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So I've been trying to find a dick pic of the guy I would like to model my junk after. A goal per say, and I've seen a couple that looked girthy (top view), but when they put a measuring tape against it, it was only 5 or 5.25 inches in girth. Now I'm at that level but I sure as hell don't look as girthy as they do from the top view. So my girth is less girthy going left to right, so I assume my girth is bigger than those pics going up and down since we're measuring the same size.

So question. What do women prefer most? The obvious answer would be girth that is proportionate all the way around, but I'm not working with that, but if they had to choose between girth in the Z-direction (up and down) vs in the Y-direction (side to side). Which one do you think would be more pleasurable?
 
BigBeardBig;686159 said:
Women prefer most 10x7 dick bro
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Haha, that's the easy answer. They like em big!

My wife couldn't currently handle a 7 inch girth (I say current cause we know this is a moving target). She can barely handle 6.25 without cringing.
 
I think the penis comes secondary to the original attraction. The same thing applies to men and I will give a personal example; I have always liked women with a certain body type. My wife was very tall, tight and average breasts, tiny waste and a huge ass. Now I believed this is all I could ever be attracted to. After we split up I started to date a girl that was the opposite of my wife in many ways but since I loved her those things I was not originally into eventually became a turn on.

But to directly answer you question, I think most woman prefer a penis that is around 7 x 5 and this comes from a study that LIGHTNING conducted with many strippers. A similar poll was online in a stripper forum and they also came up with a similar number. Symmetry is not always a thing of beauty. I think having a unique look is actually a good thing.
 
doublelongdaddy;686168 said:
I think most woman prefer a penis that is around 7 x 5 and this comes from a study that LIGHTNING conducted with many strippers.
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Doing the researchg must have been alot of fun and hard work :)
 
BigBeardBig;686173 said:
Doing the researchg must have been alot of fun and hard work :)
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Yes, he had a lot of fun and the times I was with him it was amazing to see so many beautiful strippers in South Beech.
 
MoreThanLuck;686162 said:
Haha, that's the easy answer. They like em big!

My wife couldn't currently handle a 7 inch girth (I say current cause we know this is a moving target). She can barely handle 6.25 without cringing.
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is 6.25 your current girth?

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My diameter is 2 inches but I feel I am the proportion you described as side to side
 
lightlyfried;686561 said:
is 6.25 your current girth?

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My diameter is 2 inches but I feel I am the proportion you described as side to side
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I wish brother! We use dildos more often then not. Thats how I know.
 
That's how you know? Bra :/. I know everything being thousands of years technically advanced. Your woman doesn't dildo because of the hardness, her pussay doesn't have enough time to take the shape of the it so it hurts her.

When torqued, my cc is total diamond the Cs too but not as much. This latter part can meet the poosey halfway when both organs rub, that's why they like the cs/glans because it behaves in a more friendly manner.
 
templnite;686578 said:
That's how you know? Bra :/. I know everything being thousands of years technically advanced. Your woman doesn't dildo because of the hardness, her pussay doesn't have enough time to take the shape of the it so it hurts her.

When torqued, my cc is total diamond the Cs too but not as much. This latter part can meet the poosey halfway when both organs rub, that's why they like the cs/glans because it behaves in a more friendly manner.
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Some dildos represent the same firmness of an erect cock.
 
I let her pick the one she wanted. The one she picked was called a cyberskin or whatever. It felt really soft and supple from the outside (not like rubber), it had some decent give, and is harder as you compress. I suspect that a real penis that size may do just as much damage. Since I don't have a real one to compare with, its a good alternative. Besides, we're talking about dimensions here. Hardness/softness distorts the dimensions and her capability to determine if its a go or no go, I get it, but its the best usefull measuremen . That's how I also determined what the longest she can handle. I'm not interested in whatever is comfortable or what she'd like all the time. I'm only interested in those dimensions so that I know I've surpassed her physical limit (if only temporarily in the girth department). Length on the other hand has been consistently the same. 7.25
 
