In love and Happy

A

aretha12

0
Hi there, I just wanna share some thoughts about the big deal of having penis enlargement. I know out there many will react but truly for a girl who wants to have commitment and a true relationship, whatever size it is, it doesn't matter as long as you know how to value your partner and knows how to take care of a relationship. Why is it so big deal with the men? and big deal with women to have big boobs? why? is having a relationship is ALL about sex satisfaction? Sorry if I am too serious guys but I think that's no big deal. You might get sick or infected by any means doing something to your penis to get it enlarge. Grow up man! size don't matter.
 
I do it for Myself, and for the confidence it gives Me to have a large Dick. Now can I ask u a question? With all due respect, what's the biggest and smallest size penises you've ever had and which sizes felt better for you? You may not care about size but other girls do. Size does matter, to me anyway.
 
Oh yeah, everything I do is just exercises. I never heard of anyone getting sick or infected from exercising, please know what your talking about, no one is cutting themselves here or anything to cause an infection
 
Ok I will say you have a point. A relationship does not revolve around the size of a penis but sex is a big part of relationships. If you don't think so your wrong and need to wake up. People are animals with a primal urge to screw and have orgasms. Now if I can't pleasure a girl eventually someone will. Im not saying it takes a big penis to please one but at the same time a very small one isn't great either.
 
aretha12;435931 said:
Hi there, I just wanna share some thoughts about the big deal of having penis enlargement. I know out there many will react but truly for a girl who wants to have commitment and a true relationship, whatever size it is, it doesn't matter as long as you know how to value your partner and knows how to take care of a relationship. Why is it so big deal with the men? and big deal with women to have big boobs? why? is having a relationship is ALL about sex satisfaction? Sorry if I am too serious guys but I think that's no big deal. You might get sick or infected by any means doing something to your penis to get it enlarge. Grow up man! size don't matter.
Click to expand...

Aretha, I really appreciate your comments. If you read the thread "How we all became insecure about our penis" (http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?59839-How-we-all-become-insecure-about-our-penis.) you will find some answers to your question about why it's a big deal. Some men have had wives leave them because of it, some have been told by their girfriends that they didn't like sex with them as much as they did with an ex bf because their penis is too small, etc.

This is just my own theory, and I have no studies or science to back it up, but I tend to think that in many cases it is at least somewhat related to the pervasiveness of big dick adult entertainment. I'm not anti-adult entertainment, but I tend to think that watching a lot of videos of women screaming in pleasure while being drilled by a huge penis creates a belief that women love big penises. Even if we know that the adult entertainment is fake, my sense is that the belief is created at a somewhat subconscious level that we're not always aware of. It's similar to the effects of watching endless advertisements of happy people driving new cars, eating certain food, drinking beer, etc.

So, if my theory is correct (it might be complete crap,) what to do about it? We can challenge our beliefs, but it is not always so easy to change a belief once it's in place. How many people work their asses off every day trying to buy that new car, etc. thinking it will make them happy like the people in the [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ads[/words]?

At any rate, I'm sure there's more to it than that. For some of us the need is primarily in our heads. For others, it's based on actual rejection that has been experienced in life. It's hard to come up with a good analogy for women. Breast size is often used as an analogy, but I don't think breast size is comparable in many ways. Nevertheless, think about the psychological struggles caused by masectomies. What if a woman who had a masectomy was told by her husband that he was leaving her for a woman with two breasts. I suppose we could tell a women in this situation "Grow up woman, breasts don't matter!" But, we don't, and that's probably a good thing.

I would guess it is also partly driven by our competitive/ nature. Men want to be the best their woman has ever had, especially when it comes to sex. It might be a little like wanting to be the fastest in track. Why does that matter? Why do millions of people watch thousands of other people compete in the olympics every 4 years? What's the big deal with being able jump over a bar that's 7 feet in the air? Who really cares?

I also think that for some men, part of the motivation is because they do love their wives or gfs. We perform oral on women, practice lasting longer, etc. because we want them to feel good. It's not necessarily that much different than buying her a nice dinner, complimenting her, etc. It's just part of the whole package (pun intended) we bring to the relationship. We all want to be the "jumbo pack"!

