Just tell me im f-ed up (girl issues)

ok so I have been with my gf for 5 years now and I am hitting that point where other pussy is a welcome option. I thought about it and I really do like my gf a lot, she is gorgeous (5'5 120 with 36c's and a nice ass) so it isnt like she is ugly. She just has been really stressed out with work and school (college) and it has really put a damper on our relationship and sex life. Before this relationship I hadnt had a relationship where I remained faithful for more than a month. and really I cheated on this one too, but it was a week after we started going out. Well she is a great girl, makes me really happy and all, but I have some issues.

So in highschool we started hanging out with another couple(also been together for 5 years) and the guys twin brother and we became really good friends. The girl I have known for 5 years and had a lot of classes with her in highschool. Well this girl is fockin hot, and my gf has brought up my size a couple times after drinking and you can always see a look in the other girls eyes like wow. I know I am not huge, but to the naked eye I look larger than I am because my cock is a little over 2 inchs wide and 7.5 is decent length. Well a couple weeks ago I started studing with the other girl and the other week we had a bonfire and my girlfriend fell asleep downstairs when we came in and my friend feel asleep on the couch on the main floor. So I went up to the 2nd story in the friends room and made my little bed on the floor. I wake up 20 min later and his gf is laying next to me. Of course my cock gets hard and hits her and she wakes up rolls over and smiles and it was just a wierd moment and I just kind of looked like I was dead tired and we went back to sleep.

She has been talking to me a lot lately and we have been hanging out somewhat while our partners are at work and stuff, but her bf is kind of seeing something which sucks cause he is a friend, and my gf said something the otehr night because I drove some of my class notes over to the girls house at like 2 in the morn, and really thats all I did. So now there is some suspicion. But I want to fuck the friends girlfriend really badly and I know the risk that goes along with it, loseing a great girl and a great friend. I am not really looking for advice but your opinoins do help, but mostly I just wanted to get it off my chest. Also I really do like my friends gf more than just a friend, we are exactly alike and have a great time together and she makes me smile like no one has in a while. I know what I am thinking of doing is really really shaddy and the ultimate no no, but I really just wish if I did follow through something could come of it but with all the history I dont think it can.

cliff notes
ive been with a girl for 5 years
my bf gf is really hot and is interested in me
I want to get with her and really like her
Damned if I do, fine if I dont, but im a man and temptation sucks
ive looked at the same pussy for 5 years
I suck at life as a friend and boyfriend

Go fuck his girlfriend...

I had this whole long response all typed out, but decided to erase it.

Go bang her..

NO way should you do this. Unless you want to be a MAN about it first and break up with the GF and then have the girl break up with her BF. I don't believe in fooling around and I never will believe in it no matter what the circumstances. You say your tired of looking at the same pussy for 5 years??? That's what a RELATIONSHIP is all about bro---either break it off or be a man and do what's right by your girl---


Kook

As a college student, I have to say...Bros before hoes man, bros before hoes.

My advice is DO NOT DO THIS ... think about how HURT the girl your with will feel ... you say like like her etc well stay true to that. The other girl most likely only wants you cos your girl has mouthed off about your cock, in which case ignore that as you have a nice tail [you say] already so ignore her attempts, flirt with her [fun type] and be nice in a freindly way but dont screw her....it isnt the way mate .. it isnt the way. If you really REALLY want her pussy than do the right thing and end your relashionship with whom your with, dont do it while in that as no relashionship can be based on such betrayal like that ... depends on what morales you hold, but for me NO WAY man ... not worth it ... support your girl, she needs your support as shes stressed right now ... give her support, spend some nights in and massage her, talk to her, play with her ... IGNORE the slag that only wants you for your cock ... thats all its about me .... I talk from experience, woman who are 'that way' inclined only want to see anf experience it, another cock to the dust the cupboard with ... its your choice but be PREPARED to face the shit when it hits the fan which could be the other guy comming after you, losing his frendship, losing your girl and the other lass well she will be left in similer scenario..... think with your head not your dick.

ciao

Indy,


Man, I hate to keep harping on this but don't do it!If you ever cared for your GF you will at least be a man about it and break it off first. Nothing can devastate someone like being cheated on. Esp since you have been with her for 5 years. Granted, your not married but that's still a huge commitment between two people.

