How do you guys manage to do girth work without watching adult entertainment? I always have to have some kind of stimulus, but hate having to sit and watch adult entertainment for 30+ minutes. I like to do my PE while I sit and catch up on my shows at night, but it's usually impossible for me to maintain any kind of erection. I hardly watch adult entertainment at all, so it's not like I've spoiled myself with daily hardcore adult entertainment. It's just that I haven't gotten erections for no reason since puberty lol.
Maintaining an Erection Without adult entertainment
It's hard to maintain an erection if you're distracted. Trying to watch a show while doing girth work is going to split your attention and decrease EQ. I was trying to have sex one morning and my wife had the TV on Dr Phil. Just his voice in the room, even while trying to ignore it, was enough to destroy my erection (I think he's an uppity "I ALWAYS know best" asshole). As soon as I changed the channel I stopped pushing a rope and 100% EQ resumed.
Aside from a cock ring and Vitamin V or C, and I'm not sure that'd completely do it, not sure if there's any other possible solutions. You may just have to wait to watch your shows until after girth work is done. Don't necessarily need adult entertainment for strong EQ though if you're healthy and have an imagination (although adult entertainment does help).
Aside from a cock ring and Vitamin V or C, and I'm not sure that'd completely do it, not sure if there's any other possible solutions. You may just have to wait to watch your shows until after girth work is done. Don't necessarily need adult entertainment for strong EQ though if you're healthy and have an imagination (although adult entertainment does help).
I agree with clad. While not always possible, the least distractions you have, the better your chance for keeping high eq. I personally have a house full of distractions on a daily basis so my chances of 100% eq is pretty low during my pe sessions. I try to get away to the quietest room in the house (master bathroom) for all of my sessions.
Outside of watching adult entertainment the best EQ I had for a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] session was in the shower with my wife. I didn't know she was going to join me and there it is sitting waiting. She swore she wasn't going to stay in there if I used it.
She didn't go anywhere lol.
After we had sex I gave her the "you really enjoyed that extra girth" and was told to shut up.
She didn't go anywhere lol.
After we had sex I gave her the "you really enjoyed that extra girth" and was told to shut up.
By the age of 13 I lost my ability to get hard just by using my thoughts lol. Even if I quit watching adult entertainment for months, I've never been able to do it. I'm also single, so nobody to get me up whenever I need it 😂
Guess I'm stuck watching adult entertainment for an hour like I've got an addiction haha.
Guess I'm stuck watching adult entertainment for an hour like I've got an addiction haha.
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@Big Schwanz Acht
at 56 I can still just think about it and everything begins to flow, but I'm now having to visit my personal 'highlight' reel in order to finish
cladre60;759264 said:
I remember when we found a Playboy thrown on the ground when I was like 8. All the kids in the neighborhood lost their minds lol. I was 11 when I got internet access, so that's when me and all my friends started to spend all our free time looking at adult entertainment haha.
dmoney101;759307 said:
The internet was in it's infancy in my early teens or else I would've been jerking off 3-5x a day.
I was 12 when myself and a friend stumbled into an old Airstream trailer in the weeds in someone's backyard. It was someone's whack shack. There were boxes upon boxes upon boxes of magazines. We were in there for an hour and both left with a few magazines.
I very clearly told my idiot friend to hide that shit, maybe even out in the barn at his house, and DO NOT TAKE IT TO SCHOOL. I hid 2 magazines in the shed where my dad wouldn't find them.
He took them to school. Not only did he take them to school but he waa showing people. Then he was looking at one of the magazines in the middle of class. That's how he got caught. I knew exactly why I was being called down to the principal's office as soon as they called my name. That dumb fuck told them I was with him and brought magazines to school too.
Of course I lied and said "I didn't go into that trailer and didn't know what he took until he was showing me on the bus this morning." They believed me.
We were no longer friends after I was allowed to leave the house again (they called my mother before even talking to me).
