an effect too though, so that is something to be conscience of, just look up adult entertainment Induced Erectile Dysfunction (PIED) and you will see what I am talking about. I don't think this is the case for you right now, but it is something to be aware of if you are watching adult entertainment regularly.
 
doublelongdaddy;640004 said:
Yup, it is all about that! Almost every girl I have been with, that I truly cared for, I could not perform to my max the first time. The second time came and it was all good. A good girl will totally understand.
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Ya bro I was good 5 days ago at my motel for Wrestlemania. But since then I have been quickly masturbating about 3-4 times a day. Now today my dick only got 70 percent hard and came quick! I think maybe too much adult entertainment? For some reason with sex I can last forever and get hard super quick. adult entertainment turns me on more but not as hard as sex and I cum faster.
I think maybe I've just been jacking it way too much. I hope I'm not screwed for life. But I'm sure if I take a day off from jacking and do it some there'd comfortable (nor at work on lunch) I'll be fine
 
doublelongdaddy;640004 said:
Yup, it is all about that! Almost every girl I have been with, that I truly cared for, I could not perform to my max the first time. The second time came and it was all good. A good girl will totally understand.
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+1 for good girls. God bless em.
 
JakeM82;640074 said:
This totally sounds like performance anxiety to me, especially if you were just performing fine a week before.

adult entertainment can have an effect too though, so that is something to be conscience of, just look up adult entertainment Induced Erectile Dysfunction (PIED) and you will see what I am talking about. I don't think this is the case for you right now, but it is something to be aware of if you are watching adult entertainment regularly.
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Ya man think I'm becoming obsessed with adult entertainment not even fun just look at it like I hVe to and jack it like 3-5 times a day. Eq and lasting time dropped. I'm sure it's just a mental thing and maybe a little tired penis
 
AnthonyMachine;640907 said:
Ya man think I'm becoming obsessed with adult entertainment not even fun just look at it like I hVe to and jack it like 3-5 times a day. Eq and lasting time dropped. I'm sure it's just a mental thing and maybe a little tired penis
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That is called become desensitized, it is common with any pleasure which is abused. I suggest restricting you adult entertainment time to a very small amount of time and within a genera that is as innocent as possible.
 
doublelongdaddy;640912 said:
That is called become desensitized, it is common with any pleasure which is abused. I suggest restricting you adult entertainment time to a very small amount of time and within a genera that is as innocent as possible.
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Ya I've been doing it when bored at first. Now doing it when I have work to do so its bad lol
 
AnthonyMachine;641017 said:
Ya I've been doing it when bored at first. Now doing it when I have work to do so its bad lol
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Just take a break, become very strict with times and length of play but most of all be innocent with material.
 
AnthonyMachine;640907 said:
Ya man think I'm becoming obsessed with adult entertainment not even fun just look at it like I hVe to and jack it like 3-5 times a day. Eq and lasting time dropped. I'm sure it's just a mental thing and maybe a little tired penis
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Bro, I am not much for beating around the bush so I will just come out and say it. This sounds like a compulsive addiction to pornography. As a professional counselor I would recommend you seek help local to you to get yourself past this addiction and back in control of your sexual performance. I also say this as someone who has been addicted to pornography severely in the past as well, trust me when I say, get help. If you keep looking at adult entertainment like this, it WILL get worse...

Read some of the material here at Your Brain On adult entertainment | Evolution has not prepared your brain for today's Internet adult entertainment

There are strategies to get back to normal performance, most guys call it a "reset", you will also here it called NO FAP, or NO PMO. I think you should look into a No PMO reset (adult entertainment, Masturbation or Orgasm) for 30 days minimum to get things working normally again.
 
addicted to adult entertainment hahaha wonder why some bros get addicted to that its ok to watch adult entertainment and get mentally aroused but most of the bros here are married to hot girls or they have girlfriends fuck buddies etc...:)
 
shortdick;641204 said:
addicted to adult entertainment hahaha wonder why some bros get addicted to that its ok to watch adult entertainment and get mentally aroused but most of the bros here are married to hot girls or they have girlfriends fuck buddies etc...:)
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Unfortunately adult entertainment addiction and adultery are the two most common reasons guys come to me for counseling. adult entertainment addiction is no joke and can be very hard for some guys to overcome. Unfortunately I have seen it ruin lives and it almost ruined my marriage (12 years ago). We weren't wired for arousal that way, and when we become (mal)adjusted to it, it can ruin our ability for normal arousal and sexual pleasure. For some guys it goes as far as them not being able to orgasm without pornography, regular sex with a women just doesn't do it for them anymore. Sad state of affairs that is.
 
