Have I been gifted another chance???

[DLD]

I will follow your guidance.
I believe this "relationship" with this woman, have held me back from starting a new relationship, and my new life. There have also been so many opportunities, that I didn't take due to this I believe.

Past is the past...focus on the present moment and the future.

Thanks!

Always my friend

 

[huge-girth]

all good advice, but I'll add one thing:

get yourself in the mindset of being the leader/decision maker (it doesn't matter about what) just so she knows you're running the show. the last thing she wants to hear is 'sure babe, wherever/whatever you want', so don't be afraid to be yourself and be a man (our society has essentially 'shamed' the masculinity right out of the man) which means lead her where she knows she wants to go

I agree. I always take the lead and call the shots. When going on a date with any woman, I always pick the location and what needs to be bought and talking about buying something, that's if I'm the one who initiated the date.