And a few weeks later when I went to check out the trailer it had a lock on it.
cladre60;759339 said:
I can only imagine what it's like for the younger generation today. Nowadays a lot of young people masturbate themselves to death if possible, all thanks to adult entertainment and the internet.
cladre60;759494 said:
The internet has more benefit if we look at it from the positive side. Back to topic, I will always do my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words] session with adult entertainment. The feelings and how horny I am when doing the session with adult entertainment cannot be compared to doing it without adult entertainment.
huge-girth;759545 said:
My adult entertainment [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] sessions are better than non-adult entertainment for certain. I've had some adult entertainment [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] sessions where I decided to edge afterwards and finish off. If I hit that edge and pull back a few times it can actually be difficult for me to cum. This happened to me a week or so ago. I had every intent to masturbate but when I started I almost finished too soon. I ended up furiously masturbating at the end so I could cum.
cladre60;759638 said:
I think the debate about watching adult entertainment while doing girth work should be buried. Doing girth work needs some adult entertainment stimulation. Girth work and adult entertainment are cousins
dmoney101;759108 said:
Ditch the adult entertainment for girth work and get yourself a Hot Octopuss Pulse III. It will simply blow your mind. It has a pulsating disc positioned right near the frenulum area that will take you from flaccid to 100% erect very quickly. No lube is needed and it's waterproof too. It's really great for [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] or edging sessions and has multiple speeds and vibration patterns. With the right setting you can find your PONR and just ride the euphoria endlessly without going over the edge. It's awesome man.
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cladre60;759727 said:
Yes that's correct. A supportive wife or girlfriend is one of the best confident booster in PE.
Randolpho;759760 said:Ditch the adult entertainment for girth work and get yourself a Hot Octopuss Pulse III. It will simply blow your mind. It has a pulsating disc positioned right near the frenulum area that will take you from flaccid to 100% erect very quickly. No lube is needed and it's waterproof too. It's really great for [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] or edging sessions and has multiple speeds and vibration patterns. With the right setting you can find your PONR and just ride the euphoria endlessly without going over the edge. It's awesome man.
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Where did you come from? Missed you for a minute now. So good to see you back.
Also, thanks for the link, this looks very interesting. I really want men to avoid adult entertainment and try to find other ways to remain erect.
huge-girth;759849 said:
I'm wondering if I should buy a dildo that's my target size, play with her, and then tell her I can achieve the same size with her help.
Many years ago we bought a massive dildo that was larger than DLD. Length wise I got about 8" inside her and she was blown away. This may be the ticket to getting her on board.
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cladre60;759966 said:
holy shit! she was 'blown-away' in a good way, or 'blown-away' in a bad way?
Big Schwanz Acht;759972 said:
She liked the size and the feeling, didn't care for the fact that it wasn't my dick. She also couldn't believe how much got inside her. It wasn't hard material so that helped. First time we used it she had an orgasm. We had sex right after. She said the size was different and enjoyable but claimed she preferred the real thing.
Well I'll just have to keep getting bigger so she can have the real thing in a larger size. She swears I'm her 2nd partner so she has no experience with different size dicks. The 1 time I asked if the asshole I mean her ex was bigger or smaller she claims she really can't remember but that I'm certainly better. At first I thought that was her way of trying not to say he was bigger but over time I'm actually thinking he was smaller. At my starting size she struggled in attempts to get my entire dick in her mouth yet kept trying and was able to get more little by little. It seems like she's never had to get that much length in her mouth before. Plus the 1 time I hit the posterior fornix she streaked out an immediate "OH MY GOD! WHAT WAS THAT?! DO YOU FEEL THAAAAAAAAAA" right into orgasm.
cladre60;759966 said:
You know her way too much more than we do so if you think it's a good idea, you can give it a try.
Big Schwanz Acht
@Big Schwanz Acht
cladre60;759980 said:
to all those women that believe 'size doesn't matter', they've just never had their 'bell' (fornix) rung
Big Schwanz Acht;760035 said:
They know it matters. I think many don't want to insult a guy giving them good sex by saying "your dick would feel better if you were as big as this one guy I fucked."
There is such a thing as too big/small depending on the woman as they're all built differently. That thing is designed to push a small watermelon through though so over time it could adjust to a larger size within reason.
cladre60;760053 said:It might be a better idea to get 2 - 1 at my current size and 1 at my goal size. Switch back and forth and ask her which is "better." Then tell her to start practicing giving BJs to the goal size so she's ready for it
If she agrees to do this, I can confidently say this would boost your marriage even more. It's just like encouraging/motivating each other.
cladre60;760157 said:
Sure
doublelongdaddy;759925 said:
Hey DLD, been here a bit less frequent maybe but I'm never too far away.
This thing is great for PE, sexual health or just plain fun! It can even produce an orgasm for men with severe erectile dysfunction... without an erection. Unlike traditional vibrators, it stimulates the frenulum using oscillations. The pulse plate moves in an up and down motion.
I like to use it to obtain maximum EQ during [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SSJ[/words] sessions. Once you find your sweet spot your eyes will roll back in your head man. I work up to maximum size while doing kegels and testicle stretching. Then do an [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SSJ[/words] or two until my EQ drops off and repeat. It's super for [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] training as well.
