What really grinds your gears?

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cladre60

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Let's discuss all those things that really "grind your gears" and drive you batshit insane.

I'll start.

The guy at work who insists on singing along to the radio to every song (he hums when he doesn't know the words) at least 1 full octave higher than the original song. Imagine if you will hearing the latest female pop song, which is already in a high pitch, being sung higher. If the original song is in a deeper male voice he'll go 2 octaves higher.

I didn't know Michael Jackson songs could be sung at such a high pitch until the other day.

Fortunately he's in tune but I swear it's approaching dog whistle frequencies.


What grinds your gears?
 
for me , it would have to be the Mother inlaw, she lives with me, she has asked my spouse 2 nights in a row while I was in the bathroom doing my routine. why I was taking so long, but that is not all, she has a cat she calls ever 2 seconds, the cat looks at her like stfu old lady and leave me the hell alone, she has a bad habit of taking her walking cain and smacking it on the floor when she doesnt get her way. And oh yes how can I forget she turns into a complete bitch when she does not take her zoloft woman is a pain in my ass. my spouse has 4 brothers and none of them do a damn thing,
 
bandit2010;728358 said:
for me , it would have to be the Mother inlaw, she lives with me, she has asked my spouse 2 nights in a row while I was in the bathroom doing my routine. why I was taking so long, but that is not all, she has a cat she calls ever 2 seconds, the cat looks at her like stfu old lady and leave me the hell alone, she has a bad habit of taking her walking cain and smacking it on the floor when she doesnt get her way. And oh yes how can I forget she turns into a complete bitch when she does not take her zoloft woman is a pain in my ass. my spouse has 4 brothers and none of them do a damn thing,
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"Mom he's taking a bath! Can the man bathe in peace?"

I've seen some people get real nasty when they're off their meds. My wife's grandmother, before she passed, was on meds for her bipolar disorder. Two days before the funeral for her one son in law she told his son that he was a disgrace to his father and the family because he had some issues with drugs in the past. The guy was trying to bury his father after a long and painful illness and grandma is telling him he's a piece of shit. She was nasty as hell to pretty much everyone while smiling at them for 2 days before it was discovered she hadn't taken her meds in a few days.

She knew exactly what she was saying too, she just didn't care. She gave a few half ass aplolgies that she didn't mean at all the day of the funeral because her meds were kicking in. She could be a really nice woman when she wanted to but she never learned to control her mouth. She admitted many times over the years that it was her inability to shut up when she should that cost her the love of her husband and drove him away. She told anyone that would listen how she learned the hard way that speaking your mind isn't always worth it and can cost you the things you love.

Good luck with her. I've seen some of your other posts about her. Your woman should love you unconditionally until the end of time for having to live with that. Shows how much you care about her.
 
cladre60;728363 said:
"Mom he's taking a bath! Can the man bathe in peace?"

I've seen some people get real nasty when they're off their meds. My wife's grandmother, before she passed, was on meds for her bipolar disorder. Two days before the funeral for her one son in law she told his son that he was a disgrace to his father and the family because he had some issues with drugs in the past. The guy was trying to bury his father after a long and painful illness and grandma is telling him he's a piece of shit. She was nasty as hell to pretty much everyone while smiling at them for 2 days before it was discovered she hadn't taken her meds in a few days.

Oh my woman does love me, yeah we have our days, her mom was in the hospital for 5 days, it was like me and my spouse had just got together, I stared to get out the tub, walk to the bath room door, and go I AM TAKING SO LONG BECAUSE I AM PUMPING MY DICK, I was able to hear her she she asked lol.

She knew exactly what she was saying too, she just didn't care. She gave a few half ass aplolgies that she didn't mean at all the day of the funeral because her meds were kicking in. She could be a really nice woman when she wanted to but she never learned to control her mouth. She admitted many times over the years that it was her inability to shut up when she should that cost her the love of her husband and drove him away. She told anyone that would listen how she learned the hard way that speaking your mind isn't always worth it and can cost you the things you love.

Good luck with her. I've seen some of your other posts about her. Your woman should love you unconditionally until the end of time for having to live with that. Shows how much you care about her.
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Yeah I started to walk out and go I am pumping my dick if you must know, me and my spouse get along great it is her mom that constantly starts the bull shit. woman is nuts I tell you,
 
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bandit2010;728364 said:
Yeah I started to walk out and go I am pumping my dick if you must know, me and my spouse get along great it is her mom that constantly starts the bull shit. woman is nuts I tell you,
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I'd go nuts.

