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[scotland]

Apologies this is not directly related to Penis Enlargement. I recently had a discussion with my girlfriend about the size of her 12 previous sexual partners. I'm 6.5" bpel which is supposedly average, so I expected some to be larger and some smaller. Sadly I was disheartened to be told that one or two were similar but none were smaller. Other than just luck , can anyone offer an explanation this ?

Incidently this is what got me into Penis Enlargement.

 

[atlyroc]

dude in some surveys your above average. most surveys say 5.5 to 5.8 is average which to me is more believable. but also ive seen in the past that too many concentrate on length and not there girth. most girls arent familiar with size jsut feel. ive had girl tell me im 10/ 11 inches (mostly young girls). hell im a hair under 8 ( i mean a hair) but over about 6.5 girth. most girl dont have a clue is what im sayin. get a cock ur happy with and just learn to be good with it, thats what maters. hell look at mandingo he has 11 inches and cant bang a girl hard or long without wanting to come too quick. have a good rest of 2008

 

[Moony"B"Finch]

Apologies this is not directly related to Penis Enlargement. I recently had a discussion with my girlfriend about the size of her 12 previous sexual partners. I'm 6.5" bpel which is supposedly average, so I expected some to be larger and some smaller. Sadly I was disheartened to be told that one or two were similar but none were smaller. Other than just luck , can anyone offer an explanation this ?

Incidently this is what got me into Penis Enlargement.

Dude, don't let what she said make you feel insecure. I bet she's not really telling the truth because why (unless she's messing with you) would she say something that would obviously make you sad? You're high average. With a little work you could be huge. Use what she said as motivation and don't ever bring up the issue of penis size with her again, it's NEVER a good talk. Even if you have a 10" dick they will say they've had bigger a lot of the time.

 

[crazyed27]

dude she is tring to mind fuck you bro, dont fall for it. She is trying to make you insecure so you dont try to go fuck someone else. JMO.

 

[pussysplitter]

Yeah, never talk about penis size with women.
The best thing to do is just increase your size, and let her feel how your cock could be better than anyone she's already tried

 

[atlyroc]

the last 3 comments are correct u learn to fuck her right and make go wild etc. some how youll gain two inches. girl are very naive and like to make u think they know it all. again just be pleased with your dick and it will b ok

 

[stridge]

Just to add to what you're already hearing: What she's telling you is very improbable in terms of statistics.

Assuming that 6.5" is in the top 30% in terms of length - it's probably closer to 20%, but we'll leave a cushion - that would mean that she somehow managed to only sleep with guys that fall into a category that comprises 1/3 of all men over twelve partners. Take the basic example of flipping a coin, which is a 50% chance of getting a certain result every time - she's claiming to have fallen into a 30% chance category 12 times in a row. Not bloody likely. Assuming she wasn't selecting the guys based on penis size, there was only a 30% chance with each new partner that they'd be at or above 6.5". Go try flipping a coin until you hit the same side ten times in a row. After that you can go for twelve, if your thumb still works. The majority of men are actually below 6.5" in NBP length, so you can bet she's full of shit.

That being said, you might want to evaluate pursuing a relationship with any girl that is immature or spiteful enough to try and make you insecure about your dick. Things like that can be a strong indicator of a problematic personality that's just going to be a pain in your ass over time. Any girl that is smart and doesn't have some weird hang-ups about sex would compliment her partner's size and try to build his confidence as it works out better for them in the end. Not to mention the fact that a decent person wouldn't make up some stupid shit like that in the first place.

 

[longstretch]

Wait...this may be crazy. But maybe...just maybe she's telling the truth, or she doesn't want to hurt your feelings and most likely she might have had sex with one or two other men bigger than you. But so what, as long as she is enjoying the sex with you now what do you have to worry about.

Work on being a sex God, go to the bookstore and buy an informative sex book and work on Penis Enlargement. My first's first had sex with a big black man and claims that he had a humoungous dick and I don't really doubt it, but she can't get enough of me. Even till this day she'll still call or message me for a booty call. Why? Does size matter that much? I don't really think so, the more mature a woman is the more she'll realize this fact, there's more to sex than fitting something large into a small hole.

 

[BriT]

one thing that gets me is that most girls dont actual meassure the penis of the guy they are going to fuck it is there bf/sexual partner that says how big he is e.g. "guy says" ive got an 8inch cock. "girl says" WOW and she is all amazed. bit later on they get down and dirty the girl aint to clever with measurements so she dont no if that is an 8 inch cock that is penertrating her or if it is a 6.5inch cock but she just loves it.

 

[crazyed27]

Fuck Bitches, yes I sid it FUCK BITCHES.

They come and they go, any bitch that tries to lower my self preception, I only talk to her when she calls me, and then I make the convo short like I'm busy as fuck, until she acts right or stops calling.

 

[stridge]

Yeah, I'll stand by my previous statement.

