I just got done responding to a member about his size and I started to think how most of us have a very strange view of size. It seems no matter how big we are we still see it as something it is not. I also think many guys get it in their heads that a 7 or 8" penis is normal...this is simply not true. This is a stigma that is created by adult entertainment and sexual supplements. A normal penis at 5.5" erect is never used as the size to judge against, nor does anyone want to be normal. At just an inch over this measurement, a size that is about 20% bigger many men would still see as normal or even small.
I think this way of thinking hurts your growth on so many levels. I think that penis enlargement needs to have a time of acceptance of what we have, a very honest, real view on our size and a understanding that we are not less of a man because of our size. Penis enlargement is the betterment of ourselves but in no way should it be a negative thing. The negativity happens when we obsess so much on our size, what it looks like, what she thinks, how it looks according to our body, how we see ourselves in the mirror, etc. In many cases people end up hating their penis and it is this negativity that keeps us centered on unfounded thoughts and keeps the gains from happening.
With acceptance and self love comes the ability to make ourselves better. When we sit in a constant loop of self-loathing it makes any movement impossible.
Take the time to look at yourself in the mirror, whether it is comfortable or not. Let yourself see what you really are. Let yourself sit with the emotions, don't try to escape them. Look at yourself and remember that everyday you are making a perfect creation a little bit better.
I think this way of thinking hurts your growth on so many levels. I think that penis enlargement needs to have a time of acceptance of what we have, a very honest, real view on our size and a understanding that we are not less of a man because of our size. Penis enlargement is the betterment of ourselves but in no way should it be a negative thing. The negativity happens when we obsess so much on our size, what it looks like, what she thinks, how it looks according to our body, how we see ourselves in the mirror, etc. In many cases people end up hating their penis and it is this negativity that keeps us centered on unfounded thoughts and keeps the gains from happening.
With acceptance and self love comes the ability to make ourselves better. When we sit in a constant loop of self-loathing it makes any movement impossible.
Take the time to look at yourself in the mirror, whether it is comfortable or not. Let yourself see what you really are. Let yourself sit with the emotions, don't try to escape them. Look at yourself and remember that everyday you are making a perfect creation a little bit better.
