question about "SexSearch"

I know this is off topic, somewhat, but I registered with sexsearch, and made a profile, but no picture. It is a very simple profile, too.

I have to pay to read emails and see other profiles....ha. If I would have known that I would have never registered in the first place.

This was like a month ago, and since then, I have received about 20 interests and emails from ladies I shall never see.

my question is: is sexsearch just sending out fakeness so I will give in and pay? Or are there ladies really interested in my profile? If they are, then I am missing out on some lovin'. ha.

I have wondered the same thing.

here's a test you can take: sign up to the different dating/sex sites with different names and different zipcodes/locations. See how many of the same matches are in say, Washington state AND Washington DC! If the same girl/boy/whatever shows up in both locations, don't pay for a thing! A guy I work with tipped me off to that little trick!

I think some of those sites are on the up-and-up, but I'm afraid many of them are probably not. Just get out there in the world and talk to people! That's the hypocrit in me coming out - I need to do the same thing

Well the wife and I hook up with people on adultfriendfinder.com and ALT.com all the time so I know they are on the up and up.

Also www.craigslist.org/about/cities.html is great and it's free if there in one near you.

I should warn you about all of the above sites. They work great for couples looking for other couples and single women but if you a guy looking the competition is pretty steep. We get about 50 emails a day from single men even though we say in BIG BOLD LETTERS we are not looking for them. Also the single women we have hooked up with that are looking for single men as well as couples tell us they get around 150 emails a day from single men.

I guess what I'm saying is that if I was a single guy I would just go to a singles bar. At least there there is a 75% chance I will get laid and even if I don't I will have fun. I would say your odds on a site like that are slim unless you look like The Rock and your hung like a �naked people movies� star. LOL