Hey man great thing that you are doing.I also desentized myself and couldnt mainatain proper erection with the last 3 girls i was with.And for the last 1 year+.I thought i fucked up my dick nerves from hanging .But it was because i had masturbated with multiple times per day to adult entertainment everyday for the last 5 years :) from 16 y/o since i started Penis Enlargement until now 21 y/o.But it wasnt my nerves it was my fucked up brain rewired to multiple tabs and mature sluts and blowjobs by multiple girls online lol haha. Now since i stoped adult entertainment I am also seeing great EQ improvements. I had my morning and night woods lost. And now i have them back just after 20-25 days of no adult entertainment. :) I am now clamping and doing all my pe work without adult entertainment. I will never watch adult entertainment again. Just real girls hehe. Good luck with your journey. :) If you want we can share some info or keep each other accountable for our progress on no PMO and Penis Enlargement.Let me know if you are interested and i can add u on skype. I have to stop masturbating but first i want to finish with my girth goals.Atleast i am not orgrasming now lol
 
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Lol bawg!

You are hilarious, but i must take my hat off to you. I think most of us have the same problem. I admire your efforts to stop adult entertainment. Cant tell you how many times ive deleted all adult entertainment related vids and pics off my computer only to start on it again a month or more later. Rinse and repeat. I do find that if i go a week to two weeks without release in any form i get grouchy. I didnt have this problem when i was single strangely enough. Then again this is most likely my wife, who is gorgeous, creates a deep sexual frustration if i cant have her whenever i want (unfortunately her libido is not as high as mine is so i get frustrated often). I relieve this frustration through adult entertainment and yes it also makes our sex life "less" as a result because my desire is far less due to frequent masturbation.

I do believe that our minds can be our worst enemy in this. Obsessing on adult entertainment, those images get locked into our heads and it takes quite a bit to clear them out. Abstinence of the mind is even more important than abstinence of the body. There are many guys who arent having sex or even watching adult entertainment yet they still have minds filled with pornographic images which defeats the purpose of abstinence itself.

Meditation has really helped curb my urges and turn my mind to more uplifting and important things. This was easier when i was single because i didnt have the temptation of a hot wife around me all the time but it should still work. Stopping the adult entertainment is very important i reckon to help the meditation purify the mind without reintroducing those images again. Also we must be careful not to obsess about about NOT thinking sexual thoughts. If they come so be it, just dont pursue those thoughts too much. Resisting something inevitabily leads to breaking down and gorging yourself.

Remember the story about the monkey and trying to actively stop thinking about it....leads to always thinking about the monkey. Steer your thoughts gently away from overtly sexual images but dont stress if you fail. Eventually you will be in a better state of mind which i reckon will improve our sex lives a lot.

You have inspired me yo once again give up adult entertainment! I havent meditated in ages so i will start that again as well.

Good.uck in your own efforts!
 
Have you thought about seeking help for your addiction. Like reading a book on sex or other addictions or attending a Sex Addict Anonymous (SAA)?
 
How much adult entertainment would you watch on average? Was it taking over your life? True addiction requires more than just quitting what you do addictively. You must find out why you're doing it, what pain or feelings are you trying to numb and what can you do to cope with that pain and those feelings.
 
adult entertainment kills and destroys in every way when it is left to addiction. I feel even the most innocent of soft core depicting intercourse is wrong. The most I will allow myself, in good conscience, to view are films showing female nudity and consensual relations that do not include intercourse or anal sex. If a woman (or couple) feel as though they wish to present themselves, under the terms I need, I feel great about watching what I would call art more than adult entertainment. In addition, I feel it important to set a limit to what you feel to be OK and not go beyond it, this will always bring you to a darker place. Also, do not masturbate more than once per day if you are single, if you are married, save yourself for your wife. These are my opinions.
 
I love reading your posts and watching you give your best. What you do has helped motivate me to abstain from adult entertainment. It's been 2 months or longer, I haven't kept track when the last time was, but It's a little over 2 months. The only time I see anything is if I'm checking progress threads here on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]. I have to say that my EQ has been ridiculous for the past month. I even masturbate in the morning and at night sometimes. Yet I still get my stretches going and have no problem getting erections again when I use my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words]. I do try to go a few days to even a week at times of no ejaculating. Those days my erections are steel.

No matter what tribulations befall you, know that you helped someone else through your story. I have bettered myself because you showed what happens when things become to much. I hope you the best endeavors in your path and I will be constantly checking your thread. Good luck man.
 
Haha. That's great to hear. I myself have been having these great, lengthy sex sessions without any worry of orgasm. It gets great not feeling the need to orgasm but rather be there for the feelings of having sex. It gets so "plain" when you want to go crazy with positions or be in a rush to orgasm like in a adult entertainment, but feeling the sex and the way each other's body moves and tenses. You miss so many things for what they are when you make yourself oblivious to how you're supposed to be, not what society says you have to be.

I only learn more and more every time I read one of your threads or anybody else's. People lose track of how much the mind can hold. It just sucks that it took me this long to learn that. If only, you know. If only. Thank you.
 
I too am trying to cut down as when am in the bath etc doing my routine its hard to get hard (hehehe) without any visual auditory stimuli , so been 3 days for me , hopefully I get back on track soon , I have been cutting down over the last year but now gone full no turkey !! I wish you the best dude
 
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