Wife told me to stop!

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I've been pulling, hanging, jelqing, streaching, double DLD's, slow squashes, skiing with my dick tied to the ski boat and pulled a semi with my penis and working on pulling a jet liner, into the slot, with my pud.
Yes, I have gained 1.25 inches to 8.25 (the latter paragraph was a joke but I'll go to ANY lenghts to achieve my goal) !
I've been a lurker for more than a year and have used and (greatfully ) used all the knowledge you have all put forth.
My wife has sloooooooowed down with her interest in sex, after the dreaded menapause set in! "your dick is big enough! Why do you keep on torturing yourself?" Sooooooooooo , I investigated and learned a few things!
This can happen at an early age or later in life. Why concentrate on your big penis when you can make HER have MORE interest in you now size? She doesn't care, until you do the following:
Have her agree to take this: Black Cohosh, Red Ginseng , Diamainia leaves ( careful with that stuff, tiny dose) Ginko Biloba and drink 16 oz a day of soy milk. I'm not kidding you guys that will turn her into a tiger! She will think she is a goddess and treat you appropriately. Of course, this is not tested by the FDA but only my experience and what I have passed on to others, with similar results.
Anyway, there are alternatives to torturing your dick to voluminous sizes and impress your own ego! Why not work on her's?
 
I think for most ppl its not for there lover its for themselves so they can feel more comfortabled about thereself.
 
kyocera said:
I think for most ppl its not for there lover its for themselves so they can feel more comfortabled about thereself.
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I agree, my g/f was happy with my penis size before i started Penis Enlargement. Then I was (5.75 x 5) now i am (6.50 x 5.20). Everyday she tells me that I do not need to do Penis Enlargement but i keep tugging and tugging b/c I am not happy with my own dick size. She is happy with it, but I am not. I don't think I will feel comfortable with my own size until I see 7-7.50 x 5.5
 
Same here, my gf says i dont need to do it, its big enough as it is, and hurts her when i put it all way in im 7.5 but i wont be happy until i get over 8" and final goal of 9" and 6" girth, just something ive always drempt of and wish i had. And now i can get it with 3 or so years hard work i aint gonna stop!
 
bulc9 said:
Same here, my gf says i dont need to do it, its big enough as it is, and hurts her when i put it all way in im 7.5 but i wont be happy until i get over 8" and final goal of 9" and 6" girth, just something ive always drempt of and wish i had. And now i can get it with 3 or so years hard work i aint gonna stop!
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This is something i carn't understand and ive heard many say similar things before but if you are causing your partner pain with the size you are now then why would you want to get bigger,making it bigger is only going to cause them more pain,in the long run that could mean they do not want to have sex with you.
 
I see what you are saying. But ive always wanted to have that size, she says its big now, but she sed she'll let me know wen its too much and ill stop, if its that bad for her. But i told her as soon as i started this wat i did. she was ok with it and she knows, im not going to get that big that it kills her.

I did this for myself, to feel better about me, not for anyone else!
 
prince Albert said:
This is something i carn't understand and ive heard many say similar things before but if you are causing your partner pain with the size you are now then why would you want to get bigger,making it bigger is only going to cause them more pain,in the long run that could mean they do not want to have sex with you.
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Ok not to be rude but your being a carebear. Your never going to be happy if you do what people want and never what you want.
 
kyocera said:
Ok not to be rude but your being a carebear. Your never going to be happy if you do what people want and never what you want.
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It would be a strange kind of happiness getting all you want disregarding the wishes of other people - or not?

There are of course several methods (chemical) to enhance the physical response of women. For the sadly rather large amount of potential date rapists here I will not name one of them. Sorry for those in fixed relationships for years.

The posted recipe sounds abit like the infamous Dr. Lin (Dr. of civil engineering) patent remedies. Be assured they are helpful only for people who strongly believe in them. For those people praying is cheaper and at least as effective.

>:(
 
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For those whose mate knows they Penis Enlargement.

The biggest problem with not cooperating with your mates desire for you to stop is the psychological impact that decision makes upon your relationship. What I mean is when she say's "stop, it is big enough" she may be meaning something quite different, something she expects you to pick up on. I think the woman who initially finds penis enlargement exciting may eventually see it as a replacement for herself. You care more about your penis than her. The validity this statement has is as old as penis envy.

