Darb’s Progress Thread! Creating the perfect dick!

Hi DLD

It actually felt more like a stabbing pain to me, but I would imagine it might feel different for everyone. Also, I don't understand the idea of squeezing the blood out of your head as I thought the idea was to keep the blood flow going?
 
I was just reading on another Board on MoS that some poor bugger had multiple blood blisters (although this was mainly from some form of pumping) over and over again. I don't want my blister to reoccur (even though it wasn't a blood blister). How does one know (other than the look) that it's time to start back? Its been a bit over a week and the blister has gone, new skin is taking nicely to the area but you can still tell the location of the blister (to some degree).

Nervous as hell. Not sure when will be the right time but I'm definitely giving things at least two weeks. I'm keen to get back into the swing of things but don't want to stuff things up. I don't doubt the folks at PF know about this issue (but don't actaully admit to it). I guess that's why they push the use of their cap, but I am planning on giving the Silicap a crack. Just worried that won't be able to see under it if there is an issue.
 
Hi DLD

It actually felt more like a stabbing pain to me, but I would imagine it might feel different for everyone. Also, I don't understand the idea of squeezing the blood out of your head as I thought the idea was to keep the blood flow going?

If there is too much blood in your head it’s going to cause a blister. So it’s always best to squeeze all the blood out before strapping in.
 
Continuing on with my story..............................

I received my Silisleeves today. I tried them on and now have some questions.

Firstly, I ordered the long sleeve pack with a Silicap. I haven't tried the Silicap as yet, but i gave both the sleeves a try. Feels a bit odd when fitted but also kinda nice. I found the large to be ok but maybe slightly too loose. I found the smaller one to be a much better fit but it almost felt too tight. The only issue I have with them is that when wearing the smaller one for a period of time I feel that the head of my unit might be a bit on the cold side. I don't notice any loss of colour so I gather that blood flow is still ok. Does this mean that the sleeve is too tight? I would like to wear it as I sleep (and also work) but want to ensure it doesn't cause circulation issues when sleeping. What are the thoughts and comments from others?

I also tend to get a bit sore (after about 30mins) around the loose skin between my unit and scrotum skin. Is this normal? In the small sleeve I also struggle to "deploy" the entire sleeve with about 1cm of length folded over at the base of my unit. Does anyone else experience these type of issues?

I also tried the Silisleeve with the PF for the first time since my injury. The fit was really snug and at first I thought the whole thing was a match made in heaven. I was wrong about that (I think). As said, the fit was super snug. I was able to get a good vacuum with only 3 to 4 pumps and my head seemed ok. I then fitted the PF and went about my evening. Much to my surprise, when I checked on my unit (after around 30mins) the head of my unit was a very dark red colour. This suggested that blood was getting in but not back out. Correct? Has anyone seen this issue? I removed the PF and the blood flow returned to normal almost immediately (within about 30secs). I tried the Silisleeve both ways to see if the raised end had anything to do with the lack of blood flow but it made no difference. I want to ensure that if I was to use this combo then it doesn't cause a blood blister.

What am I doing wrong? Is the Silisleeve too tight for use with the PF??? Voorhees, I saw that you use the Silisleeve with the PF. Do you get this issue??? Which way does one try the raised end of the Silisleeve?

Thank you all.
 
I use the thick end behind the glans. The sleeve will stretch out with use and not feel like it's strangling you after a few sessions, you are doing the right thing in monitoring it, always have to check when using anything new, I have also had that darkened colouring happen, always the first session or two back, go super light for the first couple sessions and let yourself readjust to the device, hang out in the green zone, that dark colouring is coming from too much force being placed on the glans either by pumping too much or the belt being too tight or both.

Ignoring that dark colouring can lead to bruising which is not a fun time, best to avoid that, I've been down that road because after a few weeks off I picked up at the exact same intensity I was using beforehand, and kind of went, "meh, it will be all good," and ended up having to take a further break as things were too sore after and the bruising looks pretty ordinary ?

Troubleshooting tips? Try less pumps on the bellows, seriously, give it a try. I can get away with 1 to 2 pumps and it's solid.