My one sister in law and 2 of her kids lived with us for a month or so until there was a huge falling out between the 2 of them. Not our fault you became homeless because you and your husband didn't want to work.

I lived with my one sister and her roommate for a year and a half and that sucked after a while. Every time I cooked I heard complaints because I was cooking meat and she's a vegetarian. She's also extremely passive-aggressive, always needs to be the center of attention, and is always right.

I started eating at the bar 4 nights a week and fast food the other 3 so I didn't have to hear the complaints. I also started living in my room or at the bar when I wasn't at work so I could avoid the BS of things like "the bleach you used in the washer ruined my shirt." Still trying to figure that out cause I did 2 loads of laundry after that and the other girl did 2 as well and our clothes were fine. It was magic bleach that only worked every 5 washes.....
 
cladre60;728368 said:
I'd go nuts.

My one sister in law and 2 of her kids lived with us for a month or so until there was a huge falling out between the 2 of them. Not our fault you became homeless because you and your husband didn't want to work.

I lived with my one sister and her roommate for a year and a half and that sucked after a while. Every time I cooked I heard complaints because I was cooking meat and she's a vegetarian. She's also extremely passive-aggressive, always needs to be the center of attention, and is always right.

I started eating at the bar 4 nights a week and fast food the other 3 so I didn't have to hear the complaints. I also started living in my room or at the bar when I wasn't at work so I could avoid the BS of things like "the bleach you used in the washer ruined my shirt." Still trying to figure that out cause I did 2 loads of laundry after that and the other girl did 2 as well and our clothes were fine. It was magic bleach that only worked every 5 washes.....
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lol, I do all the cooking, wash my own clothes, and they both love my cooking but half the time they wanna eat fast food. yeah shes nuts, blames the way the cat acts on me.
 
what grinds my gears? someone stealing Peter Griffin's news segment, lol (jk)

It takes too much energy to get worked-up over trivial stuff...I kinda just move-along and find space where it's no longer an issue. A wise man once said, 'if someone angers you, they own you'. I don't like to give anyone the power over how I feel/think...ooops, I think I just went 'too real' on a light hearted post, my bad :)
 
bandit2010;728371 said:
lol, I do all the cooking, wash my own clothes, and they both love my cooking but half the time they wanna eat fast food. yeah shes nuts, blames the way the cat acts on me.
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You should tell her cats display the traits of their owners and see how that goes lol
 
Big Schwanz Acht;728376 said:
what grinds my gears? someone stealing Peter Griffin's news segment, lol (jk)

It takes too much energy to get worked-up over trivial stuff...I kinda just move-along and find space where it's no longer an issue. A wise man once said, 'if someone angers you, they own you'. I don't like to give anyone the power over how I feel/think...ooops, I think I just went 'too real' on a light hearted post, my bad :)
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It really grinds my gears when people tell me.... lol

I didn't even think about Peter's news segment until after I hit "submit."

I agree and I've cut a lot of people out of my life because of their BS. Some things you just can't get away from and have to learn to deal with like his mother in law.

Generally I avoid BS and try to be stress free. Key word - try. It doesn't always happen but I do my best.
 
doublelongdaddy;728421 said:
A lack of oil
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Lack of lubrication ruins everything.

I miss Clarkson et al Top Gear :( Chris Evans was nothing but a giant annoying bitch. First episode he's jumping up and down screaming like a spoiled brat "we got the Stig! We got the Stig!"

Fucking worthless tool bag.

At least LeBlanc can act mature about it. He's trying to give an entertaining show where Evans was all about showing off.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;728376 said:
what grinds my gears? someone stealing Peter Griffin's news segment, lol (jk)

It takes too much energy to get worked-up over trivial stuff...I kinda just move-along and find space where it's no longer an issue. A wise man once said, 'if someone angers you, they own you'. I don't like to give anyone the power over how I feel/think...ooops, I think I just went 'too real' on a light hearted post, my bad :)
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yep giving people the power over how i feel is a fucking bad mistake....2 Incredibly useless people giving advice because they believe i need it :O:)
 
LONGERDICK7+;728474 said:
yep giving people the power over how i feel is a fucking bad mistake....2 Incredibly useless people giving advice because they believe i need it :O:)
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Sounds like you have annoying inlaws.
 
cladre60;728463 said:
Lack of lubrication ruins everything.

