Anyone having this problem?

[ggogeta]

Hey,

I know I allready posted about that 2-3 month ago, but I guess there has been some evolution in my case, so I will re ask the question.

Here is the situation... We often hear that most male can't keep it up more than 5 mins during intercourse. (Depends on some factor, I know, such as age and such) But I frequently hear from members in the forum and other places that they can last for 30+mins... even hours.

My problem is even worse though. Last time I had sex, we did it for 4 hours, and I still had not cum. I previously asked for help (on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words]) on such a troublesome situation, and damn did it helped. Now I can eventually cum ... But it's kind of not when I want, but rather when I masturbate (for at least 10-15 mins, after those 4 hours), or when it's been a (very) long time. But what a cum shot man, last time I kinda got out of the real world, didn't aim, and got the major part... in my face hehe... viva el anonimity of the internet. It takes a while also when I masturbate... about 20 mins before I cum, pr0n or not.

Well everything to say, what the hell is hapenning, all this time I feel I'm about to cum, but it comes back to edging, and I just can't cum.

I'm not gay, neither the girl wasn't exciting, I kept the erection during all that time, not even 1 weakness. I had to masturbate at the end because my fast strokes would eventually irritate her.

I liked the smile on her face when she said, looking at her clock,"well, it's been 4 hours " But less when she said "well what are you waiting for?"

 

[O'RileyColt]

Sup ggo,
Have you tried holding a kegal while having sex, and also pulling in you lower abdominal muscles? I find this helps push me over the edge when i want to cum.

 

[goinfor11x7]

Hey,

I know I allready posted about that 2-3 month ago, but I guess there has been some evolution in my case, so I will re ask the question.

Here is the situation... We often hear that most male can't keep it up more than 5 mins during intercourse. (Depends on some factor, I know, such as age and such) But I frequently hear from members in the forum and other places that they can last for 30+mins... even hours.

My problem is even worse though. Last time I had sex, we did it for 4 hours, and I still had not cum. I previously asked for help (on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words]) on such a troublesome situation, and damn did it helped. Now I can eventually cum ... But it's kind of not when I want, but rather when I masturbate (for at least 10-15 mins, after those 4 hours), or when it's been a (very) long time. But what a cum shot man, last time I kinda got out of the real world, didn't aim, and got the major part... in my face hehe... viva el anonimity of the internet. It takes a while also when I masturbate... about 20 mins before I cum, pr0n or not.

Well everything to say, what the hell is hapenning, all this time I feel I'm about to cum, but it comes back to edging, and I just can't cum.

I'm not gay, neither the girl wasn't exciting, I kept the erection during all that time, not even 1 weakness. I had to masturbate at the end because my fast strokes would eventually irritate her.

I liked the smile on her face when she said, looking at her clock,"well, it's been 4 hours " But less when she said "well what are you waiting for?"

Man, this is my problem as well. I can go and go and never come--even go through full body orgasms, and still not ejaculate. I think there is a name for this "disorder," if you can call it that.

It's not like I'm not having a great sexual experience. It's really quite mind boggling. But I sometimes have to masturbate for a while to ejaculate--this is after she poops out and I'm still raring to go.

Do you think overexposure to adult entertainment has anything to do with it?

 

[coolbreeze]

yea I can relate...some it may be due to loss of sensitivity due to being circumcised.

can also be when you have sex frequently....lots of factors...elevated progesterone, suppressed dopamine etc...

 

[goinfor11x7]

Thanks for the feedback CoolBreeze. At least with this "problem" I'm horned up and can turn to P.E. and go for hours. This is one of the perks of this "syndrome"?

 

[ggogeta]

Might be the over usage of pr0n, as even when masturbating it's taking longer and longer.

I'm interested in those "elevated progesterone, suppressed dopamine"... what are those things?

 

[coolbreeze]

I meant elevated prolactin - after orgasm this is what causes the refractory period, and as men age it tends to increase as well....dopamine also regulates sex drive and function

 

[ggogeta]

I meant elevated prolactin - after orgasm this is what causes the refractory period, and as men age it tends to increase as well....dopamine also regulates sex drive and function

oh okay... but I'm 19