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Think I might slap on the ace wrap this week, take the dog out with joggers on, and see what happens.
Bulge Up yourself! How does it feel having a big flaccid? The thread for an instant bulge + Reactions.
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@F26 Right on the fucking money, man. I totally understand your frustration with the incoherence found throughout the forum.
However, do keep in mind this is people we're talking to/about. We all have lots of areas where we "change sides" often without even noticing it.
One of the hardest things in our journey through life is to be coherent with what we think, say and do. Society, family, beliefs, life, schedules, ego, they all get in the way of our thoughts, decisions and actions/words. It is by no means an easy task to keep it all cohesive, logical, sensible, etc.
I personally believe one of the main flaws of our (western) society is that we tend to separate things in order to understand them better, but keep forgetting that everything is related.
We lift weights but we overlook reading, we got to the gym but forget about our eating habits, we check out the latest in fashion and grooming but forget about basic social skills, we work our asses off for money but forget about common money management skills... the list could go on and on.
For me, PE is part of my personal growth as a whole. My aim is to be "perfect" (according to my personal and social environment standards). Having a large dick is part of MY concept of being a "perfect" male, but MY concept isn't complete if I am a lousy spouse, a terrible parent, a bad son, a poor friend, an ass-hole driver, a misogynist bastard, a motherfucking racist, and so on. If I want to be a good father, I need to set good examples, therefore I have to eat properly and exercise regularly, for instance, which also improves my performance as a lover (better spouse), improves my overall mood (less stress on the road, for example) and helps me have more clarity of thought to make better decisions.
This is a topic that we could discuss for ages, as the road never ends here.
My point is, PE is great and we have to realize exactly why it is we're doing it, BUT it must be accompanied by growth in all the other areas of our life.
PE is just a piece of the puzzle, guys. Look at the whole picture and everything will make much more sense (including walking around unapologetically your motherfucking bulge).
However, do keep in mind this is people we're talking to/about. We all have lots of areas where we "change sides" often without even noticing it.
One of the hardest things in our journey through life is to be coherent with what we think, say and do. Society, family, beliefs, life, schedules, ego, they all get in the way of our thoughts, decisions and actions/words. It is by no means an easy task to keep it all cohesive, logical, sensible, etc.
I personally believe one of the main flaws of our (western) society is that we tend to separate things in order to understand them better, but keep forgetting that everything is related.
We lift weights but we overlook reading, we got to the gym but forget about our eating habits, we check out the latest in fashion and grooming but forget about basic social skills, we work our asses off for money but forget about common money management skills... the list could go on and on.
For me, PE is part of my personal growth as a whole. My aim is to be "perfect" (according to my personal and social environment standards). Having a large dick is part of MY concept of being a "perfect" male, but MY concept isn't complete if I am a lousy spouse, a terrible parent, a bad son, a poor friend, an ass-hole driver, a misogynist bastard, a motherfucking racist, and so on. If I want to be a good father, I need to set good examples, therefore I have to eat properly and exercise regularly, for instance, which also improves my performance as a lover (better spouse), improves my overall mood (less stress on the road, for example) and helps me have more clarity of thought to make better decisions.
This is a topic that we could discuss for ages, as the road never ends here.
My point is, PE is great and we have to realize exactly why it is we're doing it, BUT it must be accompanied by growth in all the other areas of our life.
PE is just a piece of the puzzle, guys. Look at the whole picture and everything will make much more sense (including walking around unapologetically your motherfucking bulge).
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@savageblue hitting the point (100)
That's what I'm trying to tell always. PE is just one from lots of things in our life. I see it like sports or another habit, except that my goal is to only doing PE for 2-3 years until reaching my goal and then cementing it and done LOL For sports and living healthy, it's an ongoing habit until we die...
So that's why I'm maybe letting PE affect my lifestyle a little bit more than other habits, it's an end in sight and instead of doing it for 5-10 years I want to get it done as fast as I can and then for me that chapter mostly will be closed, except some maintenance training maybe or pumping before sex as gf/wife would love it/beg for it.
Kegels and pelvic floor training I'll definitely keep as I can do it a few times a week without any problems or even everyday in car/bus/train, during work or whenever I want.
And as we're talking about that, a great dick is just an advantage, it's nothing we actually need in life. It's the same like doing sports and working on our dream bodies. You can also have a cool life while just living healthy and not hitting the gym, just sometimes going for a walk and doing some stretching and sometimes jogging.
We also wouldn't need to inform about many things, but we're doing it to improve ourselves. Hey look, if I can give my gf/wife later more pleasure while having sex - what should be the freaking problem here? Also it maybe boost up my self-confidence, but there isn't any disadvantage.
