For the married men.....

[penguinsfan]

ya'll just wanna see my tits

Well, you are talking about a community of men...who think that a woman with an interest in Penis Enlargement topics is absolutely cool as hell.

 

[bIgjOe]

Well, you are talking about a community of men...who think that a woman with an interest in Penis Enlargement topics is absolutely cool as hell.

Yeah, thats why I don't get all the hate?

 

[thewife]

Yea, if it's so cool....why are people mean to me???? I've never done or said ANYTHING in bad taste on this board. I'm also pretty loyal in the way I post (ie. don't just post questions, try to answer other's questions, If I can).

What's the deal?? Maybe some of the guys on here jsut aren't as trusting as the others. But then again, what is there to NOT trust....you don't even really "know" the people that post here, so why am I so different????

I need to jsut get over it, or just leave.....but I LIKE it here

Yeah, thats why I don't get all the hate?

 

[penguinsfan]

I don't know. I haven't read through all your posts/threads and I don't know where what you're talking about stems from.

 

[thewife]

Well, nothing really nasty has been said or anything. Just basically several posters don't beleive that I'm a woman, and don't want me posting on this forum. Since day one, several folks questioned my gender, and couldn't beleive my story. Don't know why?

In the end it doesn't really matter...it's a free world wide web, and I'll post if I want to....regardless of what people say or think. It would jsut be nice to be part of the camaraderie that exsists and also get the respect that I've seen other women get.

Like I said, I'll prove it one of these days........ Until then - haters, hate on!!!

I don't know. I haven't read through all your posts/threads and I don't know where what you're talking about stems from.

 

[Chi]

What's the deal?? Maybe some of the guys on here jsut aren't as trusting as the others.

Simple as that. I think it's normal, just like in the "real" world. Don't sweat it girl.

 

[sikdogg]

Have you ever had a threesome w/ your wife and another woman?

Yes...

Have you ever had a threesome w/ your wife and another man?

Yes...

Was it someone you knew...or a stranger/escort/etc?

The first 3-some with a woman (FMF) was with my wife's best friend. We've never had a 3-some with another man (MFM) that was a close friend, always a stranger or someone we don't know very well.

How was it?

It was great...

Who's idea was it?

I don't recall... we had talked about different fantasies over the years and one day we decided to explore it further. We first went to different swing clubs to see what types of people go and one day we just jumped in.

Would you do it again?

We did and we still do... just not as often.

Did it cause any weird jealousy issues or anything?

Not really, as i said before we talked about it for a long time before actually doing anything. We also talked to alot of swingers to get their take in the whole jealousy issue. It's not for everyone... if you both can't separate sex from love then you're doomed to fail and eventually break-up.

 

[IXL]

In the end it doesn't really matter...it's a free world wide web, and I'll post if I want to....regardless of what people say or think. It would jsut be nice to be part of the camaraderie that exsists and also get the respect that I've seen other women get.

Like I said, I'll prove it one of these days........ Until then - haters, hate on!!!

Right on thewife. I enjoy reading your post and I hope you continue to do so.

ya'll just wanna see my tits......lol!

I'll think about it.........

I'll be looking forward to it. By the way, what size are your tits?

 

[AlreadyPackin']

Interesting lil' discussion. I for one couldn't sit there and watch some other(smaller ) dude jabbin' my wife. Much of the time it causes many more problems than some people think it's going to solve for them. If something as petty as the time you left the milk out or forgot to pay the cable bill come up in a spat, this is definitely going to.
As far as separating sex from love goes, I realize people have different views, but that pretty much goes against the ide of being married. Sex is the ultimate expression of love, and it's not one I'm willing to share with another woman, regardless of whether my wife is involved or not.

 

[sikdogg]

It's definitely not for everyone... and if a couple tries it to fix their declining relationship, it will surely accelerate their demise.

As far as sex being to ultimate expression of love, i don't agree... the ultimate expression of love is expressed everyday in all of our mundane lives. It is expressed by how we care and treat each other long before and long after the sex part is over. It's easy to say you love someone as you're fucking them hard, it's much harder to express love during aguments and during times where you two aren't seeing eye-to-eye. That is the test of love, not sex.

