Ask The Gay Guy!

[gayron36]

This thread can be where you can ask me, the new gay guy at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] anything you've ever wanted to know about gay men, "gay butt sex", fashion, grooming, etc. I'm open minded and don't offend easily.

 

[DLD]

This thread can be where you can ask me, the new gay guy at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] anything you've ever wanted to know about gay men, "gay butt sex", fashion, grooming, etc. I'm open minded and don't offend easily.

Great idea Ron! I am so happy to see you getting involved outside your progress thread. I have one question as I have always wondered this; In a gay relationship is there always a male role played and a female role or is it seen as something different like dominant or submissive. If it possible to be in a relationship where you both play the same roles? Thanks Brother.

 

[gayron36]

Ya know DLD, I've seen it all in my own relationships and with friends. I'm happiest when my partner and I are basically sharing things equally. There's not really a "male vs female" role thing going on. We just have a mutual understanding of each other and enjoy being with each other. Like the ultimate friendship with an intimate side.

 

[8incyclops]

I guess a lot of straight guys don't have much to ask to gay men I've known gay men and bi men as friends for most of my life is it true that in gay bars and clubs a lot of straight women go there also so they don't get hit on all the time?
Any style tips for straight guys?

 

[gayron36]

Lol yes a lot of straight women do in fact go to gay clubs to have a good time away from the usual drunk, drooling idiots. Fashion tip for the week: more GQ magazine, less Duck Commander.

 

[8incyclops]

Lol yes a lot of straight women do in fact go to gay clubs to have a good time away from the usual drunk, drooling idiots. Fashion tip for the week: more GQ magazine, less Duck Commander.

So it is true I've got another one how come gay guys have hot straight women friends?

 

[gayron36]

It's usually the women who seek us out. We're fun to shop with lol

 

[DLD]

It's usually the women who seek us out. We're fun to shop with lol

lol

 

[8incyclops]

Ok so how do we get the hot chicks? Do you have many attractive girlfriends what do they talk to you about?

 

[youknowme123321]

Great idea Ron! I am so happy to see you getting involved outside your progress thread. I have one question as I have always wondered this; In a gay relationship is there always a male role played and a female role or is it seen as something different like dominant or submissive. If it possible to be in a relationship where you both play the same roles? Thanks Brother.

one of my best friends is gay and his wife (i mean husband) is clearly in the female role


cool thread gayron...i never paid attention to your name but i now see it is very literal lol

 

[DLD]

Ok so how do we get the hot chicks? Do you have many attractive girlfriends what do they talk to you about?

Gay men just have it down on scoring with women, most likely because they don't want them

 

[gayron36]

Ok so how do we get the hot chicks? Do you have many attractive girlfriends what do they talk to you about?

Sadly the old thing about hot girls is often true. They usually like jerks. They usually talk to me about their men, and ask me for advice about their hair (my good friend is a hair dresser), and clothes.

 

[gayron36]

Gay men just have it down on scoring with women, most likely because they don't want them

Yea I think it's the whole "he's a guy but there's no weird pressure or hidden agenda to get me in bed......" thing.

 

[DLD]

Yea I think it's the whole "he's a guy but there's no weird pressure or hidden agenda to get me in bed......" thing.

This might be a good approach for straight men to score women, pretend your gay

 

[Jdcsd]

Question. Do you do anything special before having butt sex to make it clean in there? I had a girlfriend who loved for me to do her in the ass and she was always so clean in there never had any poopy problems or anything going on. I asked her if she did anything for prep and she only responded that she had a gay friend who taught her some things.

 

[Satyr]

I'm surprised that nobody asked you so far what your personal experiences with dick sizes are. Because this seems the most obvious question to ask in a forum like this and a gay guy should have seen much more of them than the average hetero. So all stats aside (an assuming you aren't interested in big ones only and haven't found out about a magic formula which allows you to identify them with clothes on): would you say that the average really comes down to the notorious 5,8/4,6 or so? Other conjectures about correlations between personality characteristics and dick size are also welcome (for expample: small dick, inflated ego or the other way around).

 

[samuriajack]

does butt sex feel good when your not getting your anal ripped

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im not gay just asking , though i wouldnt mind getting freaky with a lady if you know what i mean

 

[gayron36]

I think Neil Patrick Harris did that in a movie once? Ironic of course.

 

[gayron36]

Yes, you just take your time. Fingers and lube are your best friends.

 

[gayron36]

Question. Do you do anything special before having butt sex to make it clean in there? I had a girlfriend who loved for me to do her in the ass and she was always so clean in there never had any poopy problems or anything going on. I asked her if she did anything for prep and she only responded that she had a gay friend who taught her some things.

Diet plays a role. Otherwise, I've had lovers who would just use an anal douche before hand.

 

[gayron36]

does butt sex feel good when your not getting your anal ripped

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im not gay just asking , though i wouldnt mind getting freaky with a lady if you know what i mean

You don't have to "be gay" to ask such questions.

 

[gayron36]

I'm surprised that nobody asked you so far what your personal experiences with dick sizes are. Because this seems the most obvious question to ask in a forum like this and a gay guy should have seen much more of them than the average hetero. So all stats aside (an assuming you aren't interested in big ones only and haven't found out about a magic formula which allows you to identify them with clothes on): would you say that the average really comes down to the notorious 5,8/4,6 or so? Other conjectures about correlations between personality characteristics and dick size are also welcome (for expample: small dick, inflated ego or the other way around).