Obviously that girl is trying to undermine his confidence, because if she really has been with 12 guys, there's no way she hasn't seen a penis smaller than 6.5".

She's being dishonest to fuck with his head, and apparently it's working. That's a clear cut sign of a girl that's not worth the time, at least in my book. There are plenty of great women out there that aren't going to go out of their way to try and make you feel shitty about yourself.

 

[alwaystrying]

Im with Ed lmao, just fuck bitches haha....literally, just bend their asses over and fuck em with whatever u got ike it's a 12 incher. Lord knows even if u had a 12 incher sumthin else would be the problem, and you'd do like u should be doin with whatever size penis we all got now: fuckin bitches, just fuckin 2008 for me

 

[stillwantmore]

It's probably already been said, but the person on the "receiving end" of the penis (LOL) is always going to have a "skewed" view of the actual size. Things always look bigger when seen closer up. PLUS, memories of actual events are almost always different from what actually took place. I've learned from my own experience to never trust the past memories of a womans sexual encounters. I'm 7" non bp with a girth (most of the shaft from just above the base to an inch from the glans) of 6.25". Even when I had under 6" of girth...from 5.25" or so to 5.75", I got "youre big, youre huge, youre the biggest I've seen, THAT MUST BE AT LEAST 9"!", etc. Women are just funny that way. And many of them due to their own insecurities about their bodies, or out of fear of losing you, or just to try and hurt you, or mess with you emotionally/psychologically, will tell you things like "youre smaller than so and so.....or youre big, but so and so was thicker....or "my last boyfriend was as long as my forearm and as thick as my wrist"....I always found "thick as my wrist" statements very amusing, because most women have VERY small wrists...usually in the 5"-6" ranges.

 

[longstretch]

Oh shit dude I just realized I read scotland's post wrong. I thought she said 1 or 2 similar with the rest smaller not with "none smaller". Yeah she's probably just fucking with your head and like stillwantmore says what she remembers and what actually happened is probably different and that coupled with woman's lack of spatial measurement could mean that some of those guys were smaller or at least closer to your size.

Either way fuck it and fuck her and if she isn't up to par throw her away. When chasing women if you shatter their perception that they are the prize you become the prize get it. Especially if their mind fucking you.

 

[scotland]

Thanks for the replies. I don't think she was actually trying to hurt me (although it did). We have been very frank in our discussions, I think she was trying to be honest.

One possible explanation for this is that many guys who are below average size have less confidence with women and therefore have fewer sexual encounters. For example guys who have say 4 inches help to bring down the average size, but probably don't have a lot of sexual partners.

 

[Moony"B"Finch]

If you really are the smallest she's been with she would NEVER tell you that, unless she wants you to feel insecure or is just heartless or stupid. None of these options are good. Think of it this way, if a girl asks you if you think she's gained weight you don't tell her she has even if it's the truth because you know it'll hurt her feelings. The only reason you would say that would be to either hurt her or because you're a dumbass. You should'nt feel insecure, and I think that what you said about 4 inch guys not getting laid is probably true but you're not a 4 inch guy. You're not even close to that, and I would bet money that you're actually bigger than a bunch of those 12 guys. I hope this conversation with her doesn't affect your relationship really badly because it's hard not to let stuff like that bother you.

 

[stridge]

Thanks for the replies. I don't think she was actually trying to hurt me (although it did). We have been very frank in our discussions, I think she was trying to be honest.

One possible explanation for this is that many guys who are below average size have less confidence with women and therefore have fewer sexual encounters. For example guys who have say 4 inches help to bring down the average size, but probably don't have a lot of sexual partners.

That possibility has been discussed a good deal in other threads. Try searching around for some of them - I'd link but I'm short on time. While that may certainly be true in some cases, just a glance at this website is a strong indicator that there are plenty of well-endowed guys with terrible self-confidence as well. The reverse is also true as well: plenty of modestly built guys go out and get laid all the time, because they don't give a shit whether or not women are going to judge them.

I'm not trying to insinuate that your girlfriend is a bad person, and I may have been a bit harsh with my comments before, so I apologize for that. But, keep in mind, the odds are very poor that she really hasn't seen a dick that's a smaller size than yours, so at the very least don't bother taking her words to heart. As others have pointed out, women generally estimate size very poorly, and memory is a fickle thing.

 

[DLD]

Let me say something that every man needs to realize when he falls in love with a woman. Her past belongs to her! Not you! The very act of questioning her past puts her in a position that no one would want to be in. Why does it matter if you love her? I can guaranty you this, if she loves you she is not thinking about her past relationships (penis's) she is thinking about YOU, not your penis YOU! The second the pandora's box is opened it can not be closed and that may be the worst think that can happen in a relationship.

The past DOES NOT EXIST! Get that through your head.

 

[longstretch]

Damn Dld you should write a book.