Dating or Getting into a relationship with a EXOTIC DANCER?

This thread was such a fun read. It managed to excite and intrigue me, but also remind me of the realities of that world that I'm not a part of, and don't need to be a part of. I had my own sort of recklessness as a younger man. I never dated a stripper, but I dated a couple of escorts, a couple phone sex girls, and a couple of cam girls. I also was out of control with going to sex clubs, random hookups, affairs, group sex, trolling the internet for hours, entire days and nights, searching for the next hit. And when the high washes away, you're just empty. So glad to be away from that life now. I must say, sometimes I do miss the excitement. Lots of fodder for fantasy when I'm doing my girth work.

It is such a good read. I would like some input from members outside the states, in how do you see this industry from where you are?

REDZULU2003 said:

It is such a good read. I would like some input from members outside the states, in how do you see this industry from where you are?

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I can’t see it from my apartment ?

@Tornadocock, just cuz she has a 'ride or die' doesn't mean she wouldn't be down for a ride on you... but yeah, she's probably just playing the game for money. Either way, don't waste your emotions on her.

Well I can't confirm or deny if this ride or die is in the picture or not. The only thing I can say I have received is drinks, she has bought me drinks. It has been fun more fun then I've had in alog time. I have had a bit of a dry spell because I wanted to focus on my career. Now that my career is established I noticed that I'm 320+lbs not working out and my sex drive is close to dead. All of a sudden I am working out, and focusing on my PE and now down to 267lbs. So I see it as just jump starting my battery. If she did want to hang out without payment or what ever then sure if not time to move on

Tornadocock said:

Well I can't confirm or deny if this ride or die is in the picture or not. The only thing I can say I have received is drinks, she has bought me drinks. It has been fun more fun then I've had in alog time. I have had a bit of a dry spell because I wanted to focus on my career. Now that my career is established I noticed that I'm 320+lbs not working out and my sex drive is close to dead. All of a sudden I am working out, and focusing on my PE and now down to 267lbs. So I see it as just jump starting my battery. If she did want to hang out without payment or what ever then sure if not time to move on

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It’s like a big giant reset button! It’s so amazing when we start working on ourselves and seeing results it motivates us to keep reaching higher and higher. I’m so glad you’re making changes in your life for the better

Tornadocock said:

Well I can't confirm or deny if this ride or die is in the picture or not. The only thing I can say I have received is drinks, she has bought me drinks. It has been fun more fun then I've had in alog time. I have had a bit of a dry spell because I wanted to focus on my career. Now that my career is established I noticed that I'm 320+lbs not working out and my sex drive is close to dead. All of a sudden I am working out, and focusing on my PE and now down to 267lbs. So I see it as just jump starting my battery. If she did want to hang out without payment or what ever then sure if not time to move on

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That's awesome, I need that same motivation again as you brother!

DLD said:

It’s like a big giant reset button! It’s so amazing when we start working on ourselves and seeing results it motivates us to keep reaching higher and higher. I’m so glad you’re making changes in your life for the better

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Thanks DLD I'm glad that I asked this question, I almost didn't because I thought there would be alot of negative feed back and no positive feed back or information or people's experiences.

For a shut in like me, it's a huge jump that I needed, it's the experience that I always herd other guys talk about. Now I'm on this side of the fence and it's fun. Here is a picture of my pants the last time I walk out of there and a picture of her.

Honestly people are people. If you were to meet a dancer that just got in the business, there is a high possibility that you could pull her if your talk game is right.

But its allot harder to try to pull a dancer that has been in the game for a while because every man pretty much runs the same game. "Why is a beautiful smart women like you in a club like this?", "I can take care of you and pay your Bill's",, they hear it all.

Business men come in offering my wife a job at their firm, etc. anything to get a chance to hook up outside the club. Funny thing is they dont realize she makes way more money than most big shots can pay her.

Dancers average different pay.

Every night when my wife came home, I would do her numbers. Take her pay for the night, minus house fee, tips, drinks she bought, etc.

Even though some nights were really good or really bad, the average was still there. I even had it down to what outfits and hair made more money, nights, locations, time of year etc.

In the last year, after 6 months of accounting, she averaged about $75 an hour working 20 hours a week. There are nights you can make a couple grand and nights you leave the club owing house.

Some dancers want a stable job with benefits but every business has it's up and downs and plays off employees ect, so nothing in life is 100% stable.

It's hard for any dancer to go work a regular 9-5 for $12-15 an hour after realizing what they really make but many dancers dont track income so they dont realize how good it is.

@Jackxxx, have you ever tracked income like this?

Lightning said:

That's awesome, I need that same motivation again as you brother!