Lots of people here are doing that with multiple things:
And I 100% agree with you, PE is just a puzzle piece of many things in our lifes. Some maybe are focusing too much on it because of self-confidence problems or whatever, but the other things also play a very big role.
In my opinion self-confidence is reached when you are happy while either being still in the process of improving yourself or when you already achieved some of the things from your personal list.
I also know some fat people who are freaking self-confidenct, they don't give a damn about their body and it's okay.
I even was fat myself and I can tell you that if you are not dumb like a rock, you will still be able to get in contact with hot girls who are smart.
Being self-confident is a mindset thing, even when your physical appearance is top notch and you're the most sick alpha-male (from looks), it doesn't help you when you're shy, introverted and are not open to talk with other people.
I know this is driving into the self-love direction, but I can 100% tell you that this shit works, for sure you won't be the men most women are after when you're fat and scruffy, but if you're kempt, this really shouldn't be the excuse of not having fun in life and directly starting to get in contact with girls/women.
As I can also say and I've the opinion: Most/all fat people still feel bad about their looks and let it affect their lifestyle (going swimming, at the beach and so on), even if they say they feel great and all. If they could choose between a normal or athletic body and their body, changing with snapping their fingers, they definitely would do it. In addition to that it's also healthier to get into the normal range, I'm really not telling everybody should get shredded and atlethic, but as we're talking about it, at least people should take care of their body as it's their only 'house'(body) their soul/spirit or whatever is living in here on planet earth from what we know.
So to sum up all shit we're talking here about:
PE is just one of a lot habits which could improve your life. Having a bigger dick can be a advantage and a boost.
I even would say having a healthier body is more important than dick size.
Being self-confident and happy with yourself is the most important
Have a balance life and have some fun in life, even while most of use here are still in the process of improving ourselves.
Peace out ??
That's what I'm trying to tell always. PE is just one from lots of things in our life. I see it like sports or another habit, except that my goal is to only doing PE for 2-3 years until reaching my goal and then cementing it and done LOL For sports and living healthy, it's an ongoing habit until we die...
So that's why I'm maybe letting PE affect my lifestyle a little bit more than other habits, it's an end in sight and instead of doing it for 5-10 years I want to get it done as fast as I can and then for me that chapter mostly will be closed, except some maintenance training maybe or pumping before sex as gf/wife would love it/beg for it.
Kegels and pelvic floor training I'll definitely keep as I can do it a few times a week without any problems or even everyday in car/bus/train, during work or whenever I want.
And as we're talking about that, a great dick is just an advantage, it's nothing we actually need in life. It's the same like doing sports and working on our dream bodies. You can also have a cool life while just living healthy and not hitting the gym, just sometimes going for a walk and doing some stretching and sometimes jogging.
We also wouldn't need to inform about many things, but we're doing it to improve ourselves. Hey look, if I can give my gf/wife later more pleasure while having sex - what should be the freaking problem here? Also it maybe boost up my self-confidence, but there isn't any disadvantage.
Lots of people here are doing that with multiple things:
- sports
- healthy lifestyle
- PE
- learning to understand girls/women better (gives a big benefit as we have situations in control then)
- getting more knowledge in different areas
- meditation
- improving communication skills
- improving time management/being more productive
- money management - more money or less spending or both at the same time
And I 100% agree with you, PE is just a puzzle piece of many things in our lifes. Some maybe are focusing too much on it because of self-confidence problems or whatever, but the other things also play a very big role.
In my opinion self-confidence is reached when you are happy while either being still in the process of improving yourself or when you already achieved some of the things from your personal list.
I also know some fat people who are freaking self-confidenct, they don't give a damn about their body and it's okay.
I even was fat myself and I can tell you that if you are not dumb like a rock, you will still be able to get in contact with hot girls who are smart.
Being self-confident is a mindset thing, even when your physical appearance is top notch and you're the most sick alpha-male (from looks), it doesn't help you when you're shy, introverted and are not open to talk with other people.
I know this is driving into the self-love direction, but I can 100% tell you that this shit works, for sure you won't be the men most women are after when you're fat and scruffy, but if you're kempt, this really shouldn't be the excuse of not having fun in life and directly starting to get in contact with girls/women.
As I can also say and I've the opinion: Most/all fat people still feel bad about their looks and let it affect their lifestyle (going swimming, at the beach and so on), even if they say they feel great and all. If they could choose between a normal or athletic body and their body, changing with snapping their fingers, they definitely would do it. In addition to that it's also healthier to get into the normal range, I'm really not telling everybody should get shredded and atlethic, but as we're talking about it, at least people should take care of their body as it's their only 'house'(body) their soul/spirit or whatever is living in here on planet earth from what we know.