Try this. When you are first putting yourself into the bell and rolling the phallosan condom onto your shaft (silisleeve), when it first makes contact, hold it there, pump 1 full pump of the bellows and then continue rolling the sleeve down, you should only need 1 more pump maybe 1.5 pumps max, lock it across and you are good, seriously. One thing I've had to remember is that the pf is for training length and as long as I'm not slipping out of it or my head isn't compacting in to s point where it would fold into the silisleeve when tension is applied, then I'm set and the device is performing its function and i don't need more pumps/pressure the bell. Head expansion was a happy side effect but trying to chase that lead to problems similar to the stuff you are also experiencing.

As with the irritation at the base of the silisleeve, that's going to occur as the sleeve isn't flush against that type of bunched up skin. Possibly try using a little baby powder on the area, can be a bit messy though. May have to cut it a tad shorter so it doesn't go down that far.

Anyway, give it a go, if things are still not quite there, we shall try another angle til it gets sorted ?
 
I use the thick end behind the glans. The sleeve will stretch out with use and not feel like it's strangling you after a few sessions, you are doing the right thing in monitoring it, always have to check when using anything new, I have also had that darkened colouring happen, always the first session or two back, go super light for the first couple sessions and let yourself readjust to the device, hang out in the green zone, that dark colouring is coming from too much force being placed on the glans either by pumping too much or the belt being too tight or both.

Ignoring that dark colouring can lead to bruising which is not a fun time, best to avoid that, I've been down that road because after a few weeks off I picked up at the exact same intensity I was using beforehand, and kind of went, "meh, it will be all good," and ended up having to take a further break as things were too sore after and the bruising looks pretty ordinary ?

Troubleshooting tips? Try less pumps on the bellows, seriously, give it a try. I can get away with 1 to 2 pumps and it's solid.

Try this. When you are first putting yourself into the bell and rolling the phallosan condom onto your shaft (silisleeve), when it first makes contact, hold it there, pump 1 full pump of the bellows and then continue rolling the sleeve down, you should only need 1 more pump maybe 1.5 pumps max, lock it across and you are good, seriously. One thing I've had to remember is that the pf is for training length and as long as I'm not slipping out of it or my head isn't compacting in to s point where it would fold into the silisleeve when tension is applied, then I'm set and the device is performing its function and i don't need more pumps/pressure the bell. Head expansion was a happy side effect but trying to chase that lead to problems similar to the stuff you are also experiencing.

As with the irritation at the base of the silisleeve, that's going to occur as the sleeve isn't flush against that type of bunched up skin. Possibly try using a little baby powder on the area, can be a bit messy though. May have to cut it a tad shorter so it doesn't go down that far.

Anyway, give it a go, if things are still not quite there, we shall try another angle til it gets sorted ?

Excellent post!
 
Thanks Voorhees. I really appreciate the detailed reply and assistance.

I'm still working on it and experimenting. Even with just one or two pumps I do get a great seal, but despite this and dramatically reducing my belt tension, the head of my unit is still turning a nasty deep red/purple colour after about 15mins. This happened with both sizes of the Silisleeve. I also tried rotating the sleeves and put the thick end/bump at the base of my unit (not behind the glans) but the result was the same.

Maybe I haven't reduced my belt tension enough as yet but it does seem that the sleeves (although giving a brillant seal) tend to restrict blood flow too much when used in conjunction with the PF. It almost works too well in terms of a seal. You almost don't need to pump at all.

Another idea I had was to maybe take the Silicap and cut the end off it to take it down just under the glans. The cap seems a bit thinner than the sleeves so this might help with a good seal, prevent the lumpy donut effect and allow me to monitor my glans. I tried the Silicap in the conventional manner but this didn't seem to work too well and I also can't monitor my glans or gauge bell pressure and/or loss of suction.

Currently I'm wearing the PF with no other items/devices. It is ok, but because I am not cleanly shaven I lose suction every so often. I'm ok with that though (at least for now) as I want to avoid any overly excessive vacuum situations.

I'll keep you and the forum posted regarding progress and results.

Thanks again.
 
Thanks for the update my brother sounds like things are going pretty good.
 
Thanks DLD.

Things are slowly progressing in the right direction.

I found (after much experimenting) that I couldn't seem to use the Silisleeves with the PF as it created the "perfect storm" in terms of a vacuum.

I then cut the head off a Silicap (sorry DLD, I hope you don't think I'm hacking up your inventions). Awesome materials and inventions at MoS, I just have to modify it to suit my body.

