I am back at MoS

[DLD]

First I wanted to apologize for my extended break from the forums and my responsibilities to you guys but I was not mentally able to really do much over the past 5 weeks. Jennifer and I broke up and the experience was traumatic for me and I have been going through a long healing process. I feel badly that I was not present for you guys but I do not think I would have done much good dragging everyone down with my sadness. As you might guess I have literally thousands of mail, pm's, messages and other correspondence I am facing and I am attempting to make a dent today. I appreciate your support through these difficult weeks and it feels good to be back with the people I care so much about. When I am ready I will make a post in deep thoughts telling this whole story and how it has influenced and changed my life, what I have learned and what my future plans are. For now my mind is frazzled and attempting any kind of coherent explanation would leave us all a little more confused.

Mod's please leave this thread in the main forum for the next few days to explain my absence.

Thanks people!

DLD

 

[dee3186]

welcome back, the forums been a little dead since youve been gone

 

[thefranchise]

Yea, welcome back

 

[Rod Buster]

Hero, take care of yourself first man. Damn.

 

[Pharaoh]

sorry bout the break-up man!

 

[phraze!]

welcome back DLD. yea sorry bout the breakup!. they are tough. And even trying to go online or near a pc is tough. Especially when you build or modify em for a living!.

 

[want_to_grow]

I had a break up that took me years get over so i know how you feel. Keep your head up and don't let it keep you down to long.

 

[THICKEST ONE]

The woman I wanted to marry left me because she was jealous and didn't trust me despite the fact I never cheated on her.

We just saw each other last night after many weeks apart. It was so great to be with her again.

There may be hope, if that is what you want.

I know how you feel though and my thoughts are with you.

Steven

 

[nystrongstroke2]

sorry to hear that dld,welcome back keep ur head and thoughts high-i've been in the same boat ur in and know how hard it could get.Do as much as you can to keep ur mind off of things

 

[REDZULU2003]

Welcome back bro.
Please erase your signiture ASAP because its got a bogus code in it that fucks up peeps computers.

 

[Janesripper]

Welcome back bro! i know how u feel i just went thur the same thing, keep your head up bro, things will work out for you! ill be praying for you, God bless

 

[DLD]

Thanks people, your sentiments make this journey easier

 

[Dashdeming]

Bless your heart DLD. Just remember, brother, that your self worth comes from within you as evidenced by all of the 1000's of people that look up to you and what you do. Your self worth is not dependent upon being with another person. It comes from within.

 

[Janesripper]

Bless your heart DLD. Just remember, brother, that your self worth comes from within you as evidenced by all of the 1000's of people that look up to you and what you do. Your self worth is not dependent upon being with another person. It comes from within.

Very true dash, that made me feel good, i needed to here that too, thanks!

 

[Kal-el]

Sorry about your breakup, man. But good luck and welcome back. Remember everyone here is there for you.

 

[pepepe]

dld,paeson, i feel your pain i am still going through a TOUGH breakup.its hard u know this,keep your head up,move on, life goes on.keep busy,hold your head up.

 

[9cyclops9]

I'm sorry to hear this, Mike. I'll be praying for you. You know how to get in touch with me if you need to.

"That which does not kill me, makes me stronger." --Friedrich Nietzsche

You'll get through it, my friend.

 

[ctmwm]

Its TOUGH road D! Been there a few times. Hopefully never again, it does seem dark but it will lighten up before you know it. If you need anything you got my numbers Bro.

 

[LilE]

Goddamn man, I'm sorry this happened. My thoughts are with you.

 

[insearchof9inch]

See DLD, everyone here supports you man. You've always got the people who idolise you.

Seriously sorry about the break-up, hope you feel better as soon as possible, we all know what it feels like.

 

[sinker_228]

Sorry to hear about your breakup with Jennifer
I read somewhere (in the forum) that she was your tower of strength and you must be really hurting inside.

Still... life goes on and lets hope everything will turn out to be better for both you and Jennifer!.

A warm welcome back , DLD!

 

[Chi]

Welcome back home man.

Sorry about your breakup. I know how it feels, and I can tell you right now that things will get better over time. I know this sounds imposible right now... that's how it feels, not how it really is. You WILL get over this, you'll have to take my word untill you can see that.

Maybe you have a chance at getting back with her, but it would also be good if you realize there are many other good girls out there. Don't believe me? Well, take another look. Think about it FOR REAL this time. Maybe you can think of one interesting girl right now, maybe you will meet her soon... nobody is holding you back, and you are a good man (with a BIG ONE by the way) so plenty of girls could want to get to know you.

PM me anytime if you feel like talking about it. I mean it.

 

[King Higher]

So sorry to here that DLD, but you know that everyone here is wishing for your life to be great again, so chin up man and keep positive.

 

[matts22]

Sorry about the breakup DLD...but don't worry, everything will work out for the best.

And since you have been gone, I think everyone at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] should get a free inch.

 

[Cockolution]

Sorry to hear about this bro, but just keep on going because things will get much better soon.

If you want to talk about anything at all, just drop me a PM.