So to sum up all shit we're talking here about:
PE is just one of a lot habits which could improve your life. Having a bigger dick can be a advantage and a boost.
I even would say having a healthier body is more important than dick size.
Being self-confident and happy with yourself is the most important
Have a balance life and have some fun in life, even while most of use here are still in the process of improving ourselves.
Peace out ??
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Here is another great link/online pdf/online e-book about it:
http://penissizedebate.com/contents.htm
It's based on evolution and why we humans prefer things we do (male & female).
Also it shows about the anatomy and has really lots of interesting information in it which I highly would recommend you to read about the penis size debate.
It sums up all we had been talking about and discussing lately:
http://penissizedebate.com/contents.htm
It's based on evolution and why we humans prefer things we do (male & female).
Also it shows about the anatomy and has really lots of interesting information in it which I highly would recommend you to read about the penis size debate.
It sums up all we had been talking about and discussing lately:
- dick size in general (flaccid and erect, length and girth)
- females opinion about it + reactions
- physical attractiveness/advantage
- bulges
- sexuality/females orgasms
- vagina anatomy
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It's weird, my flaccid may be 3 inches one hour and damn near 6 inches an hour later. When it's small I don't want it to be noticed, but when it's huge I still try to cover it so I don't scare anybody . It may just be the fear that some girl might see it and think to herself, "Does he think that's big or something, my boyfriend is bigger" or they might think it's a boner and it doesn't get any bigger. 4 things I do to keep a good flaccid hang is staying hydrated, doing lots of kegels (holds, specifically), keeping warm, and most importantly, no underwear.
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As I've said other times, to pick on the Spiderman Movie quote, "with a great penis, comes great responsibility". We're all here to enlarge our dicks, so we might as well learn to embrace the fact that it is big(ger) and get comfortable with its size, both erect and flaccid.
Try to not to worry too much about what other people/women will think about your bulge. Embrace it, be proud of it. If you're artificially enhancing it with a cock ring, or something of the sort, just to make it pop out more, it's one thing. But if you're only leaving it as it is, well, then it is what it is and you'd better feel proud of what you've accomplished.
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Be proud of your bulge
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Many times these days I will go out walking the dog around the park and I've got a large flaccid bulge that can easily be seen, and if I'm approaching a sexy lass or two I won't cover it, and mostly they smile, have a good look and are wearing really tight yoga pants with a big ass in them which I love.
Saw a blonde this week with the most amazing ass, walking with her friend and the dogs ? I walked towards them from behind they saw me and our dogs started sniffing like they do, so we slowed down. I saw her amazing ass and became semi wearing grey joggers and no underwear. As I went she was smiling, giggling to her friend and I gave her a sexy look when crossing the bridge making a slow motion not rushing so I could see her ass and her catch me, which she looked over her shoulder smiling.
I would gladly have ploughed her tight snatch and smashed one off later to it.
The women today in all fairness are more confident about sex, more direct compared to even 10 years ago, that I so wish was the case when I was younger.
This lass must have been about 21 and I'm 37 so near enough father age but what the heck.
How come women live having big asses now anyway?
Saw a blonde this week with the most amazing ass, walking with her friend and the dogs ? I walked towards them from behind they saw me and our dogs started sniffing like they do, so we slowed down. I saw her amazing ass and became semi wearing grey joggers and no underwear. As I went she was smiling, giggling to her friend and I gave her a sexy look when crossing the bridge making a slow motion not rushing so I could see her ass and her catch me, which she looked over her shoulder smiling.
I would gladly have ploughed her tight snatch and smashed one off later to it.
The women today in all fairness are more confident about sex, more direct compared to even 10 years ago, that I so wish was the case when I was younger.
This lass must have been about 21 and I'm 37 so near enough father age but what the heck.
How come women live having big asses now anyway?
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I started liking big asses before anybody! Back in the day when I was loving big ass women men want to skinny no ass women. I hadn’t made nobody wanted to fat ass girls but I can I took advantage of that. Every girlfriend I’ve ever had has the best asking I’ve ever seen. So yeah I was in the big asses when it was not fashionable
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Got another thread that ties into this one The bulge checkout thread - Matters of Size | Male Enhancement, Body Modifications & Peyronies Forums
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I remember when I first started doing the uncle Jim’s wrap I started to notice that everybody was looking at the bulge. An ex girlfriend hooked up with me for lunch and she couldn’t take her eyes off my cock. LOL so yeah having uncle Jim’s rap and your cock going down your leg is going to get a lot of attention!
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