Dating or Getting into a relationship with a EXOTIC DANCER?
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We can't say its a for sure thing yet but im working hard to see what if i can swing things in my favor instead of just hers. loosing all this weight has woken up my college libido, and PE has given me a cock that i didn't have when i was in college (xd). but I got my fingers crossed ?.
I was just about to go to say the Lord supper and I thought let me look at my phone to see if there’s any responses before I start praying and I saw your response. I feel good about this, I think she’s wifey material. And if it’s OK with you I’m gonna pray that things work out for you guys. I hope that’s OK much love my brother!
Just got finished praying for you my man and I was thinking to myself as I spoke to God why am I so involved with this situation? I meditated a bit more on the situation and I heard in my heart that very good things are going to happen for you. Can you imagine, your name living on? That she can give you those children, those boys, who will carry your name on. I have no idea why that came up because all I did was simply say a simple prayer for you that turned into a twenty minute prayer. ?
Coming out of it I realize that we all should find someone we can truly love and be with someone who can be our soulmate, the one we were meant to be with and in that power make a commitment to one another and work to make a beautiful life together producing the greatest joy you’ll ever feel which is children. I don’t know her but she passes every test in my book and that’s a very difficult thing to fill, I am very very particular. She needs to have a big ass. She needs to have a tiny waist. She needs to have blond hair. She needs to have a sweet voice. She needs to have a big heart. She needs to be petite and small. She needs to be on the same level as me. When I’m with her I know it’s right because she feels like one with me. =We will have to see what happens in the coming weeks. I will definitely keep you guys posted Updates are coming soon by the way. I have been truly motivated by her and every time we talk well you see we message every dame day. Share workout schedules and more.
REDZULU2003
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Are you exchanging cash for her services? or this a friends with benefits?
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SO far it's been a cash for services. No friends with benefits, not yet but up until recently I have not given her a reason to friends with benefits. I was gonna pull the trigger and see what happens, tell her I can't come see her anymore and see how long it takes for the hunger to strike.
This is gonna get personal. The first visit almost 8 months ago I couldn't even stay hard I had way to much to drink and was atleast 80 lbs heavier.
I felt like shit ? depressed that I let myself go that far into the ditch. Although the last 2 visits she ? see the difference, I'm not the fat soft dick guy she saw the first time. I knew after that night I had to change and I did its been a long road and I'm not at my destination to be honest with you. But my long days of training and diet aren't over yet. If she want to jump on the train and see how far I can go she is welcome to come. If not Fuck it there will be others.?
SO far it's been a cash for services. No friends with benefits, not yet but up until recently I have not given her a reason to friends with benefits. I was gonna pull the trigger and see what happens, tell her I can't come see her anymore and see how long it takes for the hunger to strike.
This is gonna get personal. The first visit almost 8 months ago I couldn't even stay hard I had way to much to drink and was atleast 80 lbs heavier.
I felt like shit ? depressed that I let myself go that far into the ditch. Although the last 2 visits she ? see the difference, I'm not the fat soft dick guy she saw the first time. I knew after that night I had to change and I did its been a long road and I'm not at my destination to be honest with you. But my long days of training and diet aren't over yet. If she want to jump on the train and see how far I can go she is welcome to come. If not Fuck it there will be others.?
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Thanks DLD, I think I need to Thank everyone who has participated, who has read this post and everyone for there 2 cents. Its been a real eye opener and one hell of a ride.
Like I said before I'm not holding out, from what I gathered from her previous relationship that guy is locked up, I think from what I have gathered hes gonna be locked up for some time, I believe drug trafficking multiple controlled substances. which means hes looking at least 10 years i think. If she wants to wait for him I'm not stopping her, if she is looking for something more serious, I am available. (like)
She is also trying to transition out of this business into a government job, which i give her total credit for the other day she worked an 11 hour shift at her day job. I totally give her credit she is working two jobs, and says by next year she is going to stop, especially since some of the guys who go there treat her like shit. Last time I was there she told me that A guy tried to pay 20 bucks for a 200 dollar dance.
I'm probably go see her one more time and tell her face to face instead of by text that I have enjoyed seeing her, chatting with her, and I have enjoyed the experience and everything that followed. I have other projects that need my attention and that i wish her the best in all she does, and if she doesn't want to stay in contact with me that I totally understand.