 

[thewife]

If you don't mind me asking AlreadyPackin' - how long have you been married?

I don't think my hubby could watch another guy with me either. Especially if I was enjoying it.....and then what would be the point

I however honestly think I could see him with another woman and it wouldn't bother me, just because I would enjoy "her" too. He wouldn't touch another man w/ a ten foot pole...so its not like he'd really get anything out of it, other than see some OTHER man pleasure his wife. Not going to happen.

He would definatly go for a FMF and our relationship would be fine. MFM or even MMFF...wouldn't work for us, now that I really visualize it.

We don't fight about petty shit. Haven't for years, and especially since we had our baby. We used to in HS....but that was nearly 9 years ago. We value our time together now, and don't waste it nit picking. We've learned to overlook so much that if we DO fight, we end up just finishing each other sentances and calling it a truce. Make up sex is always better than regular sex...IMO!

Thanks for the diverse replies.....just what I was asking for!

Interesting lil' discussion. I for one couldn't sit there and watch some other(smaller ) dude jabbin' my wife. Much of the time it causes many more problems than some people think it's going to solve for them. If something as petty as the time you left the milk out or forgot to pay the cable bill come up in a spat, this is definitely going to.
As far as separating sex from love goes, I realize people have different views, but that pretty much goes against the ide of being married. Sex is the ultimate expression of love, and it's not one I'm willing to share with another woman, regardless of whether my wife is involved or not.

 

[thewife]

Thank you for your reply sikdogg - exactly what I wanted to know.

BTW - how long have you been married, and how old are you. If you don't want to divulge that much info....it's okay. Just wanted to know for comparison. We are fairly young in our marriage, and life in general....so someone older and more expeirenced might handle it better.....

Yes...


Yes...


The first 3-some with a woman (FMF) was with my wife's best friend. We've never had a 3-some with another man (MFM) that was a close friend, always a stranger or someone we don't know very well.


It was great...


I don't recall... we had talked about different fantasies over the years and one day we decided to explore it further. We first went to different swing clubs to see what types of people go and one day we just jumped in.


We did and we still do... just not as often.


Not really, as i said before we talked about it for a long time before actually doing anything. We also talked to alot of swingers to get their take in the whole jealousy issue. It's not for everyone... if you both can't separate sex from love then you're doomed to fail and eventually break-up.

 

[thewife]

You know what? That is so true. I remember right after we got married, we were out partying with a bunch of older friends. They thought we were the "cutest newly weds, etc. etc." It was like 3am in the morn and everyone was jacked up....and someone asked us - "Okay, newlyweds, what do you think the defintion of love is?". Without missing a beat, I said "It's when you irritate the shit out of each other all day long, but still can't wait to lie beside each other at night". They all agreed that was so true, and told us that we would probably be married for a long time.

I feel like sex is more of an art for us. It's a way to express ourselves in the most intimate way possible. You get to literally let your guard down, and "unleash" that inner alter ego. Having the same man share that with me night after night is AWESOME. He knows my body, he knows my mind, he knows my heart. However, I'm a firm beleiver that change is good...wheater it be your work, life, marriage or whatever. I'm not saying I would want to constatnly be inviting somone in bed with us. But if the time was right, and we both agreed.....why the heck not??

I don't know.....whatever floats your boat I guess. We would probably never be brave enough anyway.....so it will probably just be a fantacy

It's definitely not for everyone... and if a couple tries it to fix their declining relationship, it will surely accelerate their demise.

As far as sex being to ultimate expression of love, i don't agree... the ultimate expression of love is expressed everyday in all of our mundane lives. It is expressed by how we care and treat each other long before and long after the sex part is over. It's easy to say you love someone as you're fucking them hard, it's much harder to express love during aguments and during times where you two aren't seeing eye-to-eye. That is the test of love, not sex.

 

[thewife]

Right on thewife. I enjoy reading your post and I hope you continue to do so.



I'll be looking forward to it. By the way, what size are your tits?

Sorry IXL - I'm 38 C - however I nursed my baby for almost a year. The girlz aint' what they used to be.....but I've seen worse Hubby has no complaints! I will probably get a lift later on in life...but for now, the wonder bra....well.....does wonders - haha!

