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Okay so at the moment their is a girl at work who I like but dont want to make a move in her yet, if at all but want to find out if she's interested in me but useing methods that aint so direct like asking her ''do you like me''.
The Workplace:
We both work in a Care home for Disabled Adults and work on the same shifts sometimes.
The Girls attitude in general:
She is a bossy person but hardworking, sweet and caring.
Other details about her:
Shes 32 years old, around 5 ft 6 inches tall and has a nice build with a nice tan and short brown hair.
How I normally react to her:
I NEVER have a conversation with this girl because in the past she always bossed me around so I started ignoreing this and she stopped, so it became a tried and tested method to stop the bossy'ness. I do say goodmorning to her and general chit chat about the job when needed but otherwise I do not talk with her. So she and I dont speak much to eachother. I can be sharp and blunt with her I feel, a defensive reaction IMHO from when she did boss me around.
Her attitude to me:
She is alright with me. She seems to speak to me in a more soft nicer tone than the other male carers in the building and she NEVER tells me what to do anymore. Its sorta like she's nervous around me.....I dunno.
So really what I want to know is how do I tell or find out if she likes me ... I'm rusty at this game and have only had two serious relationships with everyother female encounter being with a whore.
This girl isn't an easy target either as she strikes me as someone who wouldnt be an easy catch.
Any advice, tips, feedback to what I've said would be superb
The Workplace:
We both work in a Care home for Disabled Adults and work on the same shifts sometimes.
The Girls attitude in general:
She is a bossy person but hardworking, sweet and caring.
Other details about her:
Shes 32 years old, around 5 ft 6 inches tall and has a nice build with a nice tan and short brown hair.
How I normally react to her:
I NEVER have a conversation with this girl because in the past she always bossed me around so I started ignoreing this and she stopped, so it became a tried and tested method to stop the bossy'ness. I do say goodmorning to her and general chit chat about the job when needed but otherwise I do not talk with her. So she and I dont speak much to eachother. I can be sharp and blunt with her I feel, a defensive reaction IMHO from when she did boss me around.
Her attitude to me:
She is alright with me. She seems to speak to me in a more soft nicer tone than the other male carers in the building and she NEVER tells me what to do anymore. Its sorta like she's nervous around me.....I dunno.
So really what I want to know is how do I tell or find out if she likes me ... I'm rusty at this game and have only had two serious relationships with everyother female encounter being with a whore.
This girl isn't an easy target either as she strikes me as someone who wouldnt be an easy catch.
Any advice, tips, feedback to what I've said would be superb