Hi DLD
It actually felt more like a stabbing pain to me, but I would imagine it might feel different for everyone. Also, I don't understand the idea of squeezing the blood out of your head as I thought the idea was to keep the blood flow going?
No problem my BrotherThanks DLD.
I use the thick end behind the glans. The sleeve will stretch out with use and not feel like it's strangling you after a few sessions, you are doing the right thing in monitoring it, always have to check when using anything new, I have also had that darkened colouring happen, always the first session or two back, go super light for the first couple sessions and let yourself readjust to the device, hang out in the green zone, that dark colouring is coming from too much force being placed on the glans either by pumping too much or the belt being too tight or both.
Ignoring that dark colouring can lead to bruising which is not a fun time, best to avoid that, I've been down that road because after a few weeks off I picked up at the exact same intensity I was using beforehand, and kind of went, "meh, it will be all good," and ended up having to take a further break as things were too sore after and the bruising looks pretty ordinary ?
Troubleshooting tips? Try less pumps on the bellows, seriously, give it a try. I can get away with 1 to 2 pumps and it's solid.
Try this. When you are first putting yourself into the bell and rolling the phallosan condom onto your shaft (silisleeve), when it first makes contact, hold it there, pump 1 full pump of the bellows and then continue rolling the sleeve down, you should only need 1 more pump maybe 1.5 pumps max, lock it across and you are good, seriously. One thing I've had to remember is that the pf is for training length and as long as I'm not slipping out of it or my head isn't compacting in to s point where it would fold into the silisleeve when tension is applied, then I'm set and the device is performing its function and i don't need more pumps/pressure the bell. Head expansion was a happy side effect but trying to chase that lead to problems similar to the stuff you are also experiencing.
As with the irritation at the base of the silisleeve, that's going to occur as the sleeve isn't flush against that type of bunched up skin. Possibly try using a little baby powder on the area, can be a bit messy though. May have to cut it a tad shorter so it doesn't go down that far.
Anyway, give it a go, if things are still not quite there, we shall try another angle til it gets sorted ?
Say it all the time and I’ll say it again necessity is the mother of all invention! I’m very proud of you for not becoming discouraged but seeing this as a blessing instead of something bad. Having that type of mentality always gives you a proper perspective on all things you may need.Thanks DLD.
Things are slowly progressing in the right direction.
I found (after much experimenting) that I couldn't seem to use the Silisleeves with the PF as it created the "perfect storm" in terms of a vacuum.
I then cut the head off a Silicap (sorry DLD, I hope you don't think I'm hacking up your inventions). Awesome materials and inventions at MoS, I just have to modify it to suit my body.
I put the Silicap down just under the glans to use as a point of contact for the PF. This (so far) has worked perfectly. I think the combination of using the thinner Silicap along with the PF seems to be the best fit (at least for me). I still get an amazing grip from the Silicap and also great suction when combined with the PF, but I just don't get the dark purple head (thank God). So I think this is the best solution and I will continue with this approach for the foreseeable future.
I'm taking things rather slow at the moment (don't want a repeat of the issue).
Using the (modified) Silicap along with the PF allows for me to stay unshaven. Although I don't really mind shaving, it is a bit inconvenient. It does take up valuable time and occasionally I would also get an ingrown hair that created havoc in that zone. Also (and probably most importantly) if I was to shave, then after a few days the regrowth felt like needles if the Mrs wanted some special time. Not good if you are wanting to be a bit spontaneous but have to shave first.
Thanks.
Thanks DLD. I appreciate your words of wisdom and encouragement.
What a great community you have built here at MoS. I'm so lucky to be a part of it.
Just a short update.
Things are going very well using the modified Silicap. So well in fact, that intend to order more (always good to have spares!). When having a break from the PF/Silicap I then jump into a Silisleeve and this keeps me stretched. Great feeling.
I'll keep posting to this thread as I progress.
I want to thank Voorhees for his help and inspiration to use something like the Silicap. Even with it modified, I cannot take credit for his initial creation and wisdom.
You are a total legend and genius Voorhees. Thanks mate.