Most women are hard-wired for penis envy and this envy instills fear in many of them. Fear of the male penis, I hear you laughing:). Ironically, size has little to do with penis envy. Woman are more envious of the relationship a man has with his penis, a relationship that cannot exist with a woman. This jealousy rears it's ugly head in many ways, one being "Stop Penis Enlargement." Another may be, "It's too big and it hurts."

My experience with having a girlfriend before, during and, unfortunately, after my penis enlargement gave me some insight into these issues. Jen, my ex-girlfriend, told me that my penis was big enough, too big. She complained about pain, complaints that fell on deaf ears. I made a decision to cross that line of envy, I continued to Penis Enlargement. Jen most likely wanted to test our love in a way, she wanted to know who was more important, her or my penis. Perhaps the pain she was feeling from sex was more of a psychological pain. She may have seen my decision to ignore this pain as me wanting to hurt her. I can say that soon after I started hearing and ignoring these comments our sexual relationship changed very much. A steady decline until an inevitable break-up.

Inflicting sexual pain on a female is a very exciting thing to many men. It somehow inflates our egos and establishes some type of sexual supremacy. Eliminate one word in the first line of this paragraph and it takes on a very scary twist, a deeper, more sinister, understanding of it's meaning. Inflicting pain on a female is a very exciting thing to many men. Things come to mind that would be the average plot in a horror movie. Not such a far stretch to think that she sees it ,very much, this way.

I could write volumes on the topic, I am sure we all could.

It is important to read between the lines, especially when the penis is brought up. We really need to weight our desires to be with someone to how much of our lives we want to dedicate to our penis.
 
doublelongdaddy said:
For those whose mate knows they Penis Enlargement.

The biggest problem with not cooperating with your mates desire for you to stop is the psychological impact that decision makes upon your relationship. What I mean is when she say's "stop, it is big enough" she may be meaning something quite different, something she expects you to pick up on. I think the woman who initially finds penis enlargement exciting may eventually see it as a replacement for herself. You care more about your penis than her. The validity this statement has is as old as penis envy.

Most women are hard-wired for penis envy and this envy instills fear in many of them. Fear of the male penis, I hear you laughing:). Ironically, size has little to do with penis envy. Woman are more envious of the relationship a man has with his penis, a relationship that cannot exist with a woman. This jealousy rears it's ugly head in many ways, one being "Stop Penis Enlargement." Another may be, "It's too big and it hurts."

My experience with having a girlfriend before, during and, unfortunately, after my penis enlargement gave me some insight into these issues. Jen, my ex-girlfriend, told me that my penis was big enough, too big. She complained about pain, complaints that fell on deaf ears. I made a decision to cross that line of envy, I continued to Penis Enlargement. Jen most likely wanted to test our love in a way, she wanted to know who was more important, her or my penis. Perhaps the pain she was feeling from sex was more of a psychological pain. She may have seen my decision to ignore this pain as me wanting to hurt her. I can say that soon after I started hearing and ignoring these comments our sexual relationship changed very much. A steady decline until an inevitable break-up.

Inflicting sexual pain on a female is a very exciting thing to many men. It somehow inflates our egos and establishes some type of sexual supremacy. Eliminate one word in the first line of this paragraph and it takes on a very scary twist, a deeper, more sinister, understanding of it's meaning. Inflicting pain on a female is a very exciting thing to many men. Things come to mind that would be the average plot in a horror movie. Not such a far stretch to think that she sees it ,very much, this way.

I could write volumes on the topic, I am sure we all could.

It is important to read between the lines, especially when the penis is brought up. We really need to weight our desires to be with someone to how much of our lives we want to dedicate to our penis.
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Inflicting (sexual) pain to a female is not a bit exiting to me and I think that everybody who finds this exiting is a sick fuck.
BDSM is something completly different btw.
 
DLD I know exactly what you are talking about , and franz instead of takeing it that way, you need to try to understand it.

Altho another thing its made me think about is that your wife/gf w/e maybe telling you that it is big enough is trying to be generous and is trying to make you feel better about your size ( maybe she thinks you are insecure about your size and wants to make you feel more comfortable), I guess you would have to be able to tell if she means it or not. And maybe she wants to see if your willing to disobey her or not. Idk in my opinion I would do what I wanted to do. Altho maybe it may hurt her /disobey her I think the penis is something very important to every man and can have alot to do with how happy a man is in his sexual life.
 
Well, I see it like this. It's attached to you, not her. Your the one in control of it, and should have the freedom to do what you like with it. Make it 20 inches if you really want rofl rofl Don't let anyone tell you what to do with your own shit. ;)
 
kyocera said:
DLD I know exactly what you are talking about , and franz instead of takeing it that way, you need to try to understand it.