 

[REDZULU2003]

You have my support dld, even though I didnt mention it in my first post here.
PM anytime.

 

[penguinsfan]

I didn't realize what you were going through when you mentioned some personal issues. Hope it all works out for you. Take it one day at a time and try to focus on other things as much as possible.

 

[samzman]

that sucks man i'm sorry you got a nice support group goin here, many of us have been through it. you can make it though, tomorrow is a new day

 

[LambdaCalc]

Breaking up has got to be one of the worst feelings. The best thing for me to do was to take those feelings to the gym and rail on the weights. The best shape I have ever been was when I was getting over my last breakup. I almost wish I had girl problems now so I wouldn't be slack in the gym

Good luck!

 

[Fightthefuture]

DLD,

I've had a couple diff names, I've been with you since the good ol Penis Enlargement forum days...then over to Thunders....then watched you build [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words].

Im sorry to hear of your breakup...I've had 2 in the past 5 years...bith with girls I thought I would marry...the last one was particulary traumatic..she really was my best friend...I suffered greatly and even went on meds at one point...

I'm there with you bro...but, you CAN make it through, we don't know the situation, but no matter what you feel like, just know you have us there for you...

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Sorry to hear about Jen

 

[Asanon]

Sorry to hear about it too, D, that always sucks ... but let me go outside of the sewing circle for a second to say some -guy- stuff ....

If you were supposed to be with her that's where'd you'd be.

If you were cheating or something, that's its own bag -- quit that -- it's low-bred and the chicks don't dig it.

If you weren't cheating, then for your own good you've got to file it under sh*t happens.

The truth of a relationship is usually in a massive middle that no one tracks or considers. It's almost never as bad as someone thinks when they go to get pissed off and hold grudges, ... and it's also almost never as good as someone thinks when they go to pine over it.

The truth of a relationship is usually in the massive middle .... and that was not quite so strong really as to survive its own self.

Are the people responsible for that? Probably. But it usually takes two to tango.

What you have to realize though is that the relationship was not as great as your emotional collection of its best moments.

Nothing is ... because nothing is Only best moments.

Remembering all the "perfect times" is sweet .... but you can't project forward experiencing Loss at that level ... `cause that level of wonderful best moments isn't what was real and wasn't what was true.

Experience loss, but don't subject yourself to 'perfect ultimate' loss. You have to be fairer than that to yourself.

*

 

[aares]

Sorry to hear about this misfortune you have upon your shoulders. Just like everyone said, time heals. Even though is sucks, time does make everything better. If you are undecided on what you want to do in regards to your relationship with her, take time to think about it.

If you want to forget about her as fast as possible, put yourself on a no contact (NC) hiatus...do not accept her phone calls, her text messages, nothing. NC is hard, but it works so well if you want to get over someone as fast as possible. If you might want to be with her again, just take it day by day and everything will work itself out for the best. Good luck, and welcome back.

 

[jkisineffect]

wow dld you guys broke up huh? thats too bad. She seemed like
a down ass chic

Ive been away from the forums for a while - maybe i can take
you up to my day spa in maine - some of my girls will cheer you up rofl

 

[J05]

damn man... so sorry to hear about this

I hope things work out for you soon

Welcome home

 

[Super]

WEll DLD I guess im back to, funny i thought i never would get outa afghanastan. I never knew you left old freind. Talk to you soon.

 

[9cyclops9]

WEll DLD I guess im back to, funny i thought i never would get outa afghanastan. I never knew you left old freind. Talk to you soon.

Never thought I'd see you post again! Welcome back bro! How'd you manage to leave Afghanistan so soon?

 

[philadelph]

He is AWOL.

 

[REDZULU2003]

Welcome back supra.

 

[insearchof9inch]

Woah Supra's back! my BE idol!

 

[Super]

Never thought I'd see you post again! Welcome back bro! How'd you manage to leave Afghanistan so soon?

SO soon!! I was there for 7.5 months!! It was misery!

 

[Dashdeming]

Did that shit whip your ass into shape bro?

 

[millionman]

How long are you back for Supra?

 

[Super]

Yes it did dash! And we gave them a run for there money as well

 

[ocd]

Hey DLD,

Thanks for letting me on this fantastic site of yours. Sorry to hear about your woman problems but you do get the satisfaction of knowing that she's ruined forever having had the best.

Now just remember that regardless of our own personal circumstances, the earth keeps spinning and everything's eventually gonna be just fine.

Welcome back to your own damn board! J/K

 

[Super]

Yes it did dash! And we gave them a run for there money as well, ill have some pics up soon.

 

[9cyclops9]

SO soon!! I was there for 7.5 months!! It was misery!

True, but I was thinking you were supposed to be there for 2 years or something.

 

[penguinsfan]

Great to see you back Supra! Can't wait to see some pics.

 

[Super]

Yea the army goes for a year, but the marines only have to go for 7 months, not bad

 

[Super]

Man cyclops, been a while buddy, miss you lots man! I love your avatar, closer was a great movie, and natalie is just so beautiful, i love her picture on the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]dvd[/words], she looks perfect.