I put the Silicap down just under the glans to use as a point of contact for the PF. This (so far) has worked perfectly. I think the combination of using the thinner Silicap along with the PF seems to be the best fit (at least for me). I still get an amazing grip from the Silicap and also great suction when combined with the PF, but I just don't get the dark purple head (thank God). So I think this is the best solution and I will continue with this approach for the foreseeable future.

I'm taking things rather slow at the moment (don't want a repeat of the issue).

Using the (modified) Silicap along with the PF allows for me to stay unshaven. Although I don't really mind shaving, it is a bit inconvenient. It does take up valuable time and occasionally I would also get an ingrown hair that created havoc in that zone. Also (and probably most importantly) if I was to shave, then after a few days the regrowth felt like needles if the Mrs wanted some special time. Not good if you are wanting to be a bit spontaneous but have to shave first.

Thanks.
 
Yeh thanks Voorhees. I really appreciate all of your advice and encouragement.

I'll keep updating this thread so it becomes a record for others in the event they suffer the same issue. I also think it helps me to write out my issues, concerns, thoughts and solutions (and hear from others like yourself). It seems to be somewhat therapeutic because in my opinion this is as much about the psychological side of things in addition to the physiological side of things.

Thanks again mate.
 
Thanks DLD.

Things are slowly progressing in the right direction.

I found (after much experimenting) that I couldn't seem to use the Silisleeves with the PF as it created the "perfect storm" in terms of a vacuum.

I then cut the head off a Silicap (sorry DLD, I hope you don't think I'm hacking up your inventions). Awesome materials and inventions at MoS, I just have to modify it to suit my body.

I put the Silicap down just under the glans to use as a point of contact for the PF. This (so far) has worked perfectly. I think the combination of using the thinner Silicap along with the PF seems to be the best fit (at least for me). I still get an amazing grip from the Silicap and also great suction when combined with the PF, but I just don't get the dark purple head (thank God). So I think this is the best solution and I will continue with this approach for the foreseeable future.

I'm taking things rather slow at the moment (don't want a repeat of the issue).

Using the (modified) Silicap along with the PF allows for me to stay unshaven. Although I don't really mind shaving, it is a bit inconvenient. It does take up valuable time and occasionally I would also get an ingrown hair that created havoc in that zone. Also (and probably most importantly) if I was to shave, then after a few days the regrowth felt like needles if the Mrs wanted some special time. Not good if you are wanting to be a bit spontaneous but have to shave first.

Thanks.
Say it all the time and I’ll say it again necessity is the mother of all invention! I’m very proud of you for not becoming discouraged but seeing this as a blessing instead of something bad. Having that type of mentality always gives you a proper perspective on all things you may need.
 
Thanks DLD. I appreciate your words of wisdom and encouragement.

What a great community you have built here at MoS. I'm so lucky to be a part of it.
 
Thanks DLD. I appreciate your words of wisdom and encouragement.

What a great community you have built here at MoS. I'm so lucky to be a part of it.

I love the brotherhood to my friend it is a wonderful community that does so much for each other. I’m very proud to have you as a brother.
 
Thank you DLD. You are very kind and welcoming. As said, I feel very lucky to be part of this wonderful community.

Thank you brother!!!
 
Just a short update.

Things are going very well using the modified Silicap. So well in fact, that intend to order more (always good to have spares!). When having a break from the PF/Silicap I then jump into a Silisleeve and this keeps me stretched. Great feeling.

I'll keep posting to this thread as I progress.

I want to thank Voorhees for his help and inspiration to use something like the Silicap. Even with it modified, I cannot take credit for his initial creation and wisdom.

You are a total legend and genius Voorhees. Thanks mate.
 
Just a short update.

Things are going very well using the modified Silicap. So well in fact, that intend to order more (always good to have spares!). When having a break from the PF/Silicap I then jump into a Silisleeve and this keeps me stretched. Great feeling.

I'll keep posting to this thread as I progress.

I want to thank Voorhees for his help and inspiration to use something like the Silicap. Even with it modified, I cannot take credit for his initial creation and wisdom.

You are a total legend and genius Voorhees. Thanks mate.

Do you like me to change the name of the thread to a progress thread?
 
Haha thanks my dude but that credit goes to lightning & DLD for the products and yourself for being creative and finding what works for you ?

You have given me an idea for another use of the silicaps laying around my bathroom unused though, will report back after I try it out ?
 
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