Altho another thing its made me think about is that your wife/gf w/e maybe telling you that it is big enough is trying to be generous and is trying to make you feel better about your size ( maybe she thinks you are insecure about your size and wants to make you feel more comfortable), I guess you would have to be able to tell if she means it or not. And maybe she wants to see if your willing to disobey her or not. Idk in my opinion I would do what I wanted to do. Altho maybe it may hurt her /disobey her I think the penis is something very important to every man and can have alot to do with how happy a man is in his sexual life.
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I agree with size being complimented to protect feelings but I am talking more about size in relation to Penis Enlargement. My post was meant to address the relationships where the females knows about the Penis Enlargement or notices more cock due to Penis Enlargement (known or unknown).
 
Camel said:
Well, I see it like this. It's attached to you, not her. Your the one in control of it, and should have the freedom to do what you like with it. Make it 20 inches if you really want rofl rofl Don't let anyone tell you what to do with your own shit. ;)
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I also agree with this statement, but we need to be able to deal with the consequences of this. We have the right to do with our bodies and mind as we please, as long as it does not hurt others. But we also need to realize that other people have this same right, meaning if a girl is not in agreement with your ever increasing size, she has the right to leave (or suck it:)), then leave.
 
franz said:
Inflicting (sexual) pain to a female is not a bit exiting to me and I think that everybody who finds this exiting is a sick fuck.
BDSM is something completly different btw.
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Of course it is sick, that was the point of that thought.
 
kyocera said:
DLD I know exactly what you are talking about , and franz instead of takeing it that way, you need to try to understand it.
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It is not that I am not able to understand, it is that such statements are put on very thin ice in my opinion and really - the first replies show that this is true. Or not?

Reading here gives me the creeps sometimes but maybe it is just because I don´t understand the subtelities of the american language.
 
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Ever consider it might actually physically hurt her? I know the reasons listed by DLD and others are true in many cases, but you really could be hurting her physically from being too big for her to handle and that's not something most women would want. Wanting to further make it larger than a size that hurts would make her want you to stop. If you can't fit it all in, or it feels tight around you, there's no reason to Penis Enlargement in my opinion... doing so would only hurt your woman.

For me, the best size is the one that fits the woman. Although, I wonder how it will fit already. . .
 
franz said:
It is not that I am not able to understand, it is that such statements are put on very thin ice in my opinion and really - the first replies show that this is true. Or not?
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The comparison of pain and physical pain does skate on very thin ice. The [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] Forums addresses sexuality in a brutally honest way, we do not sugar coat nor do we pretend.

Reading here gives me the creeps sometimes but maybe it is just because I don´t understand the subtelities of the american language.
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When discussing an infliction of unwanted pain, it should feel creepy as it is creepy. This is not a statement regarding S&M, BDSM, etc. as these are sexual acts where parties are in consent.
 
kyocera said:
Ok not to be rude but your being a carebear. Your never going to be happy if you do what people want and never what you want.
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No its called being realistic,bulc said he carn't put all 7.5 inches in without hurting his g/f,why get bigger if you are physically hurting your partner? unless you get off on that sort of thing.

For a relationship to work it needs give and take from both partners.
 
doublelongdaddy said:
I also agree with this statement, but we need to be able to deal with the consequences of this. We have the right to do with our bodies and mind as we please, as long as it does not hurt others. But we also need to realize that other people have this same right, meaning if a girl is not in agreement with your ever increasing size, she has the right to leave (or suck it:)), then leave.
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So true DLD, good point. I like the idea of the suck then leave, more than just leaving he herofl ;)
 
Back up my statement by asking your wife/girlfriend...when you kiss a woman she feels it in her little snatch. And I'm talking nice, slow tongue kissing.

When you're having trouble with pain caused by size, sure it's a possibility but a situational possibility, then you need to spend more time on kissing her. Amazing how we men forget/overlook just how much women enjoy bigtime make-out sessions. An older woman loves it just as much as an 18 year old.

Kissing is the single biggest pleasure for a woman when it comes to foreplay. In fact, if you were going to do only one thing that precluded intercourse it should be kissing on the level that you did in friggin high school...remember that ordeal?

Next time you're getting intimate, slow down and just kiss her for about 45 min, nothing else, and notice just how wet she is.

As complex as we perceive women to be they really are very simple, both physically and emotionally.

BTW, franz, would like to go out sometime? rofl
 
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