MoreThanLuck;686650 said:
I let her pick the one she wanted. The one she picked was called a cyberskin or whatever. It felt really soft and supple from the outside (not like rubber), it had some decent give, and is harder as you compress. I suspect that a real penis that size may do just as much damage. Since I don't have a real one to compare with, its a good alternative. Besides, we're talking about dimensions here. Hardness/softness distorts the dimensions and her capability to determine if its a go or no go, I get it, but its the best usefull measuremen . That's how I also determined what the longest she can handle. I'm not interested in whatever is comfortable or what she'd like all the time. I'm only interested in those dimensions so that I know I've surpassed her physical limit (if only temporarily in the girth department). Length on the other hand has been consistently the same. 7.25
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so her girth limit is 6.25? And I don't really think when people say "oh dildos are denser its not the same!" - well in this day and age those things are pretty fricking realistic to and erect cock! I ordered a cock pump sleeve the other day and they accidentally sent a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]flesh light[/words] with it (great I know) and I was shocked at how real it felt. I think the more expensive ones would feel scarily real.
 
When somebody says that you dont think huh, trying to stealth diss now are we? Bra I invented stealth dissing :blush: Besides I said the dill was just as dense as the cc so not only didn't you think you also didn't read RofLamaolulz
 
templnite;686656 said:
When somebody says that you dont think huh, trying to stealth diss now are we? Bra I invented stealth dissing :blush: Besides I said the dill was just as dense as the cc so not only didn't you think you also didn't read RofLamaolulz
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No other people have said it before, look if you have a problem with me, mail me. But I haven't tried to be vindictive to you in anyway, me and I imagine others feel as though with have to pussyfoot around you on the forum. I feel a negative vibe on the forum and I feel if i'm going to get attacked and slandered every post I make I will take my self else where. I'm here on this forum because I like it but I don't need to get shit from you on every post.
 
You didn't get the jist of my first post here man. You though I was talking about rigidity but it was about contouring. Just because I'm enlightening you is not reason to get mad right bra? Even on a different thread you declare how you didn't understand my statement which everyone else did. Just get to know me bra I'm not that bad, I just have that acerbic sense of humor
 
lightlyfried;686654 said:
so her girth limit is 6.25? And I don't really think when people say "oh dildos are denser its not the same!" - well in this day and age those things are pretty fricking realistic to and erect cock! I ordered a cock pump sleeve the other day and they accidentally sent a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]flesh light[/words] with it (great I know) and I was shocked at how real it felt. I think the more expensive ones would feel scarily real.
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Well this is subjective. 6.25 is the limit at which it becomes more painful then pleasurable. Can she fit more? Probably, but I its already too painful for her, but that's not the point. The point is to garner a reference to work with. Everyone is going for the 8x6 which is suppose to take care of 99% of women. I only need to worry about 1 woman, so my measurements turned out to be pretty close to that (lower in one dimension and slightly higher in the other).
 
templnite;686578 said:
That's how you know? Bra :/. I know everything being thousands of years technically advanced. Your woman doesn't dildo because of the hardness, her pussay doesn't have enough time to take the shape of the it so it hurts her.

When torqued, my cc is total diamond the Cs too but not as much. This latter part can meet the poosey halfway when both organs rub, that's why they like the cs/glans because it behaves in a more friendly manner.
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Makes sense, except that it's not like I'm jamming that thing in there immediately. There is a long period of time where she's getting use to it during every interaction. Then it becomes somewhat pleasurable but still painful. I need a drawing board to show the pleasure vs pain curve. 😁 . Anyways. I'm 100% positive she enjoys a real one vs the fake one because (1) mentally she knows its fake, (2) it doesn't have the same heat carrying/generating capacity as a real one, (3) it doesn't get harder in response to stimulus, ect. In the end, a real one will always win at that size, but in the meantine its a close 2nd.
 
MoreThanLuck;686692 said:
Well this is subjective. 6.25 is the limit at which it becomes more painful then pleasurable. Can she fit more? Probably, but I its already too painful for her, but that's not the point. The point is to garner a reference to work with. Everyone is going for the 8x6 which is suppose to take care of 99% of women. I only need to worry about 1 woman, so my measurements turned out to be pretty close to that (lower in one dimension and slightly higher in the other).
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I don't think 8 inch is beyond what you need i'd say ideal is more 7 but I don't know for girth.
 
doublelongdaddy;686168 said:
But to directly answer you question, I think most woman prefer a penis that is around 7 x 5 and this comes from a study that LIGHTNING conducted with many strippers. A similar poll was online in a stripper forum and they also came up with a similar number. Symmetry is not always a thing of beauty. I think having a unique look is actually a good thing.
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How exactly did he go about that? How did a initiate the conversation for that topic?
And when 7x5 are ideal or most wanted and I want to be a bit more girthy, then going for 7x5.5-6 would be a good idea?
 
