So what event(s) occurred to make this stereotype so prevalent? I know it pre-dates adult entertainment (as we know it) and certainly before BBC adult entertainment, so do we attribute this to The Slavery Era? Does Jimmy The Greek's argument that the slave owner would put his two 'healthiest', 'biggest' together in the hopes for a 'super-baby' and that's why blacks dominate pro-sports in America? Are these dangerous questions that no one wants to address, (too guilty for white people, too painful for black people)? I don't think I've ever heard/read anything addressing this specific issue, (but I'm certain there is). I'd agree w/DLD in the above, that the 'big dick' stereotype is far more damaging to AA's, (and I've heard several women comment about being 'disappointed' that the myth wasn't true based on their first-hand experience). I believe this topic is still too taboo to have any 'real' discussions and I'm 100% certain that a lot of men just try to avoid any honest discourse regarding 'size'.
I'd be curious how The Brotherhood feels...I, for one, always felt uncomfortable if a friend of someone that I'm dating would relay particular information, (good or bad) regarding the last guy(s) she's had sex with. (Women are B-R-U-T-A-L, by the way) If my GF relayed info that her friend just effed a guy w/a huge d!ck, I'd try to play-it-off like it was 'no big deal', but inside it made me anxious and I wasn't sure why. It may just be me, but my thoughts would wander to things like 'what if my girl wanted to try having sex w/a huge guy...what if he were black? How would that make me feel?' All those emotions would go unchecked and never have any resolution...but since I've found a home here, I can honestly say that when the 'size' topic rears its ugly head, I no longer have that anxiety...there's still no resolution, tho