If you going to drop the money on one, opt for the Pulse III Duo model. It has some extra oscillating hardware (for her pleasure) and a wireless remote. So it becomes a couples toy.
Randolpho;759760 said:Ditch the adult entertainment for girth work and get yourself a Hot Octopuss Pulse III. It will simply blow your mind. It has a pulsating disc positioned right near the frenulum area that will take you from flaccid to 100% erect very quickly. No lube is needed and it's waterproof too. It's really great for [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] or edging sessions and has multiple speeds and vibration patterns. With the right setting you can find your PONR and just ride the euphoria endlessly without going over the edge. It's awesome man.
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If that was built into a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]Fleshlight[/words] maybe, just maybe, women would stop BS head games and drama. Knowing there's competition that doesn't come with baggage and can deliver insane orgasms might turn them all into the sweetest thing you've ever talked to.
Nah, they'll still be crazy.
cladre60;761090 said:
Such competition is needed in my country where the women think because they give you pussy they are entitled to your money.
cladre60;761219 said:
Cannot be compared to my country with the excessively dependent women.
doublelongdaddy;761308 said:
Not at all. The men are on top here. Majority of the men who got married to Nigerian women and took her to the US ended up committing suicide or killing the lady when the lady becomes a US citizen and start treating the man like a piece of shit. Nowadays, no Nigerian living in the US dare takes his Nigerian wife to the US because of this fear.
huge-girth;761393 said:
Well considering all the emails I've gotten over the years from Nigerian princes I guess all the women are princesses there and want to be treated as such.
When they get to the US from an oppressive county I'd guess either 1 of 2 things happen. They're either ultra happy to be living in a free country and enjoy a wonderful life with their spouse grateful for bringing them here OR they just used the guy as a ticket to the US and do everything they can to be on their own.
Women can be very manipulative and know how to play the long game well. My ex plays that game well. She has her next relationship fully set up to go before leaving her current one. She knows the next guy is going nuts waiting to get with her. Then she gets pregnant ASAP so while the relationship is still in the "butterflies and constant sex" phase they forge a stronger bond and he sticks around.
Her 1st husband she had been with for a while when she got pregnant but it worked to keep him. When we met she began plotting. Took her over a year to figure out how she was going to snare me but then she executed her plan and it worked. It's also worked 2 more times. 4 kids to 4 fathers and 3 marriages (we never got married) with each relationship lasting 5-7yrs. Speaking of that timeline she's about due to start looking for the next husband....
Big Schwanz Acht
@Big Schwanz Acht
women understand that they have an 'expiration date' and need to climb-up the socio-economic ladder as quickly and high as their 'currency' (looks/appeal) allows...men are just the 'rungs' of the ladder
cladre60;761422 said:
The women here are not oppressed. It is the men that are been used both home and abroad. In the US I heard the law favor the women in a way that once you divorce, she takes 50 percent of your property, is that right? It's difficult to find a woman who will truly love you genuinely in my country, it's all about the money here. Most of the women here use the men as a ladder to claim into their heart desires. Though I don't like to end up divorce in life after getting married, I can't imagine a woman sharing my properties with me 50/50 just because we got divorced.
It's not so much the woman gets 50%, it's that marital assets are split equally. My dad went through that shit. They took the value of the house, subtracted what was owed, and divided it in half. Plus he lost a bit of his retirement account and a vehicle. My mother didn't work for almost their entire marriage and the last few years she was going to nursing school which made him the primary breadwinner. They did take into account that he set her up to be able to earn a decent living though and before they divorced she was making a substantial income. On the flip side a friend finalized his divorce last year. His wife consistently made more than double what he made. She had a college education, he didn't. He started school to be an electrician and she started cheating on him ending their marriage. Due to the financial situation of their marriage and how many years they were married he got a fairly sizeable check. He didn't feel bad at all either as she was the one that cheated and we all agreed how fucked up the system is that women usually make out in a divorce while men get screwed. They try to be fair in court. The "women get half" thing goes back to when they were all housewives who didn't work.huge-girth;761450 said:
cladre60;761476 said:
I'm never going to get married if this is what the world has become. Here in my country, if you do court wedding you will have this same 50/50 property sharing problem. And most of the women today are insisting on court wedding. The scary thing is most of these women are very manipulative in nature. If I eventually get married, I'm going to cast a spell (voodoo) on my wife so she will never cheat or leave the marriage for any reason. I cannot afford to become famous and wealthy and then allow one woman to split my properties with me, that's never going to happen.