I miss Clarkson et al Top Gear :( Chris Evans was nothing but a giant annoying bitch. First episode he's jumping up and down screaming like a spoiled brat "we got the Stig! We got the Stig!"

Fucking worthless tool bag.

At least LeBlanc can act mature about it. He's trying to give an entertaining show where Evans was all about showing off.
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sad but true...the old gang have a new show and I believe it's aired through Amazon somehow
 
I've got another that grinds my gears.... work.

We have a lazy guy at work. His work has a direct effect on everyone after him.

All week he's been slacking off and he leaves after his 8 hours are up. Meanwhile everyone on the shifts after him has to pick up the slack and we're all working twice as hard. Many of us are racking up OT when we'd rather be off work.

The part that throws sand in the gears is management is fully aware of the problem. They should tell him they don't care that he's been here 23 years as he's now costing the company more money than he's worth.

They won't do a thing about it. That is seizing up my transmission.

And I'm not allowed to kill him and hide the body.
 
doublelongdaddy;728493 said:
Long Session?
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lol, no. Clared was bitchin' about a lazy co-worker and it reminded me of that movie. If I was planning a 'long session', I'd have to start slow/soft with a Twisty's vid and probably have to amp-it-up toward the end with a Monster Dildo flick, lol
 
cladre60;728895 said:
Living in New England you really need that transfer case when it starts snowing!
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Yeah, this is my beast that grinds my gears :)

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doublelongdaddy;729059 said:
I am leaning on that Prius :)
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I hope it's at least your prius or you know who owns it. I'd be furious if I came outside and saw that.

When I used to ride a motorcycle I almost came to blows with people a few times who thought it was a public seat. One place I worked I had to park 50 fret away from the smoking area in the parking lot, more than 20 feet from the nearest car, because people thought it was okay to sit on it. I had to be physically separated from a coworker when I shoved him and was ready to swing. He said "I'll sit where I want" with an attitude and that's what set me off.

I was much younger and didn't care about consequences. If I could go back I would've just swung instead of shoving him first. Had he of made that mistake with someone's Harley he would've embed up in the hospital. I would have actually taught him a life lesson that didn't involve broken bones, just bruises lol.
 
doublelongdaddy;729112 said:
joking my Brother!
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Hey you never know lol.


LONGERDICK7+;729126 said:
mmm yeah if i had a bike like yours would be fucking annoying having people seating on it lol
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I was bowling one night and went outside to smoke. A mother was walking out to her car with her son and his friend, kids were probably 9-10 years old. The one goes running over and says "well I found my ride home!" as his friend is saying "don't do it!" Mom said nothing.

As soon as he grabbed one of the bars and started to put his foot on the peg I burst out with "GET OFF MY MOTORCYCLE!" I was about 15 feet away.

I think the kid shit himself.

Mom gave me a really nasty look. The friend started laughing and said "I told you not to! You don't touch another man's bike without permission! EVER!"

I just smiled cause it was hilarious watching the reaction from getting caught. Last thing I needed was walking outside to find my less than 1 year old bike on its side cause some parent failed to control their child.
 
LONGERDICK7+;729319 said:
lol but yeah some cars are really ugly wheter is the design,paintjobs,upholstery. etc
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My car is pretty on the outside and needs a face lift on the inside :)
 
Big Schwanz Acht said:
what grinds my gears? someone stealing Peter Griffin's news segment, LOL (jk)

It takes too much energy to get worked-up over trivial stuff...I kinda just move-along and find space where it's no longer an issue. A wise man once said, 'if someone angers you, they own you'. I don't like to give anyone the power over how I feel/think...ooops, I think I just went 'too real' on a light hearted post, my bad :)
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Lots of people are fucking shitty,they have a this feeling they own the world, pretty deep inside they're so disgusting n low live people
 
cladre60 said:
Hey you never know LOL.




I was bowling one night and went outside to smoke. A mother was walking out to her car with her son and his friend, kids were probably 9-10 years old. The one goes running over and says "well I found my ride home!" as his friend is saying "don't do it!" Mom said nothing.

