How do you guys handle death?

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I recently saw a video in which some students in some bolivian university plummet to their death after the railing collapsed. The total number of deaths are 7. You can watch the video yourself. Just write "bolivia university accident" on google.

The thing is, if you have seen the un-blured video, you can clearly see the dead bodies from above and all their blood splattered on the ground. I mean, they were just kids. They had their whole life ahead of them. All of that, just gone. Thinking it and seeing that image, makes me uncomfortable.

How do you guys deal with these graphic images and thoughts?
 
I offer compassion and thoughts of sympathy to them, with a prayer or mantra. Over 15 years ago I worked alongside Paramedics and saw firsthand some very graphic disturbing sights, the most of which were motor vehicle crashes.

Its very difficult to get it out of your mind, but a technique I used was to envision or visualize a wall in-front of me and the graphic scene, it helped keep me detached as it were, so I wasn't so brought into it emotionally, but very hard indeed when you have alive people screaming for help incl children, you just have to keep calm and do the best you can, dealing with the trauma later when your alone, and as said its about going through one stage, one step at a time in your mind in that you did everything you could, the person has died but my religion the spirit is very much stil around, and I have seen "dead" people on and off for years which you may not believe me, they are also not demons like some religions claim but peoples souls that are still locked to the earth plain from a crash or sudden death i.e murder, they feel no pain at death, its just over but very often sudden deaths the person doesn't actually know they are dead, and they keep hanging around sometimes causing haunting but a haunting is not like portrayed in films or tv, its nothing direct as that.

Anyway, dealing with graphic content. Unless you need to see it, dont look for it. I recollect in the early 00s when the famous beheading videos were around in Iraq of many American, and other nationalities seeing those and being disturbed by them. Some still in my mind as fragments today but I dont get affected by them, its just if they did enter the mind simply say "I am sorry please forgive me I love and thank you" as that is a strong compassion prayer not bound to any religion whatsoever, its neutral but strong at giving love to whatever, whoever you think about at the time.

Also just remember they may be dead on this physical plane but they are alive always, and very likely will be around family members at the very moment. You can if you feel so strongly, get the names of the people that died if its listed, or if you have a photo of them all when alive to concentrate on, or if better, just visualize in quiet mediation on the students in that location on that day who died, and speak out with your heart, mean it from within that you send love, do this by breathing in through the heart, and out through the heart imagine a loving color being sent out to them from you with love, compassion and support. Do that, seriously, do that they will hear you, they have not died on the spirit plane and can receive this, it will help them pass over.

Once you have done this, just move on. See a white light and go through it. Dont watch the video again. Perhaps light a candle afterwards in memory.
 
Death happens because sin has been brought into the world from the beginning. When something terrible happens people like to blame it on God but God does not cause these things nor will he stop them, that’s why we have free will. For me when someone dies that I love I do grieve but quickly I am become happy that they’re in heaven with their Father. This world is nothing but suffering!
 
I recently saw a video in which some students in some bolivian university plummet to their death after the railing collapsed. The total number of deaths are 7. You can watch the video yourself. Just write "bolivia university accident" on google.

The thing is, if you have seen the un-blured video, you can clearly see the dead bodies from above and all their blood splattered on the ground. I mean, they were just kids. They had their whole life ahead of them. All of that, just gone. Thinking it and seeing that image, makes me uncomfortable.

How do you guys deal with these graphic images and thoughts?

Did you understand my response? need anything clarifying? too long?
 
Understood......

Will take some time to get used to
 
Everything seems to be tragic/funny, people n their dreams goals etc and all of a sudden we fucking DIE!lol ? .you want to be rich want to own a beautiful house, a family,fuck a beautiful girl or Girls own a lotta things, have a great body, basically living a great life n bang in the blink of an eye everything goes away....why life can be so unfair well..so many reasons why right?
 