We will have to see what happens but I'm hoping that I don't have to see her for a few weeks becasue I have a few family and work events plus, it will give me some more time to get into better shape. and get a few more pumps in LOL.
You sound like you have the master plan I’ll leave it out so I wish you the best. I guess some time away from each other or give me a good perspective on how you feel about her by how much you miss her. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. I will continue to wish you well and keep you in my prayers hoping the best for you. I’ve also enjoyed your thread and all the sexy stuff you have given us, I hope you can continue! ?
I have a PLAN master or not, now every move on the chess board has to count. But what I have to say is the best thing is the support MOS has given even all the members, the feed & back everything. I can't even talk to my own brother about this every time I try to talk to him he gets pissed off. No support for him at all. ?
That’s with this brotherhood is about! I’m so glad it’s not limited to PE, there is so much more to life. We have always allowed free expression of anything men want to talk about. It makes it so easy to be open here and express emotions and let our walls down and be vulnerable to one another, helping each other with life experience. The brotherhood is truly a blessing and I’m so glad you see the goodness that’s here.
[Just added the not, as there truly is more than just PE going on here at MoS!]
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REDZULU2003
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Yeah, she is lucky to have met YOU. Be the gentleman, a true friend ... not many are around ... all these 1000 plus friends folk say they have 
called acquaintances, true friends you can count if your lucky, enough on one hand ... and she will count you as one, so long you stay the honest man you come across as.
called acquaintances, true friends you can count if your lucky, enough on one hand ... and she will count you as one, so long you stay the honest man you come across as.Big Schwanz Acht
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Letting her know that you're focusing on making your dreams happen (whatever those dreams may be), is like giving a girl cat-nip. She'll be drawn to the fact that you're making YOURSELF the priority instead of her...that's supremely intoxicating.
Do a bit of experimentation out in the world and engage w/as many women as possible, (not with the goal of getting them into bed) and use the confidence gained from your experiences w/the dancer. Be cocky/funny and leave the conversation before they do. Build on this 'new you' until it's innate/natural, then spread your wings You'll be amazed at who and how many you attract
Do a bit of experimentation out in the world and engage w/as many women as possible, (not with the goal of getting them into bed) and use the confidence gained from your experiences w/the dancer. Be cocky/funny and leave the conversation before they do. Build on this 'new you' until it's innate/natural, then spread your wings
You'll be amazed at who and how many you attractLetting her know that you're focusing on making your dreams happen (whatever those dreams may be), is like giving a girl cat-nip. She'll be drawn to the fact that you're making YOURSELF the priority instead of her...that's supremely intoxicating.
Do a bit of experimentation out in the world and engage w/as many women as possible, (not with the goal of getting them into bed) and use the confidence gained from your experiences w/the dancer. Be cocky/funny and leave the conversation before they do. Build on this 'new you' until it's innate/natural, then spread your wings
Well that's the thing I'm looking to buy a property with my brother in the next few months. We have been planning this for awhile, we already bought and sold our first house but did it from home (living with parents) but the next one we will be moving into. So my funds won't be readily available as they are now?.
But yesterday me and my brother went out for wings and this beautiful blond waitress who by the way looked so much like her but was taller like I swear they could of been sisters. Was checking me out every time she passed by me ?. I'm sure now that my dedication to diet and exercise is totally paying off, and I just got to keep at it.
I am trying to look into:View attachment 1820851I got 3-4 of those, the height, I think the looks, the relationship, and below the belt. The abs I need like 3-4 weeks I think. The education I think is bullshit. The salary I've made it before it's just you have no time for anything else. The car they must mean luxury vehicles so when I win the lotto ?.
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REDZULU2003
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Wonderful
I love the rule of sex LOL the one they were eight or 9 inches works into this deal LOL. It’s so good to hear that you’ve invested in property, it’s the best place to invest today. I invested so much in silver and gold and lost my shirt when I should’ve been investing in real estate. I’m glad you and your brother have such a great relationship that you can do this. I can relate in a very small way, I’m about to buy the house that I live in. It’s a scary place but I’ll get through it.
As far as seeing that blonde at lunch that looks like the other blonde I will take that as a message. Now you have two! I guess somebody wants you to be with a blonde LOL
As far as seeing that blonde at lunch that looks like the other blonde I will take that as a message. Now you have two! I guess somebody wants you to be with a blonde LOL