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justnaverageguy
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I know this is old but something my life has taught me is that you have to be the one to decide what others can get from you and how much you let them in and how close you allow them to be to you, not the other way around. Then you take what you can get and when you meet somebody who is worthy of being close to you like that, you give that to her.
Also, as somebody else said, women are human beings. They are not some special creature that is entirely unique to everybody. More importantly, behind every messed up or crazy girl is somebody or something who made her that way. Every human being starts out as innocent and pure. Then the people around us or the world around us comes into play and it takes that away from us at some point. The key is to allow yourself to get back to that state of innocence and purity, and if you find a girl or woman like that who is not jaded or cynical or influenced by the world's bullshit, she is special and should be treated as such. The worst thing a guy can ever do is take that from a girl or woman.
Also, as somebody else said, women are human beings. They are not some special creature that is entirely unique to everybody. More importantly, behind every messed up or crazy girl is somebody or something who made her that way. Every human being starts out as innocent and pure. Then the people around us or the world around us comes into play and it takes that away from us at some point. The key is to allow yourself to get back to that state of innocence and purity, and if you find a girl or woman like that who is not jaded or cynical or influenced by the world's bullshit, she is special and should be treated as such. The worst thing a guy can ever do is take that from a girl or woman.
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