Munto;686745 said:
How exactly did he go about that? How did a initiate the conversation for that topic?
And when 7x5 are ideal or most wanted and I want to be a bit more girthy, then going for 7x5.5-6 would be a good idea?
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Do it for yourself not other people
 
Munto;686745 said:
How exactly did he go about that? How did a initiate the conversation for that topic?
And when 7x5 are ideal or most wanted and I want to be a bit more girthy, then going for 7x5.5-6 would be a good idea?
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When he was living in Miami he did a lot of promo work with various strip bars, mainly Kind of Diamonds. He simply got all the strippers together at KOD and did an interview. He repeated the same thing with various strip bars around the area. I would say 70% were black women maybe 10% white and 10% Spanish. With all the data he crunched these results.
 
doublelongdaddy;688139 said:
When he was living in Miami he did a lot of promo work with various strip bars, mainly Kind of Diamonds. He simply got all the strippers together at KOD and did an interview. He repeated the same thing with various strip bars around the area. I would say 70% were black women maybe 10% white and 10% Spanish. With all the data he crunched these results.
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Sounds like fun :)
 
doublelongdaddy;688139 said:
When he was living in Miami he did a lot of promo work with various strip bars, mainly Kind of Diamonds. He simply got all the strippers together at KOD and did an interview. He repeated the same thing with various strip bars around the area. I would say 70% were black women maybe 10% white and 10% Spanish. With all the data he crunched these results.
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Awesome that he did that!
 
Nolove;688354 said:
I actually read a study with a bunch of women picking dildos(3d printing) that they would choose for the long term. They found the average size was 6.3 x 4.8. And again, that the size women chose for long term. For one nighters they chose the thicker objects

Study: Men Are from Mars: Women Select the Ideal (3D Printed) Penis | 3DPrint.com
PLOS ONE: Women's Preferences for Penis Size: A New Research Method Using Selection among 3D Models
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I read that one to, was pretty interesting.
Now I bet they would just go with a thicker penis in a long-term relationship as well, if they "had too."
 
Nolove;688354 said:
I actually read a study with a bunch of women picking dildos(3d printing) that they would choose for the long term. They found the average size was 6.3 x 4.8. And again, that the size women chose for long term. For one nighters they chose the thicker objects

Study: Men Are from Mars: Women Select the Ideal (3D Printed) Penis | 3DPrint.com
PLOS ONE: Women's Preferences for Penis Size: A New Research Method Using Selection among 3D Models
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Yup saw this one too. Us men need to face a reality that most women do not want anything close to what we want :)
 
doublelongdaddy;688379 said:
Yup saw this one too. Us men need to face a reality that most women do not want anything close to what we want :)
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But if we get the desired size our hearts want, the women would go crazy for it.
 
huge-girth;759344 said:
But if we get the desired size our hearts want, the women would go crazy for it.
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Do it for yourself and not a woman. A woman can barely make there mind up about what to wear nevermond how big the penis should be. And huge size should not make a woman scared, their vaginas can pop out a baby, I think they can handle a huge cock.
 
doublelongdaddy;759410 said:
Do it for yourself and not a woman. A woman can barely make there mind up about what to wear nevermond how big the penis should be. And huge size should not make a woman scared, their vaginas can pop out a baby, I think they can handle a huge cock.
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The older the woman, the looser the vaginal
 
MoreThanLuck;686154 said:
So I've been trying to find a dick pic of the guy I would like to model my junk after. A goal per say, and I've seen a couple that looked girthy (top view), but when they put a measuring tape against it, it was only 5 or 5.25 inches in girth. Now I'm at that level but I sure as hell don't look as girthy as they do from the top view. So my girth is less girthy going left to right, so I assume my girth is bigger than those pics going up and down since we're measuring the same size.

