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@orgasmic19 I believe I overreacted, and we have not explained the censoring for members.
We need to put something together where we explain the purpose of it, and why it's so important for us.
 
@orgasmic19 I believe I overreacted, and we have not explained the censoring for members.
We need to put something together where we explain the purpose of it, and why it's so important for us.

Your good brother! I don’t want to get banned for saying the wrong thing. @DLD ask what the ������ is. I’ll just trying to explain.

I appreciate everything you do! Keep strong 💪

I understand from your guys perspective you’re trying to get more hits on Google. I would probably do the same. Peace ✌️
 
Your good brother! I don’t want to get banned for saying the wrong thing. @DLD ask what the ������ is. I’ll just trying to explain.

I appreciate everything you do! Keep strong 💪

I understand from your guys perspective you’re trying to get more hits on Google. I would probably do the same. Peace ✌
You are never going to get banned.
 
I think it's just been years of horrendously low self-esteem and trust issues. I have always felt like a joke, so I actively trying to change my self-talk. I have rough days emotionally very often. Getting healthier though, making progress. Currently, I am single and just don't feel adequate to be in a relationship atm. But, again, that's awful to program myself with. Feels like a war, honestly.
 
By the way I'm not angry, it just looks like that. 🙂

I just wanted to be clear about this.

And my wish is that everyone understands the reason we are censoring words.

You have mastered the administrative part of the site was such clarity and understanding.
 
I think it's just been years of horrendously low self-esteem and trust issues. I have always felt like a joke, so I actively trying to change my self-talk. I have rough days emotionally very often. Getting healthier though, making progress. Currently, I am single and just don't feel adequate to be in a relationship atm. But, again, that's awful to program myself with. Feels like a war, honestly.
Stay strong brother.
Work on yourself and soon women will chase you.
I have been alone most of my life...it's starting to work for me now. We need to focus on our own journey. You should do you.

Yes it's an awful programming, but we can't change how we grew up. If our feelings didn't matter when growing up, we tend to become very hard on ourselves. Our brain consist mostly of negative thoughts about ourselves, but this preposition of though patterns can be changed with time.

@SaintGermain have you tried, Behavioral Therapy?
You work with a professional with your behavior, and this in turn will change how you think and feel about yourself in relation to others. Really powerful! I highly recommend it.

I can send more information if you need it.
Take care.
 
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Stay strong brother.
Work on yourself and soon women will chase you.
I have been alone most of my life...it's starting to work for me now. We need to focus on our own journey. You should do you.

Yes it's an awful programming, but we can't change how we grew up. If our feelings didn't matter when growing up, we tend to become very hard on ourselves. Our brain consist mostly of negative thoughts about ourselves, but this preposition of though patterns can be changed with time.

@SaintGermain have you tried, Behavioral Therapy?
You work with a professional with your behavior, and this in turn will change how you think and feel about yourself in relation to others. Really powerful! I highly recommend it.

I can send more information if you need it.
Take care.

I agree work on yourself! But if you don’t approach you’ll never meet anyone.

You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take.
 
I agree work on yourself! But if you don’t approach you’ll never meet anyone.

You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take.
A woman desires confidence over anything else. Feel better about that yourself and take some risks. Because there's a lot of women out there who are looking for somebody with your character
 
I agree work on yourself! But if you don’t approach you’ll never meet anyone.

You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take.
The approach mindset are garbage.

Women should want to come to you naturally, you should never chase them. You should attract them.

When you attract them you don't even need to approach them, they are already there in front of you, trying to get your attention.

Just saying, there are signs...that they want you.

Just a different way of looking at it. If you are chasing women this kind of behavior will repell them longterm. If you have time to text them all day long...this is not the way.

But I know what you are saying. You need to challenge your comfort zoon. But working on yourself will get you there.
 
But I don't think this was what the main discussion was about. More about this.

I think it's just been years of horrendously low self-esteem and trust issues. I have always felt like a joke, so I actively trying to change my self-talk. I have rough days emotionally very often. Getting healthier though, making progress.
 
The approach mindset are garbage.

Women should want to come to you naturally, you should never chase them. You should attract them.

When you attract them you don't even need to approach them, they are already there in front of you, trying to get your attention.

Just saying, there are signs...that they want you.

Just a different way of looking at it. If you are chasing women this kind of behavior will repell them longterm. If you have time to text them all day long...this is not the way.

But I know what you are saying. You need to challenge your comfort zoon. But working on yourself will get you there.

I completely disagree! How often do you see women hit on a guy or ask them out besides hot guy. I know there are signs it’s obvious.

From my own experience you don’t your left in the dust mate.
 
I completely disagree! How often do you see women hit on a guy or ask them out besides hot guy. I know there are signs it’s obvious.

From my own experience you don’t your left in the dust mate.
I don't talk about women hitting on guys.

I'm talking about that you should not chasing them.

I suppose I'm a hot guy. They come up to me all the time.
 
Thank you, all! This is very helpful.

Yes, I agree that in order for a relationship to work, each party must be strongly rooted in themselves. I made a mistake in trying to make something work without being sure of myself, so all the signs of insecurity over-saturated all of my interactions.

I won't let it get me down, I have been seeing glimpses of confidence in myself, which is a foreign, but welcome feeling. I have been seeing that max effort translates into boosts of confidence, whereas, low effort brings it down.

By the time one reaches a significantly better version of themselves, in all domains of life, I suspect reality feels more seamless, at least compared to the former version. From this better version, you strive to be better still, always seeking.

Thank you again!
 
No, what I’m saying is have your hobbies have your things to fall back on

but in the end you’ll have to approach if you don’t someone else will and your chance will be missed. this is my experience.

Agree to disagree.

I know people who are good looking and are dumb as hell when comes to asking a girl out. I know people from experience will never take the chance and stay in the friend zone.

But you must be pretty hot 🥵 lol 😆 I have to get back to work.
 
No, what I’m saying is have your hobbies have your things to fall back on

but in the end you’ll have to approach if you don’t someone else will and your chance will be missed. this is my experience.

Agree to disagree.

I know people who are good looking and are dumb as hell when comes to asking a girl out. I know people from experience will never take the chance and stay in the friend zone.

But you must be pretty hot 🥵 lol 😆 I have to get back to work.
That's because of confidence. The more confidence you have the more it will reflect from you to woman
 
I don't talk about women hitting on guys.

I'm talking about that you should not chasing them.

I suppose I'm a hot guy. They come up to me all the time.

just re-read your comment and I agree with you hundred percent. I get the point 😊

I guess when you talk about chasing it gets me a little confused, but it’s all about confidence.
 
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