Still, it's not everything of course. Keep in mind that Penis Enlargementing is just a relatively small part of life for a relatively small number of men. Your basic point that it's just not that important in the grand scheme of things is well-taken.
 
Last edited:
aretha12;435931 said:
. Grow up man! size don't matter.
Click to expand...

That is exactly what we do here, GROW, and my friend, size matters enough to you to register and make a post about it. If it did not matter you would have never made the post.
 
doublelongdaddy;435987 said:
That is exactly what we do here, GROW, and my friend, size matters enough to you to register and make a post about it. If it did not matter you would have never made the post.
Click to expand...

Double slam dunk :D
 
I agree with DLD. I think we've all gone past the phase of contemplation, hence we are now in the phase of growth and development.
You saying that size doesn't matter has no effect on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] because we're too busy growing and growing. Small penis doesn't matter
anymore.
 
I'm happy to see a woman on the forum. However, gotta say that you (OP) kind of made a huge generalization here. You're calling us all, hundreds of guys immature for wanting to improve ourselves. Enlarging our penises is no different than someone who goes to the gym everyday, not for their health so much as for their appearance. They are not immature, they are dedicated to looking and feeling good. I have a healthy marriage and my wife never complained about my penis. I simply wasn't satisfied with it. When I began to make it larger, she was happy about it as mine is the only one she's had and was excited to feel different things. It's definitely improved our sex life, and not just in a physical way. Anyway, I gave you the benefit of the doubt here, but I do think it's possible you just came here to talk shit about something you're quite ignorant about. Hope that's not the case and that you stick around and join the family :)
 
Everyone here has there own reason why they want a big dicc, plus todays society plays a big role on this too. displaying and saying pretty much that, BIGGER is better.

This can do damage to a man, i mean look at pornos,penis enlargement all over the net,on radio/t.v commercials,smart mouth bitches,i even saw on the news a presenter bragged about having a big dicc(which by fact hes probably small, all braggers are) it hurts the male ego, and its not our fault AT ALL.

Now yes being in love/ a relationship isnt about sex, and yes sex plays a big part of it but I do Penis Enlargement for me.
one day KINGCRIP will fall in love and i wanna please that girl like never before.Im not greedy... it takes 2 tah fucc and you both have to be satisfied. im not speaking for everyone here im just saying my reason because we all have different ones.

But i leave here saying this with no offence to you.... your a woman... you couldnt possibly understand why we are like this. just like us men dont understand why you women are the way you are.
 
i agree that size is not necessarily the be all and end all, however with some girls it does matter. I say fuck those girls who do think it matters, but who has ever been in a situation where girls will start talking about having a big one or paying out a guy that has a small one? It feels good to know that you could never be one of those guys people will dis, and personally i would never waste my time on a girl who thought it mattered. Just last night i was talking to a girl who said she dumped a guy cos he had a small dick, but i honestly think this is a defense mechanism they use when the dude plays them.
 
Benji;436295 said:
i agree that size is not necessarily the be all and end all, however with some girls it does matter. I say fuck those girls who do think it matters, but who has ever been in a situation where girls will start talking about having a big one or paying out a guy that has a small one? It feels good to know that you could never be one of those guys people will dis, and personally i would never waste my time on a girl who thought it mattered. Just last night i was talking to a girl who said she dumped a guy cos he had a small dick, but i honestly think this is a defense mechanism they use when the dude plays them.
Click to expand...

Agree, I was watching a show last night and they were discussing if a woman had sent explicit photos over the internet would it have been such a controversy as with Anthony Wieners photo and the women replied no because a womans body is beautifuul and a mans penis is ugly. And the host agreed and he was a male! I was like this is such a stupid society and thats how I feel this o.p. is feeling. "Hey guys don't worry about your ugly penises, just love my beautiful body". I do think it is a successful thread because we get to open up about something that we never usually get on a daily basis, but it is just the negative view of something that is totally misunderstood for having a deranged objective when actually it is healthy.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top