 

[sikdogg]

Thank you for your reply sikdogg - exactly what I wanted to know.

BTW - how long have you been married, and how old are you. If you don't want to divulge that much info....it's okay. Just wanted to know for comparison. We are fairly young in our marriage, and life in general....so someone older and more expeirenced might handle it better.....

I'm turning 40 next month and we've been married for 17 years...

 

[sikdogg]

...I don't think my hubby could watch another guy with me either. Especially if I was enjoying it.....and then what would be the point

It's always interesting that guys have no problems with an FMF but object to a MFM... They want their cake but deprive their spouse of a similar experience. We feel that the whole experience is about both people enjoying the pleasures of sex, not just one...

I however honestly think I could see him with another woman and it wouldn't bother me, just because I would enjoy "her" too. He wouldn't touch another man w/ a ten foot pole...so its not like he'd really get anything out of it, other than see some OTHER man pleasure his wife. Not going to happen.

You are like most women and are more open and have less hang-ups than most guys.

He would definatly go for a FMF and our relationship would be fine. MFM or even MMFF...wouldn't work for us, now that I really visualize it...

MMFF wouldn't work for most guys, but MFMF or MFFM does. Putting the two "M's" together suggests that the men will be interacting with each other.

 

[thewife]

So your not going to answer my question about how long married??

It's always interesting that guys have no problems with an FMF but object to a MFM... They want their cake but deprive their spouse of a similar experience. We feel that the whole experience is about both people enjoying the pleasures of sex, not just one...

I know, I was thinking that but didn't want to say it



You are like most women and are more open and have less hang-ups than most guys.


MMFF wouldn't work for most guys, but MFMF or MFFM does. Putting the two "M's" together suggests that the men will be interacting with each other.

Oops. MFMF is what I meant......to many MF's for me - ha!

 

[thewife]

Sorry - I didn't see this post until after I posted....

So, at what point in your marriage did you try this? After 10 years, I would BET!

Is that your wife in your avatar? If so, she's hot looking to be 40 (not that it's old...but I'm 24....so.....you know.......that's my Mom's age....her arse doesn't look that good )

I'm turning 40 next month and we've been married for 17 years...

 

[sikdogg]

We didn't try it 'til about 1.5-2 years ago, but talked about it for at least a year before actually doing anything.

Yes, that's her ass on my avatar... She looks real good for her age at 5'5" and 125lbs, people always think we're 10 years younger and have a hard time believing our actual age or that we have a 21 year old child.

We're very picky about the people we would even consider into our bed... We would rather do without then to get into bed with people we don't consider hot. We always require condoms when with other people and there is never an exchange of fluids (with few exceptions). We each have the final say (no questions asked) on whether the other half can have intimate contact with another person. If for any reason my wife doesn't want me to hook-up with a chick, i move on with no question on why. The same rule applies to my wife. This gives us some control over what happens and with who it happens so there are no jealousy issues.

 

[thewife]

Does she know that you Penis Enlargement? How does she handle that?

I have a similar tatoo in the same place as her.

Rock on! You sound like a really neat couple.

My fantacy threesome includes a very hot girl...so I know we would be picky. For me the bigger the boobs the better....my hubby is an ass man, so this chick will have to be damn near perfect

I can't believe you had a threesome w. her best friend. I can't IMAGINE that. My BF and hubby are like sis and bro - so it would be really, really weird to cross that line. Plus, she's a prude - she'd never do it

Thanks again.....

We didn't try it 'til about 1.5-2 years ago, but talked about it for at least a year before actually doing anything.

Yes, that's her ass on my avatar... She looks real good for her age at 5'5" and 125lbs, people always think we're 10 years younger and have a hard time believing our actual age or that we have a 21 year old child.

We're very picky about the people we would even consider into our bed... We would rather do without then to get into bed with people we don't consider hot. We always require condoms when with other people and there is never an exchange of fluids (with few exceptions). We each have the final say (no questions asked) on whether the other half can have intimate contact with another person. If for any reason my wife doesn't want me to hook-up with a chick, i move on with no question on why. The same rule applies to my wife. This gives us some control over what happens and with who it happens so there are no jealousy issues.