Amazing how adult entertainment can get people to that point but it happens...Maybe that was in my teens when most kids find out about adult entertainment n sex stuff,i still watch adult entertainment when im exercising but i dont know..its realizing that most of the time real sex its not like in the movies...

yeah maybe size matters for many reasons,but according to "serious" investigations most guys worldwide are 5.5x 4.75 wow they are the ones making the babies and having normal lives...DLD 10 inches brothers whit certain experience are 6.5+ evenso we are so full of prejudice fears doubts depression and low self steem lol....
 
Yeah, my first time with girls is always the most nerve racking. The first time I usually have a candle, sometimes soothing music and good lighting, and a little alcohol in your system doesn't hurt either. It gets much better the second time.
 
I would be kinda freaked out to see a councilor for jerking my cock too much. I say get some discipline and be strong with yourself and stop abusing the privilege.
 
I think we all go through stages of watching adult entertainment, but yeah I gotta say jerking it and cumming 3+ times a day is just unhealthy.
 
doublelongdaddy;641235 said:
I would be kinda freaked out to see a councilor for jerking my cock too much. I say get some discipline and be strong with yourself and stop abusing the privilege.
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Most guys feel that way until they can't stop and they can't have sex anymore because their cock won't work. Then talking to someone becomes a very realistic option because you would rather have one guy who is bound by ethical and legal agreements know about your problem, then every girl you try to sleep with for the rest of your life. Starts to make a whole lot more sense at that point.
 
JakeM82;641286 said:
Most guys feel that way until they can't stop and they can't have sex anymore because their cock won't work. Then talking to someone becomes a very realistic option because you would rather have one guy who is bound by ethical and legal agreements know about your problem, then every girl you try to sleep with for the rest of your life. Starts to make a whole lot more sense at that point.
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I know you are completely right I just would be so embarrassed:)
 
AnthonyMachine;639932 said:
Hey all. So I posted a while back saying I was getting addicted to adult entertainment. But my oenis has been fine since. In fact today at work I was pretty hard all day looking at adult entertainment. One of my clients has a crush on me. So today I thought I would take it to the next level. Now I had sex about a week ago and all was fine. I smoked some pot. Took some shots and I was hard as ever and lasted as long as I wanted. I work at a storage place. Today the client came in. And we snuck to a hidden part of the facility. As soon as I started trying stuff she was acting very nervous that someone would see or hear us. So I got very nervous as well. She sucked me and I got about 75 percent hard. She said she wanted me to jack off but I told her no I wanted to fuck her. She handed me a condom and got nervous pacing around asking if someone would hear us and to do a quickie. I want limp at this point so in order to rush I started jerking pretty hard and got about halfway hard and came!!!! I was pissed. Later on I tried to go somewhere else watch adult entertainment and get hard to fuck her. It was a slow process but moot as she didn't want to cuz "she hadn't showered and felt dirty"
I went into back office alone put some adult entertainment on got like 85 percent hard then bored and came.
so I have a few theorys.

1.ive become too dependent/burn out on adult entertainment and now sex won't work.(again I think this is Unlikely as I had sex a week ago fine.

2. I need alcohol and or weed to relax or else I'm too nervous.(possible. Over the last year I've been doing more weed and drinking.but never needed them before.although I cannot remember the last time I had sober sex.)

3.her rushing me and freaking out that we would get caught made me freak out and being at work worried about getting caught and getting fired made my mind not in the right place. (This is what I think AND HOPE is the issue. I've never been that great at quickies as I HATE being rushed for sex and like to be relaxed and take my time. )

Anyway I'm freaking out a bit. Please any help?
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Primarily, In my opinion, your body is self reacting to the situation. Meaning it has something to do with muscle memory. If you are occasionally doing the "watching of adult entertainment" your body is starting to remember the situation and thus it will you body will react to the same situation.
 
acromegaly;641932 said:
for sure, and most girls are not going to like if you say "oh hold on i need to watch adult entertainment first"
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Unless they are into adult entertainment:)
 
acromegaly;641985 said:
haha i guess so
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I had a girlfriend who was really into adult entertainment and we had great sex. We never got jealous or weird about it, just used it as a tool to have better sex.
 
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