Everything seems to be tragic/funny, people n their dreams goals etc and all of a sudden we fucking DIE!LOL ? .you want to be rich want to own a beautiful house, a family,fuck a beautiful girl or Girls own a lotta things, have a great body, basically living a great life n bang in the blink of an eye everything goes away....why life can be so unfair well..so many reasons why right?

There’s one reason life is not fair Adam and Eve ate the damn fruit!
 
Those fucking fools LOL Wonder if God forgave them that's why humankind is so fucked up...LOL unbelievable

As crazy as it sounds it was all part of God’s plan. Even the crucifixion of his Son, Christ Jesus, was part of his plan, that’s how good our Father is.
 
But shit is deeper...way deeper n complex than we could imagine because it's more about love than mind..

Love n forgiveness what a challenge..
 
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But shit is deeper...way deeper n complex than we could imagine because it's more about love than mind..

Love n forgiveness what a challenge..

It’s a challenge but it gets easier and easier as time goes by. God works with everybody has a different pace, some people understand right away and others have very hard time understanding because they don’t understand the context or they’ve been brainwashed by some religion.

God is love and God lives in you therefore you too are love. Life is challenging but you have already been saved and you already have a place in heaven in the book of the lamb. So you don’t need to fear a future of darkness, you already have 1 foot in heaven. We read in Galatians 5:22 “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith”

Remember through trials we become stronger and more patient and more long-suffering, it is through the suffering that we gain the experience to help one another. But the suffering also allows us to Share in the sufferings of Jesus Christ bringing such beauty to our own suffering which seem like joys in comparison.

These qualities are aspects of God's character that we all have as Christian’s, Better known as the fruit of the Spirit.

“Love: Outgoing concern for others. True concern for all of mankind. Not being self-centered. Doing for others what is right, despite their character, appearance, social status, etc. (I Corinthians 13).

Joy: Related to happiness, only happiness requires right circumstances where joy does not. Jesus Christ felt joy though He faced heavy trials (Hebrews 12:2). We should all be joyful having been called by God.

Peace: Peace of mind and peace with God (Philippians 4:6-7).

Longsuffering: Bearing with others who are working out their salvation. Being slow to anger (Romans 15:1; Luke 21:19).

Kindness: Behaving toward others kindly, as God has behaved toward us (Ephesians 4:31-32).

Goodness: Generosity of spirit that springs from imitating Jesus Christ (Psalm 33:4-5).

Faithfulness: Being reliable. This describes a person who is trustworthy and will always stand up for God's way. We can count on, and should work at imitating, the faithfulness of God (Philippians 1:6; Hebrews 13:5).

Gentleness: Considerate and tactful in conduct and correction. Never angry at the wrong time (Matthew 5:22-24; Ephesians 4:26).

Self-Control: Discipline which gives us victory over the wrong pulls of our mind and body (I John 2:15-17).”
 
As crazy as it sounds it was all part of God’s plan. Even the crucifixion of his Son, Christ Jesus, was part of his plan, that’s how good our Father is.

Damn .....He knew it All ... YEP He sacrifices his own children to save his human children
 
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I tell people that I’m preaching to that sometimes love looks like Jesus hanging on the cross. ?? Sad indeed but three days later he conquered death into eternal life for all who love and serve him. What a wonderful Father we have so thank you Daddy for Jesus!
 
Mmm kneeling down to a crucified guy in church He's not crucified anymore....

my brother he is no longer in the tomb he is in our hearts where he lives eternally! The everlasting to everlasting living God of glory! And you don’t need to go to some church and kneel down to a crucified Jesus! You do not need a church to get to know your God! You do not need religion to worship your God. We have everything we need! We have a book that teaches us everything we need to know when we had the Holy Spirit who is the teacher and guide into all things Christ!

The church is Jesus Christ and the body of believers are us. We kneel down when we pray to not only the crucified Jesus but also the resurrected Jesus.
 
Oooh Jesus
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You are right
 
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