I have been with maybe 30 men and the law of averages seems to hold true. You never know what you're going to see when the pants come off. I'm usually a top though, so size doesn't really matter to me on the "giving" end.

 

[grow4me]

is there any penis envy in a gay relationship? if i was gay and i was with a guy who had a bigger cock than me i think it would really annoy me lol but if in the same circumstance but mine was bigger i think it would make me alot more confident and cocky (excuse the pun) lol like when i argue with people instead of gettin angry i usually make jokes n laugh it off kinda thing it seems 2 work alot better than ranting and raving, so i think if i was arguing with my partner in a gay relationship id probly be like , well my dicks bigger than yours hahaha but if it was the other way round i wouldnt have that lol

 

[gayron36]

is there any penis envy in a gay relationship? if i was gay and i was with a guy who had a bigger cock than me i think it would really annoy me lol but if in the same circumstance but mine was bigger i think it would make me alot more confident and cocky (excuse the pun) lol like when i argue with people instead of gettin angry i usually make jokes n laugh it off kinda thing it seems 2 work alot better than ranting and raving, so i think if i was arguing with my partner in a gay relationship id probly be like , well my dicks bigger than yours hahaha but if it was the other way round i wouldnt have that lol

Nothing personal but, you are likely looking at it from a straight guys perspective. You have no emotional or physical interest in the other guy, so of course you're thinking there's going to be these concerns you mention. To answer your question though, no.

 

[DLD]

Why is it that gay men are in better shape than straight me?

 

[gayron36]

Why is it that gay men are in better shape than straight me?

Lol. Just like straight people we have our things. I've seen my share of out of shape gay men too. It's unusual for an unfit gay man to be with a fit gay man. I think it's mostly due to a stronger than usual affinity toward common interests. The gay men I know to include myself, usually go for men who are similar to them vs polar opposites.

 

[tkto]

Are you born gay, or does life turn you?

 

[youknowme123321]

Gay men just have it down on scoring with women, most likely because they don't want them

this works for straight men as well. i don't go after hott girls right away like most guys and this makes the girls like me. so many women i have dated have said to me that they weren't sure if i liked them at all.

this isn't a specific tactic i use...it just takes me some time to find out if i have any true interest in a girl.

 

[Jdcsd]

Lol. Just like straight people we have our things. I've seen my share of out of shape gay men too. It's unusual for an unfit gay man to be with a fit gay man. I think it's mostly due to a stronger than usual affinity toward common interests. The gay men I know to include myself, usually go for men who are similar to them vs polar opposites.

I've noticed a lot of mixed race gay couples though so that is kinda an opposite. I see a lot of black guys with white guys in the biggest gay area of my city

 

[gayron36]

Are you born gay, or does life turn you?

For me I'd describe it like the first time I realized I was having conscious thoughts. I just knew.

 

[gayron36]

I've noticed a lot of mixed race gay couples though so that is kinda an opposite. I see a lot of black guys with white guys in the biggest gay area of my city

I see that too. Racial boundaries vs vanity.

 

[tkto]

. Racial boundaries vs vanity.

What does that mean?

 

[pradox]

Did you have any experience with women before? if so, how was it comparing to your first time with a man?

 

[DLD]

For me I'd describe it like the first time I realized I was having conscious thoughts. I just knew.

That was a good question!

 

[gayron36]

What does that mean?

To me that fewer gay men are concerned with race or ethnicity vs looks.

 

[gayron36]

Did you have any experience with women before? if so, how was it comparing to your first time with a man?

No, never been with a woman and like most straight men have no desire to be with a man, I have no desire to be with a woman.

 

[youknowme123321]

how old were you when you knew you were gay?

 

[samuriajack]

when he first had councious thoughts

 

[gayron36]

how old were you when you knew you were gay?

Around the time I hit puberty.

 

[DLD]

Around the time I hit puberty.

Where you ever with a woman?

 

[grow4me]

is bigger better for you?

 

[DLD]

is bigger better for you?

Good one!

 

[grow4me]

Good one!

cheers bro

 

[gayron36]

Where you ever with a woman?

No, never been with a woman and like most straight men have no desire to be with a man, I have no desire to be with a woman.

 

[gayron36]

is bigger better for you?

I prefer a guy to be at least average. Below average is a turn off even though I usually pitch. Visual stimulation.

 

[youknowme123321]

I prefer a guy to be at least average. Below average is a turn off even though I usually pitch. Visual stimulation.

so i know you are usually a top...to me this means you are the one doing the fucking. now what about when it comes to oral sex in your relationships? do you give also?

 

[gayron36]

so i know you are usually a top...to me this means you are the one doing the fucking. now what about when it comes to oral sex in your relationships? do you give also?

Yes mutual oral is a big thing for me. 69 baby!

 

[tkto]

Are you grossed out by attractive lesbians having sex?

 

[youknowme123321]

Yes mutual oral is a big thing for me. 69 baby!

are you as turned off if you think about licking pussy as i am thinking about sucking cock?

 

[gayron36]

Are you grossed out by attractive lesbians having sex?

I don't watch lesbo adult entertainment. ; )