As soon as he grabbed one of the bars and started to put his foot on the peg I burst out with "GET OFF MY MOTORCYCLE!" I was about 15 feet away.

I think the kid shit himself.

Mom gave me a really nasty look. The friend started laughing and said "I told you not to! You don't touch another man's bike without permission! EVER!"

I just smiled cause it was hilarious watching the reaction from getting caught. Last thing I needed was walking outside to find my less than 1 year old bike on its side cause some parent failed to control their child.
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Unfortunately that's true if the kid had done that they'd fled the scene in no time.
 
A motherfucker zero manners dumbfuck he owns a shitty motorcycle that hardly runs, the thing is that he often crosses part of the driveway to start his piece of junk "motorcycle"
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Getbiglonger7 said:
A motherfucker zero manners dumbfuck he owns a shitty motorcycle that hardly runs, the thing is that he often crosses part of the driveway to start his piece of junk "motorcycle"
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Getbiglonger7 said:
Fucking guy why we are so 'uneducated"LOL damn
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nothing really upsets me. Are used to get frustrated and upset with everything in my life sucked. But today I have patience and long-suffering so I never really get upset or frustrated. The only thing that pisses me off or fucking cell phones. They’re just a pain in the ass and every day in someway they piss me off?

There are also two things that people can do to me that I will get very pissed off with the first thing is hanging up the phone on me. If you hang the phone up on me I will show up at your door and curb stomp your ass. The other thing is paper towels if they’re not bounty paper towels throw them in the trash! Only bounty paper towels! So outside of cell phones and paper towels I’m good LOL
 
Yep people is like mm m ok uuumh yep ok bye,n the sentence is not even finished, yep lots of people act that way why?well they are so...

And yep something quite strange is when people wipe their ass n leave the stained toilet paper in the trashcan instead of dropping it in the ? n flush it i hate that too..
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What gets my gears going is when someone ignores you when talking to them, really fucks me off but I have to deal with it, because its not about me. They could be in a bad place, whatever it is, can't take it personally, but easier said than done.
 
REDZULU2003 said:
What gets my gears going is when someone ignores you when talking to them, really fucks me off but I have to deal with it, because its not about me. They could be in a bad place, whatever it is, can't take it personally, but easier said than done.
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You’re so right Red! I used to project things all the time and most of the time I was off base. It’s so good that you understand it’s not all about you and when you realize that you’re doing God’s work! So many people are suffering and we have a great advantage to help them. Through the brotherhood I think we’ve all learned to become upstanding and righteous men. I’m very proud of you my brother
 
Getbiglonger7 said:
Yep people is like mm m ok uuumh yep ok bye,n the sentence is not even finished, yep lots of people act that way why?well they are so...

And yep something quite strange is when people wipe their ass n leave the stained toilet paper in the trashcan instead of dropping it in the ? n flush it i hate that too..
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No I don’t mean that what I mean is when they hang up the phone during an argument. That’s the one thing that will get me into my car and drive to that person’s house and smack him upside the fucking head for hanging up the phone on me. LOL


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REDZULU2003 said:
What gets my gears going is when someone ignores you when talking to them, really fucks me off but I have to deal with it, because its not about me. They could be in a bad place, whatever it is, can't take it personally, but easier said than done.
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Yep lotta fools are rude n unkind they hate their lives they don't have what they want etc frustration could be a good reason but fuck them when someone is asking you a question at least they should hold their tantrums for a while..
 
DLD said:
No I don’t mean that what I mean is when they hang up the phone during an argument. That’s the one thing that will get me into my car and drive to that person’s house and smack him upside the fucking head for hanging up the phone on me. LOL


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Arguing can be hard for some people some people is just annoying n full of shit n that's what they look for starting an argument..
 
Getbiglonger7 said:
Yep lotta fools are rude n unkind they hate their lives they don't have what they want etc frustration could be a good reason but fuck them when someone is asking you a question at least they should hold their tantrums for a while..
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so many people hate themselves and it’s so sad. What’s most important is that we pray for these people that they can come to a place where they can start to love themselves. They hate themselves because they do not have God! Pray for their happiness and that they find Jesus and let Him in. Hate is destroyed by Love.
 
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