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I'll be honest it's no easy task but I feel amazing again my career is going well. It's just my health was suffering and now I'm gonna set a huge goal to get in massive shape by the summer if not sooner and the ball is rolling now. You just got to take the first few step in right direction. With abit of motivation and some sacrifice, it's possible.

REDZULU2003 said:

It is such a good read. I would like some input from members outside the states, in how do you see this industry from where you are?

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Just to give you some info I'm from Toronto, Canada I have never been to a strip club in the state. But I'm sure it's very similar, there are your trashy joints and high end places too.

What, I thought Canada had the best strip joints, that's what I learned from Family Guy! :D
Just kidding.

I haven't been to strip clubs here in Finland. It's quite problematic anyway, monetary wise I would say, as with Euros you don't have one euro notes. So the smallest note is 5 euros. Overall, things being so expensive over here anyway I just hadn't had the feeling to go to those places. There are few. I would say there are more of massage parlours than strip clubs or places that offer private booths. (Those being in sex shops.)

I'm very glad to hear about your rising up @Tornadocock ! I'm also aiming for that motivation peak. Certain balls have started to roll during this year already, thankfully.
Nice pictures by the way, brough a smile to my face!

Shout out to @Jackxxx too, love to hear more of you!

arkailija said:

What, I thought Canada had the best strip joints, that's what I learned from Family Guy! :D
Just kidding.

I haven't been to strip clubs here in Finland. It's quite problematic anyway, monetary wise I would say, as with Euros you don't have one euro notes. So the smallest note is 5 euros. Overall, things being so expensive over here anyway I just hadn't had the feeling to go to those places. There are few. I would say there are more of massage parlours than strip clubs or places that offer private booths. (Those being in sex shops.)

I'm very glad to hear about your rising up @Tornadocock ! I'm also aiming for that motivation peak. Certain balls have started to roll during this year already, thankfully.
Nice pictures by the way, brough a smile to my face!

Shout out to @Jackxxx too, love to hear more of you!

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Well it's not that cheap here either but the you can see the economy is starting to suffer now but there not as busy as they use to be plus a dance is $20 they don't do table dances like I have heard about or tables where guys have to spend as long as they are there and a bottle of water is 6.50 and the cheapest beer is 8.50

I don't know how some guys spend every day there or on a regular basis. But I guess if your lonely ?

Tornadocock said:

For a shut in like me, it's a huge jump that I needed, it's the experience that I always herd other guys talk about. Now I'm on this side of the fence and it's fun. Here is a picture of my pants the last time I walk out of there and a picture of her.

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If that is really the girl in the picture, she looks like a top dollar professional. So if you are really banging her, you have to be paying good money for it.

I have never had an opportunity to take a picture of cum stains on my pants LOL so I'm not sure what that is about. That is definitely a first for me and I thought I've seen everything. Was that the first time you ever came? Your cum looks really white.

Lightning said:

If that is really the girl in the picture, she looks like a top dollar professional. So if you are really banging her, you have to be paying good money for it.

I have never had an opportunity to take a picture of cum stains on my pants LOL so I'm not sure what that is about. That is definitely a first for me and I thought I've seen everything. Was that the first time you ever came?

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Well to answer your question
First yes that is her I have more pictures she sends them to me when she tries to lure me in ?
Second I never said she was cheap. That is why I don't go see her ever week.
Third that's not my cum that's her cum, and that's not the first time she came on my pants from riding my dick, I bring my own condoms because I wear magnums.
Forth not the first I cam I don't cum on my own pants. ?

Whew, I'm so happy to learn that wasn't your first cum shot makes allot of sense now.

She looks very high maintenance.

Lightning said:

Whew, I'm so happy to learn that wasn't your first cum shot makes allot of sense now.

She looks very high maintenance.

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Wow thanks for the vote of confidence lighting ?. Ya she has marked a few of my pants but usually she cleans then with some wipes this time she forgot and so did I. I ? realized when I got home. She hasn't complained about the dick yet. Takes her a little bit of time to get use to it and then after riding it for 20 min I give it to her doggy style and it's super fun. But I need to try and see what happens after a few months see how hungry that pussy ? gets. ?

Tornadocock said:

Wow thanks for the vote of confidence lighting ?. Ya she has marked a few of my pants but usually she cleans then with some wipes this time she forgot and so did I. I ? realized when I got home. She hasn't complained about the dick yet. Takes her a little bit of time to get use to it and then after riding it for 20 min I give it to her doggy style and it's super fun. But I need to try and see what happens after a few months see how hungry that pussy ? gets. ?

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Hey I have to ask, allot of walks of life come through these doors (drunk) I would love to see more pictures of her. Has she tried reaching out to you yet?