Need to get a g/f

This is bad. I haven't had a girl friend for sometime now.
I wish I meet some one hot and with a good personality soon.

Pray for me guys.

you know what not for nothin...but i hope you find one too...its one of the greatest feelings being loved and loving someone ...no doubt about it..good luck with that tho man...keep lookin you'll find someone

9_16 said:

This is bad. I haven't had a girl friend for sometime now.
I wish I meet some one hot and with a good personality soon.

Pray for me guys.

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I hear ya bro, I haven't had a "girlfriend" since 2000 I'm really picky; and it's not all about looks. With that said, I can't just fuck a girl either, I'm past all the highschool kid games shit. For me to have sex with a girl, I have to care about them, as a good friend at least. It's all mental with me though, one of the biggest factors is that I still live at home with mommy. It's free and my parents bank my college 100%, besides it's really hard to be out on your own unless you're making good money (which I'm not) and I don't have ANY friends that I trust enough to sign a lease for an apartment. I just turned 24 and it's really hard for me to approach a girl when I don't even have my own place... I'm afraid they'll think I'm a loser...but hey, I'm not struggling to make $600 rent and bills each month. School is my main goal and if I stick with it, I'll be able to move into a house when I graduate and get into my career. Besides my parents have a nice finished basement that's like an apartment anyways. I just gotta meet a chick that's on the same page as me...there are hundreds of them on campus...I just gotta find out which ones, or date some really fine 18 year old fresHydromaxan hotties

The Artist said:

I hear ya bro, I haven't had a "girlfriend" since 2000 I'm really picky; and it's not all about looks. With that said, I can't just fuck a girl either, I'm past all the highschool kid games shit. For me to have sex with a girl, I have to care about them, as a good friend at least. It's all mental with me though, one of the biggest factors is that I still live at home with mommy. It's free and my parents bank my college 100%, besides it's really hard to be out on your own unless you're making good money (which I'm not) and I don't have ANY friends that I trust enough to sign a lease for an apartment. I just turned 24 and it's really hard for me to approach a girl when I don't even have my own place... I'm afraid they'll think I'm a loser...but hey, I'm not struggling to make $600 rent and bills each month. School is my main goal and if I stick with it, I'll be able to move into a house when I graduate and get into my career. Besides my parents have a nice finished basement that's like an apartment anyways. I just gotta meet a chick that's on the same page as me...there are hundreds of them on campus...I just gotta find out which ones, or date some really fine 18 year old fresHydromaxan hotties

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You know what? I think you shouldn't really put yourself down for "still living at home"... I'm 20, and I'm also still leeching off of my parents and living at home. I know it's not quite the same, but still, most people in my country leave the nest at around my age or a year earlier, and I feel I probably won't be ready to do that just yet (may take a year longer, may take two.. I can't say for certain). It's not a big deal, really, and it makes life a lot less complicated when you don't have to worry about making ends meet and being able to pay your rent and bills, just as you said. It really doesn't (or shouldn't) matter to a chick whether or not you're on your own, as long as you have an interesting personality and some self confidence. You seem to posess both, and being an artist by trade shouldn't hurt, either. Chicks dig guys in your line of work. :cool:
What I'm saying is you shouldn't sweat it! Don't weed out any women you might be interested in out of fear of being rejected because you're still living at home. If the woman in question has half a brain in her head and a more or less healthy set of values, she won't give a shit whether or not you're at home or on your own at this point in life. Besides, it's not like you're planning on staying forever: you seem to have a very specific goal of becoming an independent and financially self sufficient artist once you're done with school.

true that im almost 20 too and ill leave probaly in a year but its a lot less hectic but to have my own place will be great ...i can see it now... : )

Living at home doesnt make you a loser, its when your 26 and live at home with nothing to show for it, no job, no future....

I moved out on my own when I was 17. Stepdad liked throwing out the beatings, not to mention the mental abuse. Anyhoo, boo-hoo for me. What I want to say is, Don't sweat living at home. Just make sure you take advantage of your good luck. Save your money so you have something to offer Mrs. Right besides a grinning ding-dong. Lots of gals live at home til Mr. Right comes along to sweep them off their feet, so why should we fellas feel bad about it? Have fun, date, and hopefully you'll find someone special and be able to make the transition from "live at home" to "cohabitting" or "married" with relative ease. Save that money and get that education! A real loser is someone who throws away a good opportunity to get ahead because he's afraid of looking uncool!

I'm pretty much like "The Artist" on this one. The only difference is I've never had a girlfriend/sex, but I'm only 18. I need the girl to have the same way of thinking, same sense of humor, same everything plus one that I could trust. I could almost care less about what she looks like, but (not trying to sound cruel) I do draw a line somewhere. I couldn't just screw a girl, it would have to be with a girl I love and trust. I feel your pain, though not as much I think. Also, I still live at home. The financial positives for the most part outweigh the negatives. I don't drive or have a car though. My parents won't pay for insurance I don't have enough money because I just had to quit my job. College is just getting too busy (18 credit hours but actual class time is about 25 hours) plus I play the cello and there are a lot or concerts/gigs/rehearsals/practices popping up. I should be driving soon though. Luck to all of you as well me. I do feel your pain, I'm feeling incredibly lonely, especially when I sit back and look at a lot of my friends and how happy they are with their girlfriends. I'm trying not to let it get me down though, but it's an uphill battle.

