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Many men ask me how do I do it? How can I be secure with my wife being a dancer. It takes a certain person to deal with it. My wife dances on and off occasionally to express herself and dance and yeah, she makes good money doing it.
Some women become strippers for the rush. Others do it for the money. Some do it for both and other reasons. If you read my other Introduction thread, you will know a little more about us.
Women love security but most of all love a secure confident man. When I started dating dancers, I had some insecurities about them dancing. I eventually learned that me being insecure, turned women off, especially dancers. Some women just want to express themselves and dancing is a form. When a women knows she has a man confident and secure about doing what she loves, it is almost always an immediate attraction for them.
My wife has been dancing many years, even before we met years ago. She made a good living doing it. Allot of people have a bad misconception about strippers being dirty, fucking and sucking customers. Most times that is not the case. I have met way more dirty slutty women in the streets, night clubs etc that fuck different men every night because they get drunk or just straight up slutty.
Most the women I hung out with and dated that stripped were completely professional. They never took their Jons outside the club. They pretty much are there to sell you the dream and keep it moving. Yeah a man is gonna rub on her tits, ass etc but at the end of the day she is just there to get your money and give you the dream.
Most the men my wife entertains just want to talk all night (I was the same way) and don't care about lap dances. The women basically get paid to listen.
When my wife started dancing she was allot younger and smaller she was 5'5" & 115 - 120 lbs., she still dances occasionally now but is older and got allot thicker, she is about 150lbs now. So the type of clubs she works in now are upscale gentlemen clubs like Scores, Hustler Club, Playboy Club, etc. unlike when she was younger she worked in urban strip clubs. When she wants to change up, she changes her look and dances in the urban spots. It really keeps our relationship interesting because she changes her look every week and its like being with a new chick very week.
She is really good at living different lifestyles. She can play the burlesque roll, the southern girl or the hood chick. It is quite the acting job.
It is a great job and we get to travel all over and get paid while keeping the relationship exciting.
She is working tonight down south and this is her look this weekend (straight from the locker room)...
This is how she looked when we met in Miami...
Some women become strippers for the rush. Others do it for the money. Some do it for both and other reasons. If you read my other Introduction thread, you will know a little more about us.
Women love security but most of all love a secure confident man. When I started dating dancers, I had some insecurities about them dancing. I eventually learned that me being insecure, turned women off, especially dancers. Some women just want to express themselves and dancing is a form. When a women knows she has a man confident and secure about doing what she loves, it is almost always an immediate attraction for them.
My wife has been dancing many years, even before we met years ago. She made a good living doing it. Allot of people have a bad misconception about strippers being dirty, fucking and sucking customers. Most times that is not the case. I have met way more dirty slutty women in the streets, night clubs etc that fuck different men every night because they get drunk or just straight up slutty.
Most the women I hung out with and dated that stripped were completely professional. They never took their Jons outside the club. They pretty much are there to sell you the dream and keep it moving. Yeah a man is gonna rub on her tits, ass etc but at the end of the day she is just there to get your money and give you the dream.
Most the men my wife entertains just want to talk all night (I was the same way) and don't care about lap dances. The women basically get paid to listen.
When my wife started dancing she was allot younger and smaller she was 5'5" & 115 - 120 lbs., she still dances occasionally now but is older and got allot thicker, she is about 150lbs now. So the type of clubs she works in now are upscale gentlemen clubs like Scores, Hustler Club, Playboy Club, etc. unlike when she was younger she worked in urban strip clubs. When she wants to change up, she changes her look and dances in the urban spots. It really keeps our relationship interesting because she changes her look every week and its like being with a new chick very week.
She is really good at living different lifestyles. She can play the burlesque roll, the southern girl or the hood chick. It is quite the acting job.
It is a great job and we get to travel all over and get paid while keeping the relationship exciting.
She is working tonight down south and this is her look this weekend (straight from the locker room)...
This is how she looked when we met in Miami...