So question. What do women prefer most? The obvious answer would be girth that is proportionate all the way around, but I'm not working with that, but if they had to choose between girth in the Z-direction (up and down) vs in the Y-direction (side to side). Which one do you think would be more pleasurable?
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Impossible to give an answer to this. Shouldn't it be possible to stimulate the clitoris with a fat cock? In that case you would like to have a lot of depth compared to width.

Width is about 25 larger compared to depth. Which also says that the penis is non-circular, more of an ellipse.

Your observation that dicks look much bigger on pictures happened to me too. Plus whenever I take a picture of my penis everything looks smaller than observed by the naked eye. I think the smartphone camera doesn't give the same impression because of the single lense compared to a pair of eyes with another focal length.
 
Chaoskampf;759589 said:
Impossible to give an answer to this. Shouldn't it be possible to stimulate the clitoris with a fat cock? In that case you would like to have a lot of depth compared to width.

Width is about 25 larger compared to depth. Which also says that the penis is non-circular, more of an ellipse.

Your observation that dicks look much bigger on pictures happened to me too. Plus whenever I take a picture of my penis everything looks smaller than observed by the naked eye. I think the smartphone camera doesn't give the same impression because of the single lense compared to a pair of eyes with another focal length.
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Good observation. It is like looking at your penis in 2 dimensions when taking a picture while in 3 dimensions we see more of an object. Another thing I do that helps with confidence is finding a phallic shaped object that is my erect size. Seeing the size off of your body is very different than on. You realize just how big you are when you see an object similar.
 
doublelongdaddy;759780 said:
Good observation. It is like looking at your penis in 2 dimensions when taking a picture while in 3 dimensions we see more of an object. Another thing I do that helps with confidence is finding a phallic shaped object that is my erect size. Seeing the size off of your body is very different than on. You realize just how big you are when you see an object similar.
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Good idea. As a result I will buy one of the Shane Diesel Dildos. Good for comparison in my case.
 
Chaoskampf;759804 said:
Good idea. As a result I will buy one of the Shane Diesel Dildos. Good for comparison in my case.
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But make sure the Shane dildo is really his size (7.5 x 7) dildo producers tend to stretch the truth :)
 
doublelongdaddy;759945 said:
But make sure the Shane dildo is really his size (7.5 x 7) dildo producers tend to stretch the truth :)
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Yeah that is weird. I saw some reviews about the dildo and the measurements are between 10.5 and 7.5. I made a measurement based upon video material and I was quite surprised because I found him to be 9.5" in length.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;759955 said:
Mike believes Shane's length to be in the 7.5" range, to me it looks closer to 8.50" but you know how adult entertainment is...
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My statement was wrong for sure. I just looked it up in my documents.

I got him on video when he is measured with a measuring tape. Something around 8.5" but NBPEL! Dildo is 10" long but the shaft starts at 1" approximately.

Also have pictures with him next to Jack Napier. Jack is slightly longer and has comparable girth.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;759955 said:
Mike believes Shane's length to be in the 7.5" range, to me it looks closer to 8.50" but you know how adult entertainment is...
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I refuse to agree that shane diesel is 8.50 in length. He does advance missionary balls deep penetration with so much ease and I have never seen any girl that opted out of doing that position with shane diesel. There is no way he is 8.50 in length.
 
huge-girth;760019 said:
I refuse to agree that shane diesel is 8.50 in length. He does advance missionary balls deep penetration with so much ease and I have never seen any girl that opted out of doing that position with shane diesel. There is no way he is 8.50 in length.
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I suppose this has been discussed several times on the forum. As a result I don't want to argue with you and I believe that you or DLD has done more research on this than I did.

I know there has been a change of picture policy, meaning we are not allowed to upload adult entertainment pictures that easily. Where are the threads for 'how long is his cock' where you can actually still post pictures?
 
Chaoskampf;760045 said:
I suppose this has been discussed several times on the forum. As a result I don't want to argue with you and I believe that you or DLD has done more research on this than I did.

I know there has been a change of picture policy, meaning we are not allowed to upload adult entertainment pictures that easily. Where are the threads for 'how long is his cock' where you can actually still post pictures?
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http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/...-big-is-his-cock-thread-post-it-here-135.html
 
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