Don't get down on yourself, it gets a lot harder to find someone once you start getting down on yourself. These things(finding someone you can love) tend to fall into place. For now, just enjoy the scene. You'll be amazed at how many girls you meet when you are relaxed and not stressing about whether or not you can trust them. It's a lot of fun meeting girls, it and makes it even more fun when you are at ease with yourself. Girls can sense these things, and it drives them crazy.

Good Luck

I get what you're saying. It actually did clear it up a little. I can look back and see that I was acting somewhat stressed. I have been meeting a lot of new girls. I've been getting into more campus-wide activities and organizations and I do like meeting new girls. I'll try to relax a bit more. Thanks for the advice.

Trust me on this one bro, I feel your pain in a big way.

Good luck...

Well I'm much older then the crowd in this thread and I can say for 100% certainty that a lot of girls still live at home with their parents waiting for Mr. Right to come along.

Case in point, I just broke up with my g/f about 2 weeks ago. Known her for almost a year, 5 months of that time she was living with me in my apartment. Moved out of her home with her parents to come live with me. Unfortunately, my mistake was choosing a girl who was too young and had no life experience (no, she wasn't THAT young) and couldn't handle life when I dumped it on her (she had other problems too which she used as an excuse for her behaviour.)

Long story short, there's plenty of women out there to find. Most in your age bracket are still living at home, some are not. Your only worries then will be whether the girl you're with is "normal" (and I use that term lightly) or a psycho. There's plenty of both out there.

I'm still a little bitter, the break-up wasn't good. Seen public executions that were nicer then it.

Wurkz2hard said:

Well I'm much older then the crowd in this thread and I can say for 100% certainty that a lot of girls still live at home with their parents waiting for Mr. Right to come along.

Case in point, I just broke up with my g/f about 2 weeks ago. Known her for almost a year, 5 months of that time she was living with me in my apartment. Moved out of her home with her parents to come live with me. Unfortunately, my mistake was choosing a girl who was too young and had no life experience (no, she wasn't THAT young) and couldn't handle life when I dumped it on her (she had other problems too which she used as an excuse for her behaviour.)

Long story short, there's plenty of women out there to find. Most in your age bracket are still living at home, some are not. Your only worries then will be whether the girl you're with is "normal" (and I use that term lightly) or a psycho. There's plenty of both out there.

I'm still a little bitter, the break-up wasn't good. Seen public executions that were nicer then it.

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I can relate to this for sure. I no longer stress about finding a girl though. I have two at work I'm working on now. Newer girl is a cute little black girl. Probably be asking her out soon.

stillwantmore said:

I can relate to this for sure. I no longer stress about finding a girl though. I have two at work I'm working on now. Newer girl is a cute little black girl. Probably be asking her out soon.

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i still say you're a p.i.m.p :D

Not really stressing all that much. Plenty of good looking girls at work here (tech support call center) running around, some even talk to me Seriously though, with all that female persuasion running around it shouldn't be too hard to pick up someone new and form a new relationship which was my original point for the less confident blokes in this thread. Just trying to help the brothers out.

Last Friday some buds from work and I went drinking and I went home with two girls (friends) and had a great time. I'm not too worried about the ex who didn't even have the decency to wish me a happy birthday. Oh well.

To infinity and beyond!

PS: Kittie is hot!

hey I'm back on this forum and its much different (sorry for highjacking) I still have an issue with this exact concern. Does anyone have any ideas or help for me?(I haven't changed the girl situation yet...) Not sure if you guys remember me or not but I was the suicidal guy that moved away (see intro thread) Thanks for the response

The only reason I haven't tried to get a girl is because I don't have a big dick. Period. It is a self inflicted confidence downer but I just do not feel like I am adequate enough to please a girl right now. I honestly feel like if I meet someone and really hit it off with them that they will dump me after they see/feel my equipment. I know for a fact that there are guys out there smaller than me that get all kinds of pussy on a regular basis but I just HAVE to have a big dick before I'll feel comfortable in a relationship. I just want to be the biggest that said girl has ever had. I want to have that as that "something" that sets me apart from every other Joe ScHydromaxo out there. Some guys have good looks, lots of money, game, etc. but I want to be known around my group as the guy with the big dick. Once I have that my game will come out of the woodwork and I'll be getting some good chicks. I guess it just takes time and lots of it.

On the other side, think of the confidence booster it would be when your girlfriend experiences the joy and pleasure as your dick grows. Take it from me, I was almost 9 years without a girl and really enjoy all that having one brings with it.

You're already a big size. Find a girl (they're everywhere) and blossom in a relationship man. It really is worth the effort. There's nothing like the mutual self enricHydromaxent that a relationship with the right woman can bring.

Go for it - and don't look back!

Start talking to and take out girls you aren't really interested in, the more the better. You'll then start to get a feel for how and what to talk about to girls you may be interested in. You might be surprised a hot girl may just come up to you and tell you that you can do better, had this happen alot when I broke up with my ex and went "dumpster diving". Nobody says you have to do anything with them, but I can tell you its 100x easier to get a girls number the first time you meet her if your with a girl somewhere.