Let me share something with you. My wife was in Iraq for 6 months and she is now pregnant and he haven't had sex in about six months. We have been married 5 years and so in that time I have been a YEAR total without sex! Guess what--I never cheated on her and never thought about it. She told me before she went to go to Iraq that if I wanted to cheat on her I should be a man and tell her by email or on the phone first--she would at least think more of me if I told her than did it behind her back.

Think about it--how would you feel if you found out that your girl was banging someone you knew---Also, if you don't think she will find out she will. And then you are in for some hell. Karma's a real bitch about stuff like this--she'll get all drunk one night and then fuck your WORST enemy to get back at you-then you have to live with that shit.


kook

Don't do it.

ye man dont dont it.
from what you have said this girl sounds like she wants to be banged by a bigger cock, and ultimately that will be it!
if i was in your shoes i would made sure that no "mistakes" could happen. e.g. when your drunk and tell her you like her...
imo you should EITHER get closer to your gf - so she gets the hint and is not as "friendly" any more. OR tell her how you feel (with honorable intentions) and make arrangements appropriately. if she feels the same way - you will have to spend less time with her, if she doesnt, then things will be awkward and you will talk less anyway.
but if you have already decided that you want her that much - you should definitely have that "chat" with your gf

well after some real consideration I have decided not to follow through. But I must say I dont think its the whole wang thing, I think she really likes me for me, I console her when she has problems with her boyfriend, I bring her dinner if she is working and cant get out, lend money if she needs it help her study etc. But that is not just for her, I do that for any friend. But ultimatly it came down to nikki my now gf. I really thought about what I was doing and decided it would be the worst idea ever. I like the other girl, but its more of a lust thing. This happens to me sometimes, but this time since it is someone close and I see them all the time it was just a little worse. And like in the past it will go away.

But on a better note, I pulled out the old tape measure and measure my girth, I am now pushing a little over 6 at the base, and almost 6 mid shaft and 5.75 head girth. I was planning on stopping at 6.5, but im not stopping till 7.

BTW REDZULU was the one who get me into girth work seeing his pics, I started clamping and forgot about it for a while but am getting back into it and the results are coming back quick. Do any of you guys have one vein that is huge. I mean huge, I think this one feeds my whole cock. I will have to get a pic when i am clamped, but I would guess that this vein is app 3/4 in to 1 inch around. It gets painfull sometimes. This one vein really took off during my clamping workouts lately.

man I just read through my first post again and totaly forgot something that made this whole situation a lot worse.

The girl I wanted to get with, is my gf best friend. Like they are each others only friend they are so close.

Then an hour after I made that post above she called me and asked me to bring over my half of the study guide so we could switch halfs. That was a long 3 hours. nothing happened, but she was making it hard as only girls can do.

indysoccer16 said:

well after some real consideration I have decided not to follow through. But I must say I dont think its the whole wang thing, I think she really likes me for me, I console her when she has problems with her boyfriend, I bring her dinner if she is working and cant get out, lend money if she needs it help her study etc. But that is not just for her, I do that for any friend. But ultimatly it came down to nikki my now gf. I really thought about what I was doing and decided it would be the worst idea ever. I like the other girl, but its more of a lust thing. This happens to me sometimes, but this time since it is someone close and I see them all the time it was just a little worse. And like in the past it will go away.

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You're in college right now. Although I'm 31 and single, if you're like most people, you'll be married and thinking about kids when you're my age. This thing with you and Nikki might end up lasting or it might not. But someday, you'll want to be an honorable husband to somebody and a father--if you're a good man. Don't set a bad precedent. Everyone has thoughts, but keep them at that level---thoughts.