going410x7, I got your PM on AFF.
As I explained in my earlier post it's a bit of a mixed bag. You do have to make a little bit more effort on your profile I think though. Just a cock shot won't do it, since pretty much anyone can make their dick look big in one photo.
I've put 9 pics on, including some showing that I am in OK shape body-wise, + 3 videos of me getting hard on camera, which would be very hard to doctor.
I get about 1 new contact a day (I usually let them contact/wink me) and 1 out of 4 is usually worth a second look.
Finally, bear in mind that I am in the UK and you are in the US. It could be that the user-base is so much larger in the US that it's a lot harder getting noticed.
Anyone have any other sites they use which they would recommend as being better, for this "purpose"